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Marriage & Divorce - 29 November 2007

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my hubby had a bad experience with an ex . she had a baby while they were together and said it was his. turned out it wasnt. she took the baby away when it was 2. so he was the dad for awhile. and he hasnt seen it since. i have a 6 year old to someone else. we have been together for 5 years. i want to have a baby with him. first he says he doesnt want kids. then he says he would because its what i want. then he says he loves babies. he asked what time of year i want to try to have one. and if i want a baby shower or not. i am so confused!!!!!

2007-11-29 02:14:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have the guy's home and work phone number, address, email address and wife's name. How can i exact revenge on this guy?

2007-11-29 02:14:06 · 28 answers · asked by Dan T 2

I had a relationship with a man for a brief 4 month period. During this time we dated one another and spoke pretty much every day or night. We really connected on a level I haven't ever experienced. Well, during this time I came to find out that his ex was a bit crazy! She would call him 20 to 30 x a day. Rant and rave, throw hissy fits because she knew he was dating me. Anyway, he broke it off w/o an explanation and said that it wasn't me, it was him and that he couldn't find one thing wrong to put the blame on me somehow or find a reason to justify his feelings. This kind of sucked being that this man was telling me all the things I wanted to hear from a man! How I was perfect for him, etc. I've suffered with this for about 9 months now. In September, we ended up in bed together after 7 months of not! Since then, it's been an every other weekend event! What do I do????? HELP

2007-11-29 02:03:14 · 10 answers · asked by 305Roja 2

forget about it and acts as if it never happened?
But it happens over and over and over...

2007-11-29 01:59:14 · 36 answers · asked by ∂ιαиα †Matisyahu† 7

Yeah, I'm gonna get a lot of heat for this, but so what. I love/hate my mother. Still. I'm nearly 60 years old myself now, and after having all these years to resolve my issues with her, they still abound. She abused me, mistreated me, beat me till I bled...when my brothers did something wrong, I had to take their punishment. When I was 14, she married me off to the first man that asked. He beat me too. After 2 years, I begged to be allowed to come home, only to face more of the same crap. She lies, she makes up nasty stories about me. When I was 41, I found someone who loves me and is my match in every way. She couldn't wait to tell him lies about me. My ex husband made a death bed confession that he slept with her both before and after we were married. What kind of mother does bad things to their kids like her? She hates all women. Loves her sons. Yet she loves to emasculate men.
Oh well. Thanks for listening. Why does she continue to bother me? I don't even call her.

2007-11-29 01:55:16 · 19 answers · asked by P B 3

The question was a bit personal...... about pre***. It appeared to be a ligitimate question to me till I saw that he had changed his settings so people could email and IM him on here...(We can get into each others email accounts, and this is how I found he had posted the question.) He had been having a conversation with this chick that said he was getting her hot..

I asked him thru IM what he and this chick Toni were emailing each other about, and he was a little slow to reply. When he did, he just said "nothing". I looked in his email again real quick and the email was deleted. I went into his yahoo answers page, and he had deleted the question too....

I got hacked off at him, we had it out, and he said that I was over reacting. That he wasn't doing anything wrong. That he was being a good boy at work, just that he got bored and posted the question for the fun of it.

I want to know how you would have reacted, and how you would deal with the situation. Any suggestions?

2007-11-29 01:52:08 · 25 answers · asked by b_jayne_s 4

I should mention that my husband is not abusive. On the times that he becomes angry with me I end up just going to bed to escape. I just want to know how I can somehow deal with his bad moods without letting his bad mood affect my mood. Thank you.

2007-11-29 01:49:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I got into a huge fight and he moved out after I had moved all of his things out of our bedroom. We were married for many years and I just want him to get over the anger and come home

2007-11-29 01:47:17 · 5 answers · asked by need marriage help 1

As a single not bad looking guy, I have been approaced by many married women on the internet--they say its not cheating on their spouse even tho mosta our discusions center on sex. Is this cheating to u?? Where do u draw the line??

2007-11-29 01:46:13 · 22 answers · asked by eddie a 2

I got in a fight with my husband last night. I stood up for myself for once. I told him, he better start treating me with respect. Before this, I was packing my stuff when he was in the bath. He came out and asked what I was doing, I said, " I told you, you need to figure some things out. Until you do, I'm going to stay with my mom," He said, "If you go to your mom's, we're getting a divorce." I continued to pack my stuff. He went into the room, and asked, "This is what you really want?" I said, "I am not going to tolerate being treated like crap. And I'm not going to wait 10 years to find out you aren't going to change. He left for a few seconds. Then came back and said, "I don't want you to go." I said, "I don't want to either, but I also will not live like this for the rest of my life." I began to state the inexcusable things. He admitted for the first time, he was wrong, and said it would stop. I said, "It better get 100% better soon, like by Christmas or I'm gone. He said, "OK."

2007-11-29 01:42:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

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My husband recently went on a company trip to Phuket in Thailand. When he came back
1) I found a ticket to a strip club in his pants pocket while doing the laundry. He insists he didnt go, and said the ticket must be someone else's.
2)I found receipts for beer in his pocket while I was taking out the foreign currency. He says he didnt drink (i have something against drinking and he knows its) and he just treated his colleagues. Says his drink isnt ont the bill because he had plain water, which he never does.
3) I found lipstick on the collar & back of his shirt while doing laundry. First he said it wasnt lipstick then he said maybe someone accidentally brushed against him, then he said (when I was abt to leave) that some hooker had tried and he brushed her off.
4) Today I found another lipstick mark on another shirt from that trip. This time at the part of the shirt that is tucked in. He said he doesnt want to go thru another round of accusations.
Ha. So wat do u think?

2007-11-29 01:34:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am writing this quest. in this catagorie b/c there are more mature peope who answer. I am sick of getting teenage sarcastic answers! I am in a rut. I have a lot of insecuritiy issues that i believe stem from my childhood. I am not ugly , and my bf tells me every day that i am beautiful, i just still for some reason dont like myself. This causes a lot of issues with porn, certain movies, and in general girls in our relationship. Now i know a constant nagging can cause a rift in a relationship but how about being crushed by the fact that still your bf doesnt respect your feelings! than he says i care only about me...when in reality ,i revolve my world around him in every way. I think we are both overwhelmed with stress, and it casues many fights b/w us. We went from seeing and spending so much time everyday 2gether to hardly anytime and most of it is spent at his freinds houses me watching video games...i miss being happy w/him & i want to be happy with myself....any suggestions?

2007-11-29 01:32:34 · 11 answers · asked by Life....it blows! 3

The female is aware that the man is married, has met the wife , and tried to be her friend. What does that say about her?

2007-11-29 01:31:43 · 21 answers · asked by JRE 2

I live in a condo, and my neighbours is a blond thin wife in her
forties who looks much younger, two children (girls, 12 and 17), and her husband, a small (maybe up to her shoulder), stout, round faced man who seemed to adore her.
Well, then they did something with her walls, installing a satellite dish or something, but all of a sudden when they talk loud you can hear everything. Yesterday he swore at her with the dirtiest words possible, and today there was struggle, a chair thrown, and her crying out in pain and crying afterwards.
What should you do in such a situation? I put the music on, they still fight/throw chairs/swear louder than this! And I ever dreamed of marrying, is this for having a husband to smile at you on public and beat you up with chairs when no one can see it?

2007-11-29 01:19:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-29 01:19:27 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

what in the world am i to do? i am 39 years old and i think i led a pretty successful life, though i never went to the best college, i have a good business that has customers internationally even. but i never have met a woman, i have absolutely 0 experience not even been hugged by a woman, and i cannot find anyone, i tried different hair styles different colognes even those so called "super attractors" that have some weird chemicals in them. but nothing, i dont think im rude mean or anything what am i to do?

2007-11-29 01:19:11 · 10 answers · asked by Hi T 1

What is the point of love? I fell in love for the first time at the age of 22 and married whom I thought was my soul mate, which I never believed in before I meet him. Today I am now about 8 months through my first year of ever experiencing a divorce, which was one of the most painful experiences I have endured this far in my life. I am a very independent and driven woman. I have never been one to lean on another person for anything but I took that chance and this is what it resulted in.

2007-11-29 01:15:37 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2

presidential glass bottle that we know isn't worth much but it has a bird swing inside. Where the glass from the mold dripped and connected to each side of the bottle thus making it look like a birdswing. Does this add to or detract from the bottle. If I lose, I get to detail his truck. If he loses, he has to cook supper and do dishes! Thanks!

2007-11-29 01:12:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

insecurity? reasonable doubt? or guilt that i think about it?

2007-11-29 01:02:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my hubby &I have been married a year.when we first met , he told me that he loved me &knew he wanted to marry me. he is loving &sweet .after 6 mths , I found out that he was on a student visa.I offered him the option to get married to secure his immigartion staus. I just felt that since we loved each other,this was something that would eventually happen so why not do it.he refused at first,saying he would rather do it with someone who understood that it was more a deal than a marriage. he then reconsidered &we got married.now,I have always told him that I married him because I loved him &thats how I feel.we did not tell our families,since we had done this in a hurry,but I hoped in a year,he would porpose in the right way &pay my drowry to my parents.right now,it has been just over a year&he nevery speaks of these plans.I am an equal financial partner,I treat him like a king &adore him. he got in trouble & now I cant file his immigartion, no one can.

2007-11-29 00:59:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY MARRAIGE IS ON THE ROCKS, CAN U TELL ME WEATHER I WILL GET DIVORCE OR NOT, IS THERE ANY ANOTHER MARRAIGE IN MY OR MY WIFE;S DESTINY? PLEASE HELP ME TO GET OUT OF THIS BAD TIME IN MY LIFE , ANY ASTROLER HERE , PLZ HELP ME,

2007-11-29 00:57:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

we ve been divorced 10 months he has a gf who has 2 kids and he sees more of them than his own. Im single mum to 3 girls and get no help or abreak im battling csa and he wont even have them at weekends claiming his financial situtaion doesnt allow for it and says he no room! He has 3 bed house and is on 32k a year! but claims povery! advice please as im mentally and physically exhausted as there hard work

2007-11-29 00:53:22 · 11 answers · asked by wendy 1

Couple of years ago I had an accident and part of my face got burned and is scarred. Women see me and run the other way. A friend of mine introduced me to his cousin and she's a beauty. She's single and lives a quiet life and I found it hard to believe that she was single and not dating anyone and would even go out with me. She took one look at me and told me I have the bluest eyes she has ever seen in her life. We're dating now and she has never asked me about my scars. On the last date I put my arm around her and she looked at me and smiled and put her arm around me too. Last night she called and I was afraid to answer the phone, thought she was calling to break up with me. She left a message and said she was thinking about me and have a nice night Blue eyes. Blue Eyes is what she calls me and I like that. I don't understand why she didn't run the other way when she first met me. Is it crazy to say I feel wanted by her?

2007-11-29 00:50:09 · 26 answers · asked by Jeff 1

Okay so forever I have had nothing but drama with the mother of my fiancé’s “other” children. What happened was he cheated on me with this girl and got her pregnant about 4 yrs ago. I left him and then he stayed with her during that time and she got pregnant again by him. (VERY JERRY SPRINGER…I know)! Well anyway…….we got back together after awhile and began counseling and so on as we have two sons of our own and decided to make our relationship work. Since our relationship has been great….we get along great and are the best of friends. But the other women was very bitter that he came back to me and didn’t want her so she would slash my tires, break windows, call me and leave LONG CRAZY messages on my phone, try to fight me and so on. It has been wild. Well all of a sudden a couple days after her last incident of trying to get crazy with me she is all cooperative and even asked my fiancé if we could keep their girls while she went to work. Now remind you she hasn’t let him see them before this in 9 months. And now she is all “cool”. Which I am glad for….but I just wonder what are her motives and if I should keep my gaurds up b/c she is unstable and there might be something behind her coming to her senses. How should I assume this situation? Thank you.

2007-11-29 00:44:56 · 12 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3

my husband is really annoying ,unclean,smoker,involved with girls,escapist,he left me and my daughter alone in our home country and went abroad but when he found that it was hard for him to settle their on his own he tried to get a visa on my behalf because i m qualified now he is with me he was fine in the starting but now he again started those things

2007-11-29 00:40:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-29 00:36:37 · 22 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

His and yours daughter, 19 years old?

2007-11-29 00:24:10 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

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