husbands ex mistress wont leave us alone HELP?

Answer 1

call the police put a restraining order on her

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I have lots of knowledge in the dynamics of family law and other issues in which I wont get into, but In this day and age Im sure your familar with a restraining order? I must also add that in alot of these cases in which I,ve seen, only a mere 40% are attributed acting alone, what I mean by this is ex,s usually dont just keep coming around unless thier is something to gain, it,s kinda like leaving food outside of your home for a stray cat, take the food away and the cat leaves, so Im guessing maybe, and I use the term maybe with a 50-50 guess, that your boyfriend is feeding the stray cat, it may not be much, but its just enough to keep that door open, and when your boyfriend leaves her with the door open this welcomes in drama and disfunction for all that is involved. So I must recomend that you really keep your eyes open and your feelings at bay, this is a time to be smart and use your brain, as I,ve seen many men, who,s girlfriends thought the world of them, lie, and play both sides, so use caution. You can also talk with this woman, hook up with her in a place where their are many people, a local resteraunt, mall,library etc, and sit down and have a chat about why she wont leave you alone and let her know if it doesnt stop you will take action. But you must act on this, dont even tell your boyfriend of what you plan on doing, but do tell others of your intent on meeting up with this woman. Good Luck

Answer 4

Tell her once in writing to not contact you anymore. If she does after that point, then go file a harrassment suite with the police. If she violates that, file a restraining order.

Change your cell phone numbers, get home number unlisted, chance email accounts.

I have been there, done that with an old ex-gf of my husband's who just would not go away for nothing.

You could try just ignoring her and hoping she will eventually stop but if that doesn't work; do the harrassment suite thing.

Answer 5

Tell the trollop that you will get a restraining order to include phone calls, letters, personal appearances in your lives if she does not let it go and turn her azz in for harassment...........women and men who are so strung out on someone else's husband/wife need to spend a few days cooling off in jail when they cant figure out enough is enough already. And tell your husband no more mistresses..............who needs the headache

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Answer 7

You said husband ... so as it affects you as a couple I don't see why you both couldn't file for a restraining order ......

Just be sure he is seeking the same relief from her ...... as you want.

Good Luck ... or buy a rabid pit bull with aids .....that should keep her away.

Answer 8

Your husband isn't the only one that can get a restraining order on this nut- You can get one as well if she is harassing you too and calling your house or whatever.....

Answer 9

If he had an affair on you with this woman, then dump him and she can bother him all she wants.

Once the trust is violated in a relationship, the relationship is over. The trust will never be fully restored.

Take care,
Troy

Answer 10

Tell Mr. Ants in his Pants that he had better contact the authorities and file for a restraining order if he wants to prove to you that he wants Crazy D-bag out of his life and wants to rebuild a new life with you.

If he faulters...then pack his bags for him.

Answer 11

Your husband needs to be the one to tell her to leave you both alone or he will get a court injunction, if it is that bad. You have to both be firm with her. Good luck.