what in the world am i to do? i am 39 years old and i think i led a pretty successful life, though i never went to the best college, i have a good business that has customers internationally even. but i never have met a woman, i have absolutely 0 experience not even been hugged by a woman, and i cannot find anyone, i tried different hair styles different colognes even those so called "super attractors" that have some weird chemicals in them. but nothing, i dont think im rude mean or anything what am i to do?
2007-11-29 01:19:11 · 10 answers · asked by Hi T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i dont think im setting my standards too high, i have tried all women, short, tall, skinny, fat, red head blonde but they are all uninterested.
2007-11-29 01:26:14 · update #1
and i have done thats, thats where all the different hairstyles and cologne and clothes come from, online dating was where i met the fat women and they were really fat but still no luck, i dont really work anymore i just sit around do nothing
2007-11-29 01:32:18 · update #2
It sounds like you work a lot. You need to have some time for play time. Do you go out for a social drink now and again with friends? Can you ask a friend to introduce you to some gal pals? Maybe you could try dating online or join a charity organization or get active in church? If I were you, I would have one of my coworkers/ or women relatives give me some tips on dressing/grooming and then put myself out there for the world to see. There are lots of women looking for a nice man.
2007-11-29 01:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u seem way 2 nice yet the question is are u attractive enough to pull the rite person! i would try to look for someone maybe alot younger like myself maybe! i am unfortunately 16 but it may work where do u live and i think wen the time is right we could be connected if we are right for each other babe jus email me XXXXXXXXXXXXX
2007-11-29 09:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by x.X.x aimz x.X.x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax...be yourself!
Offer to buy a drink for a lady when you're out...
there's not many that'll refuse that!
And try to stop looking....you'll find that you meet the perfect partner when you're not even looking!
Good Luck!
2007-11-29 15:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried e-harmony? LOL Maybe you are just trying too hard! Go to church! Maybe you'll find a nice woman who wants to settle down!
2007-11-29 09:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on dude........if you go out and buy some women some drinks, there's NO WAY you won't get lucky. You've got women asking you out here, and they don't even see or know you. Either do that or get a hooker.
2007-11-29 09:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sorry! How have you tried to talk to them? Are you setting your standards way too high? what do you like? How do you dress? Are you funny do you have good sense of humor?
2007-11-29 09:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by dawn l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are trying too hard. Calm down and stop being so desperate. She will come to you when you aren't even trying...
2007-11-29 09:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you figure this one out let me know. ive tried it all and no luck.
2007-11-29 11:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by Fran M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I GUESS YOU HAVENT FOUND ME YET...LOL
2007-11-29 09:40:41 · answer #9 · answered by shayhi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ME?
2007-11-29 09:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by aais 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋