the four of us are going out for the evening and i will be hanging with her husband while the ladies are doing there thing?
i have nothing to hide but will he tell her what i say to him, like say im rude to a member of the staff?
2007-11-29 21:16:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe. Better play it safe and keep it cool for now. If your relationship with this guy develops later, you can open up more to him. However, at this point, his loyalty is to your girlfriend. Whatever you say may very well get back to her. In fact, drop a few compliments about her and I think everyone will be very happy.
General rule: Don't say anything that you can't stand by later.
2007-11-29 21:19:40 · answer #1 · answered by Lum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How things run nowadays is that everything evolves around gossip... what you dont want others to hear dont say it at all unless you can absolutely trust that person which is a hard thing to come by also. Dont try to be someone you arent either. will come back at you also. but yeah all I can say is most of the things said today passes between people like a mad virus. If you didnt mean to say it dont let it bother you tho. if the other person trusts you enough and knows you enough they will believe you and understand by how you act in the first place lol.
2007-11-30 05:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by Chuck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever be rude to a member of staff, no matter who you are with, those people are there to do a job, not to be abused, if they are doing a bad job then speak to their manager. I really cannot stand people who think they have aright to be rude to waiting staff, learn some manners!!!!
2007-11-30 05:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be careful what you say to anyone , not just to your gf's friends friends husband - period! Then, you won't need to fear what he tells her!
2007-11-30 05:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by Seng Kim T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always prudent to be on guard, watch what you say -- better that way than repent and regret later!
2007-11-30 05:19:42 · answer #5 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what he says and decide if he's worth talking to.
2007-11-30 07:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absoultey be careful what u say , anyrthing you say will follow the network back to your gf.
2007-11-30 05:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try something small an see if he runs with it but otherwise stay safe
2007-11-30 05:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by L J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be more profesional say what in your heart ,its alwalys be good to be honest
2007-11-30 05:19:52 · answer #9 · answered by fendi9477 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont say anything you dont want her to hear
2007-11-30 05:18:52 · answer #10 · answered by Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋