2007-11-29 21:49:57 · 21 answers · asked by BA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
FOR A BLISSFUL MARITAL LIFE, YES; OTHERWISE, IT'S USELESS.
While marrige could be paradise on earth for those who get it right in marriage (right life partners); it could be a living hell for those who get it wrong in it. It's not a crime if we err in life because we are made of imperfection (flesh), but, the courage to redress our errors and be determined not to stumble by such again is what makes us a success in life.
Thus, we must understand that running away from a blissful future commitment is not the best way to happiness, instead, it leaves us lonely and dejected. Financial liberation, yes; but, how will she meet her emotional needs if she remains unmarried? Perhaps, she wants to have a relationship when she likes and quits when she wants, but that only worsen her case. Because, most guys will be there to satisfy her libido, get money off her and sometimes leave her battered emotionally if not physically. Mind you, changing from one guy to the other will only make her loose her dignity as a woman and professional in her field.
What is more, our experiences in life are actually lessons to help us prepare for a brilliant outing in life. A philosopher said 'failure is an opportunity to begin again more intelligently', so why should we make ourselves a failure all because we err; it's not worth it. What she needs do is learn greatly from her earlier marriage to prepare for a blissful one. She must ensure she doesn't use any EUPHEMERAL CONDITIONS (looks,materialism or educational background) to make her next choice because they are steps to failure in marriage?
Nevertheless, she must take a break from the love scene because she could be very vulnerable NOW; all she needs now is make great friends for nothing less than a year or two. This is to help her get emotional and psycological stability thereby being stronger and wiser before choosing another life partner. This break is very important for any one in her position, if they must move on without making another grave mistake that could mar their life.
More importantly, she must bear it at the back of her mind that MARRIAGE IS NOT WORTH IT IF SHE ISN'T SURE OF ITS SUCCESS AND BLISS. Because IT IS BETTER NOT TO MARRY THAN TO MARRY AND BE ENDURING INSTEAD OF ENJOYING IT. But, believe me, marriage could be paradise if she takes her time to get the right partner.
2007-11-30 08:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by everforlove1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is necessary whether marriage or remarriage. This is your own personal decision which you have to take considering all the aspects regarding the legal implications, your past experience regarding matrimonial relationship, your personal requirements & the nature of the new man you want to marry. To enter a matrimonial relationship is very easy but to continue it is difficult & to get rid of this relationship is the most difficult which you must experienced. So I need not elaborate on any of these. It’s your life & you are the best person to decide about it, forget what the whole world say, do as you feel comfortable while making this decision. Best of Luck!
2007-11-30 07:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is never necessary but it's generally accepted due to social norms.In the case of a remarriage,it's purely the choice of the person concerned,the least of which should be sex,security or companionship.For such persons,it has be a very deliberate decision as they may carry over the scars of their previous relationship with them.However,should one find compatibility in a relationship,one should go ahead and give remarriage a fair trial.
2007-11-30 06:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That will depend. Do you really need a new partner? Do you really need a new partner so quickly? It doesn't mean that you are highly paid lady and you dun need a partner. Every woman needs somebody to talk to and it does not necessary mean a partner. Well you can still have a lot of partners but it does not necessary mean you need to remarry. Confused? Let things happen naturally. You will know when the right time come by. May God bless you.
2007-11-30 06:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by JJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes remarriage is very much necessary for every woman who is divorced or a widow because she needs a male in her life be it a father a husband a brother or a son even if she is a queen or a prime minister. And moreover biologically every human being needs sex. So if the lady does not marry then she should live in sin. Is it morally right. No relegion encourages to live in sin even though many are living now that way. You are educated enough to know that no single woman can live in peace because once lecherous men come to know about a single woman they start coming behind the woman like dogs just to have fun at her expense and satiate their lust. moreover having flings can cause lots of problems emotional and well as physiological. A woman can acquire aids hiv std vd and these type of infections. So life does not end with a divorce. Have a positive approach and go in for another marriage. If you know your priorities you can discuss them with the man in question so that there is no second divorce because of misunderstanding and incompatibility. go ahead get married to a man who has your way of thinking and is good with you. All the best
2007-11-30 06:08:35 · answer #5 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
It is not a necessity. Indeed, there would be so many women who do not opt to re-marry. But I think everyone requires someone you can talk to, you can laugh with, you can be friend with, you can make love with.
You do not wanna marry now, because your goals & career have high importance than anything else, but when the time would run out...you might feel sad on the decisions you made.
2007-11-30 05:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find the right person and decide they are right for marriage then you should do it if you feel right about it. If you prefer to be alone for awhile, that is fine too (and probably more comfortable).
You say highly employed so you dont need someone elses income to support you, do your own thing for now.
2007-11-30 06:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by Leizl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey gal, marry for love else please dont.
If you are young & successful, you've your whole life ahead and things are going good for you too. Many would love to be in your shoes. So yeah, celebrate yourself and hold your head high! Its one life and your life. Live it the you YOU want! If love comes along well and good else shape your life the way you want. Do those things you always wanted to do, visit those places you always dreamt of going! Nurture the child in you, listen to her, fulfill her cravings, make her dreams come true. A lot of times we get tied down and let go of the things that matter to us due to responsibility, obligations etc. At other times life ties us down and we make choices we never wanted to make in the first place. You have got a chance only few of us get. The chance to live again and shine once more. Let go of everything but dont let this one go ... Go ahead and fly high! Everything else will fall in place eventually including marriage, love etc. You will "know" it all yourself and it'll make you smile then! For now enjoy the ignorance, the confusion and live it up... my best wishes ;)
2007-11-30 07:18:26 · answer #8 · answered by Celine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends.Marriage is essentially for companionship,sharing,physical intimacy and closeness besides maintaining and furthering family as a social institution for ones as well as social benefit.If these things could be ensured without remarriage,why marry again?
2007-11-30 06:02:01 · answer #9 · answered by Thimmappa M.S. 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
remarriage or marrage in general is not necissary. If you can support yourself financially, then continue to do so. Wait for love to come along if you want to be happily married.
2007-11-30 07:06:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋