if a wife loved her husband would she expect him to do w/o medical treatment and prescriptions work 2 jobs?

Question

my friend feels he needs to work 2 jobs to make ends meet he needs serious treatment and has been without meds for awhile he says he never comunicates with his wife or anything else (not his choice) best not to argue. does she really want him?

he has blocked arteries and high blood pressure arguing would not be good he was suffering chest pains last week. his wife will not comunicate with him and he talks to me because we are friends he has helped me trough alot and i offered to get his prescription for him but he wouldn't let me because i work two jobs to pay my ex-husbands bills off that are in my name wish i could help him he is very kind and thoughtful and always has a good answer for me every day he calls me while he is working and i usually need this time but he also needs to talk and can't because of time restrictions he would talk to his wife if she would listen.

Answer 1

OK, what he need is to dump that crazy wife of his. I know you care alot for him, I can tell. I am not saying take control of his life, but you need to talk to him, sit him down, when you see him and tell him that if he doens't get to the doctor, he might not be around any more, that ould not be good. Get his but to the doctor, expecially if he is having chest pains. Keep me posted.

Answer 2

No, her wife doesn't love her and that's pretty clear, if you love a person there is absolutly nothing this guy would know that her wife wouldn't, specially when it comes to his health and same thing for the guy. The thing here has nothing to do if she loves him or not, the thing is this guy is finding on you what his wife is not giving to him, he is just inches before getting to the line of wanting to go out with you and possible cheat, or he has hopes to do it or just spend time with you. Leave him alone and he will figure things out by himself, first by getting rid of his wife which is the step number 1 to this situation, then reach a cheap life in order to work less or to have more money for what he needs, and then find the right partner. While you are there you are stopping him from moving on and do something nice with his life and succeed, anyway, is not your fault, it's his fault for being with that wife to begin with, there is not a lot you can do. But to answer your question, his wife doesn't love him, a wife that loves him would know what are the medications he needs without being a doctor, just by looking at his eyes.

Answer 3

Number one, does she have an insurance policy out on him? Bad Joke. If the guy is having serious medical issues, he needs to make that a priority. If he isn't well, he can't do one job much less 2. I would tell his wife, time to cut back, you work part-time while I seek medical treatment, then once I am well, I will pick up the slack and get us back on track. Unless she is a total moron, she will want to do this to get him better. If not, I think they have serious medical issues, but also marital ones.

Answer 4

Wonder why the wife doesn't work if it is that bad .She sounds like a selfish woman who doesn't show any love only necessities seem important in her life.Wonder what she will do if he kills over from no treatment for his problems.She is the one who rules the nest and unfortunately he's the chicken because he let's her do it.By nagging she gets her way it seems and mabe one day he will just fly the coop.She doesn't love him she needs him for all she can get.He should go to a Health Dept.and see if they can help him with his med.He should make it his #1 duty to get his med with the money he earns.

Answer 5

I would say no. My fiance doesn't want to let me work, and he wants to get 2 jobs, I tell him no, cuz i don't think thats fair, and when hes sick, im always the one to tell him to go to the dr, hes the one that fights it. I do this because I care about his safety and health, and i love for him to be home and happy with his family. If he chooses not to do those things, then thats his choice, but I at least let him know how how i feel about the situation.

Answer 6

well seems to me that she just using him to get to the money if she really cared she will try her best to get him some help. She needs to be aware of who the "GOD" is everyone has to seek "GOD" for themselves. "GOD" didn't bring that man to her for her to do him wrong. This man seems like he really care about her and it seems like the money is more important in her life at this momment. I will pray for this family and hope that GOD would open up her heart so that she can be the wife she should be. I wouln't nessicarily say that he doesn't want her but I can say for this she is being a little selfish!!!!

Answer 7

Maybe she does love him.. but he needs to talk to his wife.. if i ask my husband to do stuff for me all the time and sacrifice things and he doesn't tell me "stop".. most probably i won't know that he is going through bad times... Why doesn't he communicate with his wife? so what if they argue? i guess i don't quite understand what the problem is...

Answer 8

Why are they married?
He needs to get back on his meds or he may not be able to work one job and then what will he do. He needs to use some common sense. Why stay in such a miserable life.

Most Important....GET BACK ON HIS MEDS!!

Answer 9

For what? Obviously she doesn't care enough about him to get the medication he needs, and that's pretty serious! There's no unconditional love there though, I can tell you that for certain!

Answer 10

I would NEVER expect that of my huband. Its cruel and in the long term it could be serious for his health. Health first, everything else is second.