last week he found out i chatted with a guy friend, he was angry because i did not tell him that i chatted for 1 month n not telling him. we've been together for 5 years.. i once went for a drink with a guy fren n did not tell him untill he found out. he just cant accept me again for hiding things from him. we already discussed this n he said he cant accept for being a liar. he said he does not love me again just because of this. i am so sorry n he knows i love him n not cheating on him but the fact of me lying to him is the matter that he said he cant accept it. please tell me how do i win him back. please...
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2007-11-28 13:58:56 · 8 answers · asked by honeygirl h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You will have to prove yourself to him, he is not going to trust his heart to you again for awhile, you have hurt him to many times. Time is the only thing that will tell if you are going to be faithful to him this next go round, and you need to sit down and sole search yourself, and find out why you do the things you know will hurt him, then decide if you are ready to commit to this relationship with your whole heart dedicated to him. leave him alone for now, and let him figure out what he wants too.
2007-11-28 14:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by tiny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
went thru this as well... caught my wife texting, talking on phone, and emailing some guy she met one time in Vegas last year. Some of the conversations were down right RAUCHY... I mean like she has never talked to me.
IT HURT me and HURT real bad!! She did end it,, well at least cut it off to just a friendly chatter and I forgave... but it took time... about 2 months
2007-11-28 22:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by jdesey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, you really did yourself in. If he does take you back, it'll most likely be temporary until he finds a woman who's going to do him right ALWAYS. Trust is very important in a relationship.
I hope you've learned a valuable lesson.
2007-11-28 23:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him---he knows you as a liar & a cheat, and you can NEVER win that trust back.
Move on...this is a dead horse.
2007-11-28 22:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stuff like this is hard, but at least you feel remorse about it, but i honestly think you should tell him how you feel and talk it out. Show him through actions how sorry you are.
2007-11-28 22:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by nothing 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop chatting it up with other guys. You say you haven't cheated but your actions say you are considering cheating.
2007-11-28 22:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by jeff b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to regain your self esteem and realize this relationship has run its course.
Good luck.
2007-11-28 22:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give him time and space-
2007-11-28 22:02:02 · answer #8 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋