2007-11-28 12:18:36 · 65 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes it is alright. it is also a terrible idea.
2007-11-28 12:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by negaduck 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well, it depends. If you are money grubbing and he's got money, why not? However, if you want a marriage that actually works, a 20 year old with a 42 year old rarely does. A 32 year old with a 54 year old does work as age is less of a factor the older you are. Not sure why that is other than I KNOW your thinking and actions are very different at different ages.
2007-11-28 12:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by CarbonDated 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are a legal adult, and you have alot in common. Obviously he is going to age way before you will, it may not seem like a big deal now, but if you want children one day, it may become an issue. My husband is 15 years older than I am, we are happily married, been together for 9 years, but honestly there are days I wish he was closer to my age.
2007-11-28 12:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by Wannabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course it is alright. Well, before I say that... How old are you? If you are over 18 then I do not see a problem with it. Make sure you are ready for marriage.. don't worry about the age difference.
2007-11-28 12:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by RM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Absolutely not. The age difference is too great, he'll be used up when your just getting started if you know what I mean. Find a mate in your own age group, you'll be glad you did. It's more fun and rewarding growing up with someone you can relate to. A contemporary if you will, someone with similar likes and dislikes as yourself. Apparently your not sure about this union yourself, take our advice, DON'T DO IT.
Love, the hawk
2007-11-28 12:22:30 · answer #5 · answered by *kwah* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are at age then be my guest. But if you weren't at age no one would marry a young girl that was going to marry a guy 22 years older that would jil bait
2007-11-28 12:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by Adrianne R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if this is what you want but I don't think it is good idea. You need to find someone your own age and someone more suitable for your personality.Since there is such a big difference in the ages, you and he won't have a thing in common. If you decided to do it anyway, you will find out the hard way so don't say no body warned you. . . . .
2007-11-28 12:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who you're talking about i guess. Legally? Yes (as long as youre a consenting adult). You should think about the differences in mentality. If youre 20, and your husband to be is 42, then its a pretty big difference of where you both are in your life. Hopefully you know what i mean. Good luck!
2007-11-28 12:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by goldnstar04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your of age and love each other sure BUT remember, He may get in bad health later on and guess who will have to take care of him, You! So before I jumped the gun I'd first make sure he has lots and lots of money with everything willed to you. Because you can't live on love alone. Money talks and bullchit walks and best of all it's not just another four letter word. Luck To You!!!
2007-11-28 12:35:24 · answer #9 · answered by tennsmiles50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age---if you're 22 and he's 44 I would say no. If you're 32 and he's 52, then you might have enough life experience and enough in common to make it work. Just remember that he is going to grow older physically a lot sooner than you. If you love him unconditionally, it won't matter---if you don't, get out now!
2007-11-28 12:21:00 · answer #10 · answered by Marina 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends. how old are you? if you are to young id say dont get married at all, regardless of your spouces age. but if your 23 or older, and think its the right time for you, go for it even if he is 50 or 60 or watever. love knows no age. but just about everything else does, so be careful when it comes to marriage.
2007-11-28 12:21:05 · answer #11 · answered by michael n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋