she cheats on me every chance she gets. we have a child but are seperated but i still love her. her and our son are comeing to visit me for christmas... were getting a divorce. would it be worng to try and have sex with her just for the sex?
2007-11-28 18:14:13 · 28 answers · asked by cirus06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its not a closure issue... ive moved on.but i take sex when and where i can get it (as long as i dont have to pay for it.
2007-11-28 18:21:04 · update #1
Sure go for it
2007-11-28 18:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by rene1695 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A whore is also a woman, who too needs love. You have not stated why she needs to work at is a whore. No woman would likes to be one. It is therefore, best for you to decide, to divorce or to continue with the relationship. Have you not cheated on her too. Men are always trying to hide something.
Coming for Christmas denotes that she is still being accepted and can be forgiven, the past/wrongs, she may/might have done. Why can't you do the same, as you says "I still love her"
Who doesn't do wrong at one time or another?
If you treasure this relationship, forget the past and look towards the well being of the son, you both possessed.
2007-11-29 02:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by leopold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say no, I mean it's no different then any other dude out there screwing her. Yes I understand that someone may say how could you think of her in that way she's the mother of your child, but in reality she really doesn't give a s*** about your son either if she's bringing all these men around, she's more concerned about her happiness rather then your sons. 7-11 baby. lol Its the same way with women, they sure as hell don't want their child's father bringing around all this hoochie women when you've got the child. But you might not want to, don't know who she has screwed, could catch something unless you triple bag it, then douse yourself in gasoline after.
2007-11-29 06:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by Voss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't anyone ever tell you that you can't turn a whore into a housewife? ;)
Hey...I say get it while she is giving it away. Just be sure to use protection since she gives to anyone and everyone else, too. Go for it. Atleast with her you do not have to be Superman and feel any pressure to perform because you can do a "wham bam thank you Ma'am" and not feel guilty about it. Why try impress her anyway...Ya know?
2007-11-29 02:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by whatshername 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to have sex with someone who has disrespected you and degraded your marriage so badly ? I sense that you still have feelings for her and are hiding behind the guise of "it's just sex". Regardless, this is a bad move on your part, because either way, you are lowering your own standards.
2007-11-29 02:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by elizabeth w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ur trying to convince urself that you have moved on. You clearly state, "i love her" and u want to have sex with her, so u haven`t moved on at all. In fact, I think you`d take her back in a heartbeat, cheating and all. So in reality, ur only fooling yourself. Get your act together and get over it, other than your son, there doesn`t appear to be much to hang on for.
2007-11-29 02:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by flamingo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's rather ironical. You calling her a "whore" when you say you say "but i take sex when and where i can get it (as long as i dont have to pay for it."
You seem like a pair, why the sudden guilt?
2007-11-29 02:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by babasbhakta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt do her. if you love her, how could you possibly think about having sex with her AFTER other men have???? and WHILE you were married. as her husband you shouldnt want to follow after other men. thats disgusting and just wrong and demoralizing. have more respect for yourself and get rid of that s l u t. go find a real woman who knows how to treat you.
2007-11-29 02:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by abominusprime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i wouldnt do it. If you love her, then continuing to have sex with her during a divorce will make the split more painful.
2007-11-29 02:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to?
If she's what you call her, and you have no respect for her, then at least have respect for yourself and your child.
If the marriage is over, you have no passion for her, then having sex for the sake of sex is just crude.
Besides, if your child thinks you are cuddly with mom, he/she may think you are getting back together and the truth would hurt him/her.
Don't do it.
2007-11-29 02:21:26 · answer #10 · answered by Tauri Athena 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you really love her, or do you just want her for the sex? Two completely different things.
2007-11-29 02:21:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋