My husband and I have been married for 3 yrs and we have 2 children. He recently joined the Army. Our relationship has been on the rocks for at least 2 yrs. We've lost 2 apts, 2 cars, and lived in seperate househoulds 3 times. I've recently had to quit my job to move to his duty station. We are now fighting and barely speaking to each other b/c I don't have a job yet. We been here for a month. He thinks I sit around the house and do nothing. I take care of the kids ALL by myself and clean and cook everyday and actively look for a job. I can't make these people hire me. When he comes home from work he either looks at internet porn, races his remote control car, or talks on the phone. I feel very neglective and I'm soo unhappy. I try to talk to him but it turns into an argument. He thinks he right all the time. We've had these same problems in the past and things are Great when were on good terms but they never really last long. Is it time to move on
2007-12-02 07:11:38 · 7 answers · asked by leange1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
those answers are all crap! i GREW UP in an army houshold. its hard! damned hard! your under stress and he's under stress. from what you said, your both handling it not well. you need to change, both of you need to be more together and work together to solve these problems. but dont give up!
2007-12-02 07:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by Chuck M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep your mouth shut and don't say nothing until you get a job! Sell yourself a little more to get a job, and be on the go non stop looking for one! Burger King, Target, any job will do! Then see where does the lack of respect get better after you get a job! Because right now he acts this way because he doing it by himself!
2007-12-02 15:39:57 · answer #2 · answered by rita_hiemy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
when something starts bad, it ussually ends up bad, people ussually have problems in the late years of marriage, not on the first ones!!!
talk to a lawyer see what are your options
2007-12-02 15:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by suehellen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes some things are not meant to be..if you know deep within your heart that you have tried to make your marriage work and you're not gettin help from him either suggest counseling or consider moving on
2007-12-02 15:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by mamabear 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say it is time to consult a divorce attorney and be done with it . good luck and god bless.
2007-12-02 15:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know when you have had enough. Therefore pray on it and do what you fill you need to do.
2007-12-02 15:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Fay Q 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Only you can know that.
2007-12-02 15:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋