2007-12-02 09:12:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it depends on how naughty you've been....
Used up his money for lottery tickets?
Or whether you deserve it because you want it?
Domination sometimes equals pleasure for some....
:P You take care now
2007-12-02 09:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Before a man spanks his wife you both must agree to live that type of life style, rules and suitable punishments must be agreed beforehand. It also must be a private matter. A loving relationships can be the better for it. Spanking is also a great form of sexual foreplay both should not be confused.
I would love to meet someone that would be happy in that type of relationship
2007-12-04 15:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by dave19000 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am in a relationship kinda like that. I usually only get spanked when its for my own good. Like If I burnt dinner my man wouldnt spank me for it. But If I was drinking and driving or something like that then yes I would get my asss tore up. I also get erotic spankings.
2007-12-03 11:25:13 · answer #3 · answered by ProudSexySouthernGirl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It reminds me of the play, A Doll's House, by Henrik Ibsen. I don't know if you have read it, but in the play the husband treats his wife like a child, like spanking. A husband spanking a wife is belittling, in my opinion, because the husband is basically showing his superiority to his wife. I don't think its acceptable.
2007-12-02 17:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by jenn 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
There is never an excuse for physical violence. That's abuse.
He needs to find a way to communicate in a healthy manor.
It's totally inappropriate unless his wife is just really into it and wants it. Otherwise, it's childish and foolish on his part and he needs to grow up and deal with problems in a constructive way.
2007-12-02 18:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by joyh 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unless its just something kinky, then its a no no. No guy spanks a woman and thinks he's king of the jungle. He's a whimp and needs to try that with someone his own size. Your nuts for putting up with it. I wouldn't, lucky I don't have to.
You people need to be more careful when choosing a man, first of all, make sure he is a "man".
2007-12-02 17:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by Vic 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think my husband needs a spanking right about now...;o)
2007-12-02 17:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by jzmsmom 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
What is she 5 yrs old?Or do they have a sick fetish for spanking?
If it isnt one of the first 2 then it just means he is a control freak and she needs to get away from him.You will NOT find GOD commanding men to spank or beat their wives, and you wont find where ANYONE ever did that in the Bible.
2007-12-02 17:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by Joe F 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
it it consensual on both sides?
Is it done with a safe word if things get out of control?
Is there trust in the relationship?
Do you both understand the purpose of the spanking (pleasure with a point? pleasure? silly fun?)
In that context, with all answers being yes - i think it's perfectly fine if that is what you both want!
2007-12-02 17:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
if it is mutual game then yes , but if he spanks you because he thinks he is the boss , you need to split ! i spank my boyfriend for being naughty but he wants me to ! if your getting spanked un willingly you need to go !
2007-12-04 19:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by Gina L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If its done in a playful manner and he isn't leaving welts, I see nothing wrong with it. People can be kinky like that. But if its actual physical abuse, then no, thats very wrong and I am against that.
2007-12-02 17:16:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋