first i need to know how long its been since yall broke up and then how much do u talk to her on a regular because if u just broke up give it some time and if yall still talk then just back off for a while and let her talk to u so when u do talk to her u can say how much u missed her and stuff like that, then she'll be like he has changed and stuf like that, and she might realized she made a mistake.
2007-12-01 06:05:01
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answered by Anonymous
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Hi boffinator, If she dumped you there must have been a good reason as to why. It is possible this reason is still burning in her that is not allowing her to say yes. May be she has moved on and started another life.. You need to look at what happened to cause the end of the relationship and possible try to put it right, it is possible to persuade a person to say yes, but it will seem more of a push than a direct acceptance. You might try winning back her heart with sincere propositions with no strings attached, (IE dinner, pictures, quiet talks in a place where she feels safe) and work towards showing her that things will be different. But if she is determined, no amount of persuasion can force her. In the mean time move on with your life, life will become a up hill struggle if you continue to hold on to something that may never happen. Good luck....David
2007-12-01 06:41:25
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answered by David Wilson 3
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Hi There!
Well, you don't give much information as to what happened between the two of you. You also did not mention if you had already tried other ways to persuade her. If she really is giving you a hard time then maybe you need to let her know one more time how you feel about her and then you need to be patient and give her, her space. Please don't let this depress you. Live your life. If she comes back then great! If not then later for her. Life goes on...Believe me there will be another!!!
All the Best!!
2007-12-01 06:09:13
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answered by Misty 2
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Unfortunately there may not be any way for you to get her back. You might try asking her why she broke up with you and see if there is a way to fix things and start again slowly. In most cases by the time people get to the point of wanting to break up there is no way to get back together. So take some time, live your own life and try to find someone else. If later on she realizes she misses you and you still want her great but you cant sit around waiting for some one to love you. You'll waste the time you have to find someone else better.
2007-12-01 06:07:49
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answered by pops_g_99 1
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Don't waste your time. If she dumped you, there's a reason for it in her mind, whatever the reason was. It will hurt, but you will just have to accept the fact that she does not want to be with you anymore and move on.
2007-12-01 06:03:01
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answered by Anonymous
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hey mate if she don't want you back then its time to let go or give her time to see if she changes her mind but how long you going to wait you cant put your life on hold forever you never know what your missing out on for your own good think about moving on good luck mate you deserve to be happy and if you love her let her be happy to chin up.
2007-12-01 06:49:39
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answered by Anonymous
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Faith, prayer, patience, persistence.
You may have to demonstrate some type of change ... whatever behavior she might feel caused the break up.
Do the best you can, speak sensibly, don't rush it, and if she chooses to move on, you will know you tried your best.
You do not have to be loved, in order to love. Determine to love her for the rest of her life, even if she never loves you.
2007-12-01 06:12:53
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answered by Calvin James Hammer 6
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Nothing once a girl decides she don't want to be with you there is no changing her mind. It will never work out in the long run.
2007-12-01 06:01:58
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answered by blueman2 5
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Don't even try. Find another and this time, try to be a guy that's worth hanging on to.
2007-12-01 06:02:20
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answered by TatersPop 5
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okay, either- make her jelous, as in acting all flirty around other girls wen shes around ( which is kinda mean ) or buy new clothes, have yr hair cut, and look kool, or send her flowers, and chocolates and write her a letter saying how much u miss her and would she be interested in getting back togther, but dont go crazy or she will htink u are some mad stalker person & she wil avoid you- good luck and be romantic :D
2007-12-01 06:05:50
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answered by Anonymous
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