I have been married 11 years ..
My husbands family , is very self centered , cynical , egocentrism , They pretty much think there sh!% don't stink...
They do not talk to me , they treat me like i dont exist , and when i have tried to talk to them , they talk over me ... My husband acts like , im imaging it , i think he actually see it now , but he wont admit to it , he just try to keep me company , when we are around them ..Im so sick of these..i stay away from them as much as possiable , when i am around them , i actually get sick to my stomach now
2007-12-01 07:20:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
U treat them as if they don't exist! Don't live ur life for others, live it for YOU!
2007-12-01 07:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from them. Don't make excuses to your husband why you will not participate in his family's functions.
I also suggest marriage counseling for the both of you. You should be his #1 priority, and if he cannot see that his family is disrespecting you, maybe a neutral person (like a counselor) can validate your feelings to him.
Good luck!
2007-12-01 07:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by I do 26.2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
very simple #$% @ 'em, must be a carbon copy of my hubbys family of origin. The guy is a great famous osteopathic pathologist who probably has a net worth of a couple mill, but donates to charity and has 2 nephews that he ignores, remember it is THEIR LOSS..loss of the kids, your company etc...and tables have a way of turning, but you can be LUCKY you dont have these disfunction junctions in your life, the same with the rest of his Fn family!!! refuse to go to family functions, be polite but firm. AND STAY AWAY...you will be much happier..
2007-12-01 11:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by sphynxcats3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they act better than you then don't go around them if you don't have to. I was married to a man whose family acted like they were better than me and I could not even be comfortable around them. I just could not stand any of them and my ex-husband also acted better than me. Later on I realized that they were not better than me. After I got my divorce I am no longer welcome in their home and I really do not care. I am happy to finally be out of that family.
2007-12-01 07:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is your husband's duty to put YOU first. HE needs to tell his family NICELY that if they cannot acknowledge you, and talk with you, that you BOTH will not be coming around them much. It is the same way at my in-laws. They don't talk to me much, and they NEVER talk to my husband (their son and brother), so he NEVER wants to go to their home. I don't know why people are this way, but one day they will find out that their poo-poo DOES stink!!!!
2007-12-01 07:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a game out of "killing them with niceness."
Just be yourself and know that you are a beautiful person, even though emotionally sick people like them cannot see it.
Good luck. Remember... make a game out of it.
2007-12-01 07:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your problem isn't your husband's family.
It's your HUSBAND.
If he doesn't respect you enough to require people (ANY people) treat you well, then he is NOT respecting you.
Why do you want to be married to someone who doesn't respect you?????????????
2007-12-01 07:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well force him to see it if he can just dont be around when they are there or dont have them over.
2007-12-01 07:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋