There was alot of bad on both sides. I tryed to have him deported took back a truck that i payed for ect. He ignored me after he went into the military didn't help me when i was sick went to strip clubs. This all happened in a 4 months span when he was in the military after 3 yrs of marriage. We are getting divorced the other nite i called him he was desperate to meet me other times he is rude and screams and tells me how much he hates me ect. I'm not liking him so much either. Well we ended up talking and i miss him i'm sure he does me too. we slept together he said we still are getting a divorce and hope he didn't confuse me by sleeping with me. It was very sad and started to cry I could tell he felt bad He later ask me before we left the hotel that we could do this till we get divorce meet for sex but we will still be divorcing this has broken my heart is there any chance he loves me or is this discusting? why wouldnt he do this with someone els?
2007-12-01 06:52:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm hoping he does love or care for me because after trying to deport him why would he sleep with me ? thats just such a bad thing to get over no matter how horny you are and he has done alot of things to me but i know why i did it because i love him. Do you think he loves me ? i don't understand this but it is breaking my heart.
2007-12-01 06:54:08 · update #1
girlfriend, i am going through something similar, you have to do what is best for you and you only i would get revenge i would say when he ask's for sex tell him no not tonight because you have a date, and hopefully he may feel what you have felt for a long time, and finally strip clubs are for loser guys who don't know what a great wife they have at home and are only thinking with what's in there pants.
good luck and stay strong sister
2007-12-01 07:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by babyplease 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants sex with no commitment, no strings....there's no love here, Hon...he's using you to scratch an itch and I guarentee after the divorce or close to the divorce being granted he'll come to you with " we can still sleep with each other even tho we're divorced....."
It's a booty call. Since there is no love on his part I consider it masterbation with a warm, willing body. Period.
So it's up to you. Do you want this kind of relationship? or are you deserving of a man who will commit & respect you 'cause Honey, the soon to be ex does NOT respect you.
He's using you.
Have nothing more to do with him. Divorce and move on. He doesn't see you as a whole woman, just as a certain part of the female anatomy he can have a jolly old time with. You are not disgusting sweetie...just upset, confused, and still in love with the jerk. he knows this and is playing you. he's the disgusting one.....drop him like yesterday's trash.
2007-12-01 07:17:10 · answer #2 · answered by The Original GarnetGlitter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man does he have you figured out your a complete fool for letting him get to you like that he just wanted the sex and you gave it up. It is called he has you wrapped around hisd littel finger and knows if he gives you a sob story you will sleep with him. He is munipulating you plz. wake up and smell the coffee. Next time he calls tell him that you are not his little tramp and he can go find a hooker if he wants sex that you want nothing more to do with him, or just tell him your busy and have no time for him now or in the future!
I know it sounds harse but letting him get away with this crap he will continue to do it.
Your getting a divorce enough reason to stop seeing him.
Totally a reason not to sleep with him what if one of those times you get pregnant do you want that?.
2007-12-01 08:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I dont think anyone else WILL have sex with him, so he wants to get it from you. I think he is just using you. I know that makes YOU feel bad, but dog gone it----it is up to YOU to realize how valuable and lovable you are, and NOT settle for anyone who treats you like this. There IS a man out here who will love you like you deserve to be loved. YOU are not the loser in this situation. HE IS. So, please try to forget about him and NOT meet him for sex. He doesn't deserve sex with you.
2007-12-01 08:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of its important to look at what shop the receipt is from besides as what became into offered. it may desire to furnish you clues as to if he became into skipping artwork to do something he shouldnt have been doing. If its something undemanding, like groceries, perhaps the time became into incorrect. attempt and think of back to whilst he offered the object on the receipt. in keeping with possibility its from a grant shop and he had to %. something up for his place of work? If that doesnt help, i could call, or circulate to the shop, and ask the cashiers if the time is regularly proper and that i could enquire on the subject of the object that became into offered on the receipt. as quickly as lower back, if its something minute, I wouldnt difficulty approximately. yet needless to say if its something that he shouldnt have been determining to purchase then you could unquestionably carry it up.
2016-10-10 00:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like me....leave him, to him it means nothing...you are the emotional one. move on with your life. hanging on to something that does not exists will only confuse you more and surely that is not what you need right now!
2007-12-01 06:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by wife in South Africa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a guy who wanted sex and got what he wanted. sounds to me like both of you are immature and shouldn't be together
2007-12-01 06:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by DJ M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away. he's a manipulative bastard who just wants sex, and is getting what he wants. move on, and get a divorce.
2007-12-01 06:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋