you have been seperated from your kids father or mother for ten years( not due to any painful or hurtful experiences) and you see each other all the time because of the kid(s) and all o fa sudden he or she asks you for some a** . Even though you haven't in years! Is this like a joke or something or is he or she trying to prove that they can still "get that" like alot of folks like to prove now day? HHEEEEEEELLLLLPPPPP!!!!!!!
2007-12-01 05:42:42 · 12 answers · asked by Runteldat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ignore it. You know that dog bites.
2007-12-01 05:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to know why someone would do this. If the request sounded like a request for sex for the fun of it...then they may think since you are on good terms you would be willing to have a friend-f**k for old times sake...Could be they haven't been with anyone in a while and just decided to see if they could get "lucky". You are convenient and they don't see you as a threat ...as in wanting to have a relationship. I would chalk it up to idiocy and leave it at that.
2007-12-01 13:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there-done that! Why look back-don't EVEN go there! Wherever he has been going to pleasure himself-telling to keep going there! You can do bad all by yourself-you don't need him to take you back down memory road drudging up the same ole tried junk. Kick that-to the curb! Let him be there for the kids only! You don't need anyone that bad! You can't move forward if you are constantly looking back! I think-you get my drift! To the left--to the left----
2007-12-01 19:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by MellyG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly it's between you to adults if you do. as long as you two are in relationships with other ppl it should be ok as long as both of you are comfy with it. you should asked your ex to give you some out of the blue to see what is said. i know you don't want to seem like your easy are could be got because you were with them b4 but hey you had it b4 there's no law that says you can't get it again. plus be careful if you do allow yourself to go back there because you could open up a can of worms that you expect to open. meaning anything could go wrong are right but it's your choice ok.
2007-12-01 13:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by onewithoneself 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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alt="Click here to join therealfamilylife">2007-12-01 13:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's disrespectful to you. Your a human being not a play toy. I would rather get at it with a stranger than an ex with this attitude. He obviously isn't getting enough and you have become an option.
2007-12-02 03:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by lenzix5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that brotha is still trying to prove he still got it. I say don't let him in or he will know he got it like that.
2007-12-04 04:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by OUT OF ORDER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats messed up!! if the person really needed some and they want to give then wear a rubber and go at it but i think its kinda weird
2007-12-03 15:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell dat ***** he** naw! Those days are ova! Trust me, you will feel stronger and become a better person if you do! Dont give up the control!
2007-12-02 03:24:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
me ex wanted to go down on me every time i seen her for years after the divorce!
2007-12-03 08:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋