Marriage & Divorce - 1 December 2007

I found out my husband is cheating. l caught him sending email to his exgirlfriend and challenged him on the spot, what did l get was a hard slap on my face and throughly beaten that night. l got bruises all over my body. l hate violence and men that beats their wives. Now l view him as enemy and hated him with passion. What can l do, l love him and my life is revolved around him, but ever since then l don't trust him anymore.

How can l be independent again and regain my self esteem? My family says l should come over and start working with them, but l dont want to leave my husband . Pls help,

2007-12-01 10:39:24 · 17 answers · asked by feranmi 1

2007-12-01 10:07:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was at my wives company part and there is this guy that is, i guess really good friends with my wife, he is really dorking looking but not that’s not point... he started dancing with my wife all freaky and such... i told my wife i didn't appreciate it... but she said there is nothing wrong with dancing, that they are friends and that he is just a big goof off.... should i be worried about this guy, he is married and has kids... is dancing something that a guy can perceive as something sexual? Or am I just loosing my mind… I am a bit of a jealous guy…

2007-12-01 10:04:27 · 12 answers · asked by turbospd 1

and discuss having sex?

2007-12-01 10:01:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

awhile ago they kind of had this fling going on behind my back and when i found out i confronted both of them and we talked....but it didnt end...

i later found out that they had sex in MY room, which really pissed me off!!! my mom kept going on and on about how good he was in bed and how she said it wasnt her fault, they just got drunk. i was so mad i wouldnt talk to her for a week.

a few days ago my mom tried to freak me out by saying she got engaged to him, i didnt believe it but he finally told me it was true!!!!!! i found out why and it was because my mom got pregnant!!! i told my dad and me and him are trying to figure out what to do about all of this..... we honestly dont know and my mom's baby is due in less then 5 months. the wedding is in 3 months and we havnt even made the invitation list! please help, any advice at all???

2007-12-01 09:39:47 · 36 answers · asked by angle1 1

2007-12-01 09:39:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-01 09:35:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have issues with my wife. she is constantly calling me lazy and good for nothing, she doesnt work and does a lot of house work which i help her out with but now i am sick, to the point where i can barely even remember the things i done an hour ago and im not very helpful at all. please dont yell at me im not trying to get out of my responsibilities but she is constantly yelling at me and calling me names, how can i get her to relax and understand that i will get it all the work done even though it takes me a while? i also have to build a lot of computers for the business i run. please help?


she may be mad at me cause i wouldn't give her access to the business account though, that might have been quite selfish of me to do. but what am i to do?

that is the first part of my question, but i forgot to add some details and explain. well i do enjoy helping my wife it isnt that its just now that i got a bad cold and thats what i meant by being sick, i been just tossing clothes lately

2007-12-01 09:31:09 · 12 answers · asked by Peter P 1

2007-12-01 09:25:56 · 23 answers · asked by brutus 1

2007-12-01 09:19:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't trust the other woman,she has been confiding in him too
much about her problem's.She got a DUI and can't drive her mother can give her a ride but does'nt want too.She has two
girl's and lives across the street with her mother and does'nt allow my daughter play with her girl's.Should I let my husband know that it is not ok with me and that it makes me uncomfortable.

2007-12-01 09:18:59 · 27 answers · asked by ? 2

Can one request for maintenance during a legal separation or during the process of filing a legal separation?

2007-12-01 09:16:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

continually help his ex-wife with things around her house? Little things like hooking up a stereo? Even when she told him not to bother she would find someone else he insisted on doing it anyway! If he is like this now - how will he react when he finds out she is seeing someone else? Is it possible for a man to be happy with one woman but still want to maintain contact with this ex - for reasons other than children?

2007-12-01 09:13:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yesterday I asked a question having doubts about my wife and I was surprised by some comments. I said I had my doubts about my wife's infidilily when she was overseas and spend time with a distant cousin for a couple of weeks on holiday. When she returned from the holiday she had shaved her p..y which she never have done before and never done afterwards. Next week she is going overseas again visiting family where her cousin also lives and a couple of days ago I noticed she has shaved again. From the comments yesterday when a woman shaves her p...y she is going to be up to no good. From woman point of view could this be right.

2007-12-01 09:08:56 · 32 answers · asked by maleinaus 1

my husband and i recently split b/c he refuses to get help for his anger issue and our infant son does not need to be around that situation. what is fair for child support? We are going to get a dissilusionment (how fitting to think that we where dissilusioned when married eh) and we need to come up with terms to agree on.

2007-12-01 09:04:19 · 6 answers · asked by hamletsjadedlover 3

I have a man that lives in England that is wanting to move to the states. I am wanting to marry him when he gets here. I love this man very much. Can I do this and how soon?

2007-12-01 09:01:59 · 9 answers · asked by smootheyesforyou 1

There is a mormon bishop who has been very rude to me for several years now, (I am not mormon) whom I caught in a compromising position with a married woman. he is married also. They both turned red and said nothing and I said nothing and went on my merry way. Because I cannot stand this man I want to tell his wife. I do not know the other woman. Should I tell or keep mum?

2007-12-01 08:56:39 · 20 answers · asked by Ginger 6

2007-12-01 08:45:14 · 37 answers · asked by the gr8t one 5

2007-12-01 08:40:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has today off and he knows how sick I am because I was in ALOT of pain all throughout the night, and he just went out with my daughter to a restuaraunt knowing that his wife is extremely sick at home. How would you feel if your spouse did that to you?

2007-12-01 08:40:01 · 28 answers · asked by Behave 5

To make a long story short,I left my husband last January because he has a drinking problem. He told me I had to leave the house because he couldn't get sober with me in the house with him. (I was leaving him anyway because it wasn't fair to our girls anymore.) Anway,he met another girl and they are having a baby in a couple of months.(I guess he didn't care about having a family with me) He was paying me $100 weekly but he stopped that 2 months ago. He lives in Ga and I live with my parents in Va now. He had all the house stuff shipped here in Va because the Military would only ship it here to his hometown.(of coarse he kept the cars,the big tv,computer,cameras,all the good stuff) Now he wont tell me where the storage space is and is saying "what did you do with it,did you sell it?" It is like he is trying to frame me. I would love to go and get my stuff but I can't because he is saying I sold it.I don't have a lawyer because I can't afford it.What can I do?

2007-12-01 08:33:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like in countries like Iran and Pakistan. This intrigues me for some reason...

2007-12-01 08:32:59 · 8 answers · asked by Iceprincess 2

Can you recommend a cheap detective/locator agency.
I need to get child support,,thanks..

2007-12-01 08:27:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that paying child support is a responsiblity a father should have if he is not with the mother or the child, but what if you owe back child support because you didn't know you had a child and all of sudden a child comes out of the blue and you are tested and proven to be the father. Why should you be treated badly if you didn't know you were the father, Now that woman should be treated badly because she didn't notify you or child services until she started to either have financial problems or started to get greedy. I know that in this every judgemental world people precieve, that everyone has babies by there wife or girlfriend, there are irresponsibile people who get women pregnant on one night stands. So if he didn't know he had a child, how could a judge make a ruling on back child support if you were not financial or legally responsible for that child until you get that paternity test. what is you guys opinion?

2007-12-01 08:24:22 · 10 answers · asked by lilgotti56 1

she left me a year ago for another person and i cant find her anywhere, How can i divorce her if i cant find her.. I hired privite dectivies and everything!! I dont know what to do? pleas helP THanks

2007-12-01 08:14:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

When the weekend comes my family and I are bored and don't really have many things to do in our area...Any fun suggestions?

2007-12-01 08:10:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lately My Husband has been pissing me off so i call him fat. and Call Him Names For No Reason. Then I fight with him. He dosnt fight back because he cares about me HEHE.. Anyways Is ok to beat your husband for pissing you off? and Do you think my husband has the right to leave me? Becuase he thinks he dose

2007-12-01 08:08:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've dated my boyfriend for 2 years but I feel like I'm still not ready to commit. He hasn't proposed yet, but I want to make sure it's okay in case he does. Thank you!

2007-12-01 08:02:28 · 18 answers · asked by Nicolle 4

He acts usually like he does not give me any choices. If I say NO he looks at me like I did a really terrable thing....I feel like his child or so. Whatever he thinks is good and the only one. He gives many arguments to support his choice and reject my choice. If I do not agree he stops talking to me. He says or "this" or "nothing". Mostly we have money issue. In general, he is a nice person. I just got married with a hope of building a nice happy family and I really do not think about a devorce right now. I want to try to fix this situation.

2007-12-01 07:59:48 · 12 answers · asked by Kamila 2

I don't like discussing other men when we are together, it feels wrong, dirty and sinful. Am I just being a prude. He says it is disappointing that I don't want to please him. He also said that there is nothing wrong with it because it is all about me, he doesn't want me to be with anyone else and he doesn't want to be with anyone but me.
He already knows all about my past so it is nothing new. Plus I was 18 when I met and we got married years later. I don't have that many stories to share (about 5, and none of those are actually intercourse). He likes to hear the details. I am just wondering, if I give in, are we going to have to talk about these same 5 stories for another 50 years for him to get turned on. I am worried that he will get bored and he will want to take it further. As a Christian, I think this feels like I am bringing someone else into something that should be between he and I. This has just come up and we have been married 10 years so I am a taken aback. Advice?

2007-12-01 07:52:28 · 10 answers · asked by happylady 1