There is a mormon bishop who has been very rude to me for several years now, (I am not mormon) whom I caught in a compromising position with a married woman. he is married also. They both turned red and said nothing and I said nothing and went on my merry way. Because I cannot stand this man I want to tell his wife. I do not know the other woman. Should I tell or keep mum?
2007-12-01 08:56:39 · 20 answers · asked by Ginger 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He has been rude for years. Him being caught just happened. I include he is Mormon cause that is one of the reasons he has always been rude to me saying I am a sinner and here he has sinned. He who is without sin should cast the 1st stone well he has been stoneing me with words for years.
2007-12-03 05:49:50 · update #1
Tell it! Donnie and Marie deserve better! That Bishop is a complete DOLT!
2007-12-01 09:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Vengeance is never appropriate. On the other hand, such a man should not be allowed to be a Mormon bishop. Perhaps telling his wife would result in his removal. He is obviously deceiving his congregation, if your story is true. Don't tell his wife out of vengeance, but perhaps you should tell out of concern for the welfare of your Mormon neighbors and friends.
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2007-12-02 04:37:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What will you gain by stooping to this man's level? Well, let's see ... you might have some small, temporary satisfaction, but in the end you'll just feel icky about yourself. In addition, you'll hurt this man's wife. Or, more possibly, she won't believe you, he'll deny it, and you'll end up looking like a liar.
The best thing to do is to keep mum. What goes around ALWAYS comes around and this man's rudeness will come back to bite him eventually.
In all things maintain your own honor and dignity, and remember that none of us are perfect.
I hope this helps. :-)
2007-12-01 17:07:10 · answer #3 · answered by kyeri y 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does your question even include the fact that he is Mormon? He is cheating. Several years have past and you have no juice in threatening this now. You should have done it, if you were going to do it, at the time it happened.
2007-12-03 11:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by Fishgutts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never seek revenge and always keep to your own business.
If you say anything to anyone you may end up looking like the person with the problems.
Besides, aren't you a sinner as well?
Good luck.
2007-12-01 17:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would not say a word. According to the bible, they will reap what they sow. The two will be discovered soon enough without you saying anything. I'd just be careful that you don't get caught in the backlash or accused of spilling the beans.
2007-12-01 17:46:37 · answer #6 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight for the truth and support honest people. Make others in a similar situation than this guy to be more responsible, don't keep a word inside of you and let the world know it. It's the right thing to do.
2007-12-01 17:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by livingthe30s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your not jealous at all. It tell me this man is a jerk and a cheater. I wouldn't do revenge because it will come back to you. If you believe in God then pray about it. This man will get caught one way or another. I just feel bad for his wife.
Just leave it alone and let God handle it. He won't let him get away with it
2007-12-01 17:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by conny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep quiet and he will suffer even more because he will keep wondering and being scared of when and how you might tell his wife. Feeling guilty, he could probably end up confessing to her first and you get a win-win situation.
2007-12-01 17:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by terliuke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the woman's husband and the Bishop's stake president and then leave it alone.
2007-12-02 08:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by Ender 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, let karma catch up with him. Have you ever heard this?:
"One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people. He said, “My son, the battle is between two ‘wolves’ inside us all.
"One is Evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.
"The other is Good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith.”
"The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather: “Which wolf wins?”
"The old Cherokee simply replied, “The one you feed.”"
2007-12-01 17:09:16 · answer #11 · answered by Jen70 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋