awhile ago they kind of had this fling going on behind my back and when i found out i confronted both of them and we talked....but it didnt end...
i later found out that they had sex in MY room, which really pissed me off!!! my mom kept going on and on about how good he was in bed and how she said it wasnt her fault, they just got drunk. i was so mad i wouldnt talk to her for a week.
a few days ago my mom tried to freak me out by saying she got engaged to him, i didnt believe it but he finally told me it was true!!!!!! i found out why and it was because my mom got pregnant!!! i told my dad and me and him are trying to figure out what to do about all of this..... we honestly dont know and my mom's baby is due in less then 5 months. the wedding is in 3 months and we havnt even made the invitation list! please help, any advice at all???
2007-12-01 09:39:47 · 36 answers · asked by angle1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah. Whatever.
2007-12-01 09:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think your mum has been blinded by love and the consequences that she will pay for this mistake will be horrendous. To be honest she is not gulty of cheating because you quote ex-boyfriend. However, your father must be feeling pretty terrible.Personally, I would detach myself from the situation. Try to keep busy and keep your support to your father, be there if your mum needs you but avoid going to her until she sorts herself out. Sometimes these scenario's work out and the new married couple have many happy years together. But I really sympathise you in this most difficult situation.
2007-12-01 10:51:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That is a Jerry Springer Episode just waiting to air on TV.
I think you need to sit your mom down and tell her how you feel. It sounds as if she is trying to be younger than she really is. Maybe trying to re-live her life and start over again. I don't know. They say that females go through a mid-life crisis too. She is making a huge mistake. Not only will the marriage probably end in misery, but she will be a single mom with a baby and she will have lost her eldest daughter in the process. I definitely wouldn't live with them. Move in with your dad.
Talk to your mom, tell her like it is and leave.
2007-12-01 09:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by mamabee 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would disown her.
Thats so horrible, I wouldnt deal with that bullsh*t. And he shouldnt be marrying her just because she is pregnant.
If for a wierd reason they do fall in love. Then they should get married, especially since all that they seem to have between them is a night of drunken sex.
Im so sorry for you and your dad.
Hopefully he can move on to someone with morals.
2007-12-01 10:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by **Laura** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously I thought my family was dysfunctional that is just gross with a capital G. I think you have to be shocked and how can you seriously not be therapy your ex BF is going to be your step-father WTF.
I wish you all the best and hope that you are getting some support from loved ones because this is just messed up.
God Bless and Best Wishes.
2007-12-01 09:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this happened to me I wouldn’t be trying to help her plan her wedding that’s for sure. In fact I would probably have very little to do with either of them. You should move in with your father. Try not to blame it on the baby, it’s not its fault its parents have so low morals. How cliché too - they have to marry because she got pregnant, their marriage will probably be lucky if it lasts 10 years.
2007-12-01 10:12:55 · answer #6 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the world are you even trying to get together an invitation list for? Is this a joke? An invitation to Mr. and Mrs. Trash? If this is true.........you and your dad need to go on and live and normal life and let your mom be stupid.
2007-12-01 09:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
C ya at Jerry Springer with your mom and bf,then later at Maury for the DNA test,and I hope they don't find out the baby is actually your dad's if so see ya at Dr.Phill.
2007-12-01 16:58:04 · answer #8 · answered by brownsugarbr02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats wrong with your mother? and you are going to be part of this? where is your dad? are they still married? you should not take a part of this you mother should have never let this happen! if you are old enough to be on your own then move out, go to your father's, I imagine they are divorce let your mother leave her trashy life since she make her choice and did not respect you. I would not want to participate in this mess.
2007-12-01 10:29:02 · answer #9 · answered by shopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't anything you can do. Unfortunately your mom has not morales and the guy isn't worth words. I hate to say it but you will need to move on with your life and accept your new sibiling. Can you move in with your dad ? That way you don't have to be around the 2 idiots.
Focus on something else. You will find someone worth your time.
2007-12-01 09:47:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
You've really got to be kidding! I wouldn't be worrying over a invitation list I'd be moving to my own place and feeding Mom with a long handled spoon!
2007-12-01 09:44:16 · answer #11 · answered by Nasra 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋