I don't trust the other woman,she has been confiding in him too
much about her problem's.She got a DUI and can't drive her mother can give her a ride but does'nt want too.She has two
girl's and lives across the street with her mother and does'nt allow my daughter play with her girl's.Should I let my husband know that it is not ok with me and that it makes me uncomfortable.
2007-12-01 09:18:59 · 27 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell your husband that you're not comfortable with him giving this girl a ride. If he's any kind of man, he will respect that. After all, he has no obligation to the flirty, DUI girl. And yanno, if she really wants to get to work she'll get there. She'll call a cab, whatever it takes.
2007-12-01 09:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by kyeri y 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No I would not be okay in that situation. However, I am single. I would probably raise hell and end up in jail. These type situations are the reason I prefer being single. Relationships require so much trust, and I don't have it. If you trust your husband, tell him that you trust him and that you don't trust her. Tell him that if wants an excuse not give her a ride( some people have a really hard time saying no when put on the spot) he can tell her that (you) prefer that she find a different ride, and that he respects his wife's wishes, the end. I would leave it at that, let him read between the lines. If he doesn't get it, be more direct. Try not to accuse him of anything wrong or her. Use finesse in dealing with this situation, but be strong.
2007-12-02 07:54:57 · answer #2 · answered by peaches 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Not ok. Why should she come into ur lives. Never trust any woman who confides in ur husband. What is she trying? U can tell ur husband not to listen to another's problem. U r not comfortable and don't like it! If u let this woman carry on whatever, u r inviting alot of troubles. Stop it at once by all means. If ur husband think its ok to drive her, let him know u're going to confront her.Be tactful in handling ur husband. Best of luck.
2007-12-02 03:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by greentea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes let your husband know that you don't care if she has to get to work riding a bike because she is not getting a ride from him!!! If something is already uncomfortable with just the thought of it then nothing good would come out of it for anyone....so go with your gut feeling here and just say NO!
2007-12-01 10:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you better tell your husband to back off or there is going to be problems, he shouldn't be doing that (men some times do not look the bigger picture) most of it if you do not trust her follow your gut, better safe than sorry and if she doesn't have a husband do not trust her she may just want yours!. protect your family! you know some women do not care or have respect for other people husbands! so you better tell your husband "no way buddy" let her mother drive her!
2007-12-01 09:37:22 · answer #5 · answered by shopper 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most definately- you tell him. He will of course tell you that your fear is completely unfounded but don't you take no for an answer- women with problems are the worst danger to encourage into your marriage even if it is only a lift to work. She could get there by other means and she chooses to go with your man because he offers her the sympathy she craves- talk it through with your husband before it gets out of hand.
2007-12-01 09:35:59 · answer #6 · answered by Ellie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell your husband you don't like this situation.Sometimes we don't think about how things look and that things can start out innocent and can lead to something much more serious and the truth is men are weak when it comes to saying no to sexual advances we are born to mate.Tell him you don't want him to do it anymore before he finds himself in a situation he will regret.
2007-12-01 11:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you uncomfortable, that's your body telling you something is wrong. It's not so much the ride to work, it's the relating situation.
2007-12-02 14:03:20 · answer #8 · answered by my ki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't allow it. Your husband is good enough to drive her to work but your kids aren't good enough to play with hers?
Does she chip in for gas? Or atleast offer too? If not ditch her and fast!
2007-12-01 09:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by hotdogseeksbun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its Ok to tell your husband that you are uncomfortable- she sounds like a real winner tho-I wouldn't be too concerned-if she tells him too much it will probably start to annoy him!
2007-12-01 09:43:16 · answer #10 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋