I was at my wives company part and there is this guy that is, i guess really good friends with my wife, he is really dorking looking but not that’s not point... he started dancing with my wife all freaky and such... i told my wife i didn't appreciate it... but she said there is nothing wrong with dancing, that they are friends and that he is just a big goof off.... should i be worried about this guy, he is married and has kids... is dancing something that a guy can perceive as something sexual? Or am I just loosing my mind… I am a bit of a jealous guy…
2007-12-01 10:04:27 · 12 answers · asked by turbospd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I mean my wife and her friend are close to this guy... like they are the 3 amigos... i have meet his wife and kids... he is kind of nerdy and he was being a goofy off last night, dancing will all the women.. because his wife couldn't be there... but he just gives me a bad vibe.. if you know what i mean... and there people who said to give her a taste of her own medicne, i would have but this was her companies event... my company doesn't do parties like this... so it's a bit hard for me to show her how i felt...
2007-12-01 10:53:31 · update #1
I think you are over reacting. it doesn't sound like she has given you any reason to worry. You were there and it doesn't sound like you would let her go anywhere like that without you...Just let it pass and, try not to be to jealous. Also now that you told her it bugs you I am sure she will respect you enough to not let it happen again......
2007-12-01 10:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dancing can be provocutive .. but if it was provocutive & sexual .. you will not have any doubts when you see it done.
If you are a jealous guy .. then this could just be that they were dancing at all. Jealousy can make you imagine all sorts of things that really are not that way .. trust me - I know.
Since I have no idea how the dancing looked .. then I honesltly don't know if it was sexual dancing, or not.
The guy would have to be nuts to do a sexual dance in front of the husband.
Dancing is touching .. but it can also be harmless.
If the dancing was really & truly sexual -- you would have known it without a doubt .. and you probably would have interupted that dance on the dance floor yourself.
Since you are unsure .. try to push it to the back of your mind and dismiss it. There is nothing you can really make of it now anyway.
2007-12-01 10:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally for me I'd never dance with a man unless I was married to him. My fiance and I would only want to dance with each other. That guy might be goofing off or he could be flirting. Even if you're a jealous guy, try talking about it with your wife. Don't get angry or raise your voice because then she'll just get defensive. Do you dance with other women? If no, then why not say that you both can only dance with each other. If you do dance with other women then you're showing a double standard by your jealousy.
2007-12-01 10:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by Rockit 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would be completely offended if my husband was getting freaky with another woman, especially infront of me. I think that's extremely disrespectful. I don't think that's being jealous at all I mean, that's your wife and he's only a co-worker. Talk to your wife, if she makes a big deal about it then there's something wrong. She should be able to understand where you're coming from. If not, give her a taste of what she did to you.
2007-12-01 10:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she is really good friends with him, I would wonder a little bit. Dancing with a coworker now and again is innocent fun, however freaky, it probly wouldn't happen too often to worry about. But if she's friends with him, there's a communication, a light bond that might progress if he's really on to her.
2007-12-01 10:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dancing can be extremely sexual.....if that's how it is done. This guy might have been trying to be sexual but clearly your wife wasn't buying into it, so no worries.
2007-12-01 10:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't worry. In the unlikely event of there being anything to it, you'll be rid of a hussy. Either way, you win.
2007-12-01 10:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Instead of getting upset honey...
get out there and get your freak on! Show your wife that you can shake your booty too!
Freak...out!
2007-12-01 10:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh just quit being such a lil boy!!!!!
2007-12-01 11:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on what kind of dancing it is.
2007-12-01 10:36:56 · answer #10 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋