-taunts me
-sometimes laughs at me for no reason
-takes interest in my personal life when she knows it is doing bad and asks me how life is treating me
-when am asked a question in the class she answers for me before i do ( she doesn't do this for anyone else though)
i have felt she is interested in knowing me better as she has asked many a times to introduce her to my wife but when i told we were separated she called up to complain about her husband.
she's a nice girl and i wish i had a friend like her but if her actions can be termed as advances, she really scares me as she is also married and i don't want more trouble.
2007-12-01 22:09:35 · 15 answers · asked by reflection 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
STAY AWAY!!
2007-12-01 22:13:32 · answer #1 · answered by mayapacute 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be upfront with the girl. Sounds like you are going through a rough time being separated and she is having trouble in her marriage. The old saying is "misery loves company". If or Until you both are free, I would steer clear of this relationship. Leaving one spouse for another usually doesn't work out. Don't become an issue in someone else's troubles. Even innocently trying to be a friend will unintentionally become more.
Good luck!
2007-12-02 06:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, she's interested in you, all right and you have a right to be scared. She may feel like you're "safe" since you both are married. She may want to have a little fling and what the heck? You both have something to lose since you both are married. See, you both have a common ground (problems in your marriages) which would give you something to talk about and if sparks start flying, and something happens, gee, it's not like we intended this. Get your eyes all the way open on this one.
She is not friend material. She's looking for something else (a distraction from her own troubled marriage, perhaps). In any event, I think you have enough problems without inviting more into your life. She's trouble.
2007-12-02 06:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by CGordo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it sounds like she might be interested. maybe she isnt satisfied in her own marriage or is trying to keep it innocent but either way keep your guard up cause you dont need the drama. Plus how would you feel if you were her husband? I bet he wouldnt be to happy so try to think of him if she does actually try to make a move. Its cool to be friends but there is a line. Besides, I dont know how you feel about your wife because you mentioned you were only seperated and not divorced. Do you think you might work it out with your wife one day or might want to try? If not, then there are plenty of nice, single women out there!!! Be her friend and if you feel shes wanting to do more then talk to her about it or stay away lol
2007-12-02 06:16:09 · answer #4 · answered by kc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definitely trouble. If you find thats her goal (it is) let her know that when shes separated you'd be interested. Not until. She may be
looking for someone to help her out of her situation but also may be
just looking for a fling.
2007-12-02 06:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by Larry W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your separated what is the problem. Do you want to repair your relationship? If you do then let her know that and start with keeping her at bay in other words don't share so much info about yourself.
2007-12-02 06:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by G girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married and it seems like someone is flirting, then stay away from them. It's that simple.
Everytime you are in her presence just mention your LOVELY WIFE and how much you LOVE YOUR WIFE.
The tramp will get the hint! lol
Cheers
2007-12-02 06:13:20 · answer #7 · answered by Daft One 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's sucking you in, play the game but only go as far as you are comfortable going. Don't let her control the game take control of it or it will go a direction you seem not to want it to go.
2007-12-02 06:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by lord_he_aint_right_nda_head 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if she is interested you don't have to do anything about it. At this stage of your life, you're right, you don't need any more complications. Just tell her that.
2007-12-02 06:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter? She's married. How OK are you with a jelous husband's fist in your mouth?
2007-12-02 07:41:55 · answer #10 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be really lonely and is wanting some male attention...which is a fine line between wanting romance and friendship.
make little comments when you can that you don't want a relationship right now.
but i'd say that she does have an interest in you...whether she wants to cross any lines, i dunno.
2007-12-02 06:14:39 · answer #11 · answered by miss macy zane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋