which i think always bad then is it the case of eve teasing? is it compulsory to do. girls and ladies what u think if hubby do all these acts with wife is it not the case of eve teasing?
am a male.
only ladies answer plsssss.
2007-12-01 18:54:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, Tiny, if what you are asking is:
Is it sexual harrassment to have sex with your wife?
then I think you need to have a little conversation with her.
Apparently you two aren't really physically intimate. And that's ok, too.
You see, in order to make love, one must have a relationship.
I'd say, get to know the girl. Watch movies together, discuss things, ask each other what you expect from the marriage, share your goals.
You will know when you've established a friendship with her, and she trusts and respects you, and she admires you as her husband.
That's when intimacy develops.
You can go to Kama Sutra or Tantric Sex or SexInfo101 sites and learn. Share whatever you're comfortable with with her. When it's time.
I wish you luck, dear.
And God bless you and yours.
2007-12-01 21:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by Puresnow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um...I'm gonna take a crack at answering you, though I don't really know what you are talking about...here goes:
I expect my husband to make love to me and vice versa. We both enjoy it.
I would be really upset if he went and did this with another woman, but making love is a very intimate bonding between two people who love each other. It shouldn't be viewed as bad, licentous (sp?), dirty...and it shouldn't be feared.
If there were no love in the relationship, it wouldn't be making love, it would be just sex and that CAN be dirty etc.
I really don't know why you would think love making is always bad. That is the main part I really don't understand and makes me think I am not answering your question right...
Are you talking about ...oral?... sorry everyone had to ask. If you are, some people like it, some don't. I personally don't prefer it, but that is another story...
It is perfectly okay for this, though too in a relationship with love at the center.
If you don't like it, tell the other person. There are many other ways to be intimate.
I hope I helped a little...Sorry if I didn't.
2007-12-01 19:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by Star 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is love making when BOTH people want it, and is perfectly normal between a married couple. When its forced or unwelcome, its "eve teasing" or rape depending on how far it goes. If you treat your wife always with respect, both as your wife and as a person in her own right, then you will never go far wrong.
2007-12-01 19:34:15 · answer #3 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eve teasing is a euphemism used in India, Bangladesh and Pakistan for sexual harassment or molestation of women by men. Considered a growing problem throughout the subcontinent, eve teasing ranges in severity from sexually suggestive remarks to outright groping. Some guidebooks to the region warn female tourists that eve teasing may be avoided by wearing conservative clothing, though eve teasing is reported both by Indian women and by conservatively-dressed foreign women.
Well you should never "take" sex or sexual acts from someone, but if they consent and you consent its called foreplay at that time and yes most people do it.
2007-12-01 19:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by yellowpencilwow 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
D uh girl...... having sex is the the major thing husband and wives do on a daily basis. What the heck is an eve teasing anyway?
2007-12-01 18:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by Equinox 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u are married, chances are it is not eve teasing. love making is usually expected after marriage, and is not eve teasing. if u r not married, and the woman does not wish to be touched, then it is eve teasing. love making is beautiful, eve teasing is horrendous.
2007-12-01 18:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Making love to your wife should be a beautiful thing. It's not dirty or bad. You should be able to explore your wifes body and she should be able to do the same to you. Light some candles and enjoy your wifes beauty.
2007-12-01 19:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by Lina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Married women (who respond) report intimacy about daily in marriage. less than 10 sexual encounters a year is considered a sexless marriage.
2007-12-01 19:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by zeldazeebra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm I'm with everyone else on this...
I don't have a clue what you talkin bout!
2007-12-01 19:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by Jus Me 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm...im not sure wat ur asking...but if ur asking if after marriage between 2 ppl does sexual intersourse happen? then the answer i guess would be yes in most cases. some ppl blieve a marriage is official or consumated once sexual intercourse happens. i hope that answered your question.
2007-12-01 19:09:17 · answer #10 · answered by Feda So Sweet 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋