2007-12-01 17:35:03 · 49 answers · asked by prince 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Divorce her
2007-12-01 17:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 7⤋
Tell her that it is very disrespectful, and people may think poorly of her, not you.
You have to realize though that virtually all married couples will have some little things to make fun of each other. As long as the comments are not degrading, or about something you find personally offensive.
IE My wife is older than me so times I make fun of her by making old age jokes, she thinks they are funny, so it is OK. But she is also overweight and making fun of that is BIG no-no.
Every couple takes time to figure out what is right and wrong, but if it is too much TELL HER.
2007-12-01 17:47:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ripose 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It really depends. If she is doing it in a loving, affectionate way, then you may be able to laugh at what ever she is saying too, and you both can enjoy her sense of humor.
If she is just plain being mean or hurtful, you need to stop her as she is doing it and ask her exactly why she is making fun of you. Ask her if she thinks making you feel bad is funny.
If she convincingly tells you she is not making fun of you, let her know that she is hurting your feelings, and her actions are not strengthening your marriage. Hopefully, she will then realize she is causing you pain, and stop this form of humor.
If she does not seem to care if what she is doing is bothering you, then you need analyze the situation and go from there.
2007-12-01 17:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by IMHO 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how she is making fun of you. Some women do that to flirt. If that's the case, flirt back. Make fun of her a little. Just don't say anything too mean that she'll think isn't a joke. If you think she makes fun of you so she can be superior (some women do that) you should confront her that you don't like it and that it hurts you.
2007-12-01 17:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by Tali 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's time for the two of you to talk! Honestly and Openly!
Is she trying to express a concern but is not handling it properly? Have you told her how you feel when she makes fun of you? Perhaps she doesn't know that she is offending you and thinks she is being playful. Go, Talk to your Wife. It just sounds like a lack of communication.
2007-12-01 17:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by TupperMom 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You haven't given examples. I mean is she teasing you and playing with you in a loving manner or is she being mean that your feeling hurt obviously its bothering you what ever she is doing perhaps she thinks she's being playful and your taking it differently. Either way bottom line here is its upsetting you . So you should talk to her and tell her in a nice voice not yelling at her that you dont' take this kind of playing funny it hurts you infact . and if she could stop doing that. She probably didn't have a clue it bothered you. Normally when you tell someone it botheres you they will stop.
2007-12-01 18:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lots of couples josh with each other, but it should be loving. Mutual respect is important, but so is a sense of humor. Is this pushing your button? If so, then *without* getting angry, tell her straight that her making fun of you is stressing you. Sarcasm or "making fun" as aggression is not a good sign.
2007-12-01 17:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by Dave S 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how she's doing it. Is she doing it around other people, or just with you? Is she being serious and mean, or is it just joking/annoying?
If she's seriously being mean, and/or doing it around other people, you need to tell her how you feel NOW. Ask her why she feels the need to cut you down, and tell her how much it bothers you. That's a big problem.
If she's just joking around, joke back with her. Or, tell her that she does it too much and it's just plain annoying. Either way, she'll get the picture.
And if she gets offended, she has no right to because she's been offending you like crazy. Good luck!
2007-12-01 17:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by Student Doctor House 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Laugh and say...."I can't believe you can even pronounce words being that fat in the face".... or "Maybe you shouldn't make fun of someone wearing that outfit"...Or "You should try making fun of me, while you're on a tread mill".... Maybe try ..."Your boyfriends in high school said you were a case f**k, where all they had to do is drink a case of beer and put the box over your head"....
2007-12-01 17:44:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If she is just making fun of little things such as quirks or habits maybe she is trying to change things about you she doesnt like.
If she makes fun of everything she could just be playful or sarcastic.
If its hurtful she is just a bi+ch and you need to leave her.
2007-12-01 17:54:36 · answer #10 · answered by oni0424 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I think it depends on what she's making fun of you about...if it's something like your weight, male pattern balding, then you need to tell her that it hurts your feelings. If she is making fun of your farting or football rituals then laugh with her, if she's making fun of you for a medical condition, leave her and if she's making fun of you for an addiction, then get some help.
2007-12-01 17:39:31 · answer #11 · answered by iluvmyduckies05 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋