Lust ...is it possible to keep that lustful feeling in your relationship as time passes?

Question

in the beginning it is full of lust and after a year it seems to vaporate

Answer 1

Oh my goodness, YES!! My hubby and I have been together for ten+ yrs and there is still plenty of lust!!
The activities in the bedroom, or living room, or laundry room should always be fresh, fun and sometimes a little freaky!!
Talking in a very flirtatious way to each other is a great way to build up that desire. Start in the morning before work, maybe a phone call during the day, and then when you get home at night, keep the talking and the rubbing in all the right places going until it's time for bed!!


I don't want to hear "but we have kids", so do we and they don't have to hear what mom and dad are whispering to each other. All they see is mom and dad hugging and giggling, which is great for them. I think more kids should see affection between their parents. Hugs and kisses are healthy, for you and your spouse and for the kids to see that mom and dad are happy, but that's a totally different subject. I'm just saying kids are not an excuse to not have intimacy!


The lust only evaporates because you let it!!

Answer 2

No. They do not feel the sense like we humans do. This is because we have a central nervous system running through our vertebra (backbone) which sends messages to our brain. This means that if if our leg is hurt, we feel the pain at the top brain. On the other hand, the insects are non-vertebra and they do not have central nervous system. Thus if an ant's leg is crushed, only the leg will feel local pain. Moreover, their pain magnitude is short, since they produce large number of off springs and their life is short. They can also reproduce their lost organs. It has been observed that if you cut a cockroach's head, it will die after a month due to starving. Scientists have cut a lobster's leg and feed him, which he ate. It is also true that except for human beings no other animal is aware of its existence.

Answer 3

You should not have lust for your mate you should have love and commitment and compassion. Really lust is one of the seven deadly sins and is something that Satan uses to tempt us into destroying our lives. Remember that before you think of lust in a relationship it is desire I think your trying to say.

Every relationship is hardwork and putting lust or desire a big part of it your going to be hurt time and time again. Make communication key and you'll make her desire you more and more everyday that goes by.

Answer 4

Of course it is! In a good marriage, with the right couple, the love grows and deepens over the years, and the chemistry, spark and lust are there are strong as ever!
It doesn't have to go away if you don't want it to....

Answer 5

hmmmm....good question.

So far, my fiance and I still have that "lust" and "butterfly" feelings going on..and actually, they have both grown stronger the longer we are together. I don't know if it is because of how we are as a couple and how we mesh so well or what, but I am so dang glad we have been successful at keeping it.

Answer 6

intere3sting question. i have been wondering about it myself. not in my case. we couldn't keep this lust. u get used to a person and it is very often u don't find time or power for that lust. there re always things to mend

Answer 7

There is quite a bit more to a relationship then sex. Hard to believe I know but it's true. Somewhere along the way hopefully you can become true friends and find other things in common.

Answer 8

As long as you have the true love, don't worry about the lust fading.

Answer 9

oh yeah. learn to experiment, and the art of seduction. and put off the act of s e x for as long as you guys could. it would add anticipation and enthusiasm when you do it.

Answer 10

Relationships take work, but it's worth it. Otherwise, they all fade.

Joy to you!!!