my mom passed away about a year ago. now i saw my aunt. withanother man in a place she ought to have never been at. going into a motel room with this other man. she.s been married for.26. years to my aunts man he treats her very good and is a minister as well should i let him know. the reason why i am asking. the clerck at that place know.s my uncle . and by law my uncle will divorce her and sue both. him and her. i didnt know that a law like this was around for sueing a person but a lawer told me yes it was but my main question should i tell him or knowing this other guy he will . thank you all
2007-12-01 18:01:53 · 18 answers · asked by wildcat_2021 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get your aunt off to herself and let er know you saw her. ad she needs to stop it. if not from your typing the other man will tell him i am just guessing but after you let her know that you saw her doing what she was doing that if she dont stop . talk will start in the town. on what she.s doing and being a minister.s wife boy did she miss the mark. christ talked on this very much in the bible. she knew better to do that but first of all see if he has a wife if so let her know she take care of it . my opion?
2007-12-01 18:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that it's ever a good idea to step into someone else's marriage and be the one who rips it to shreds. Your uncle is going to find out eventually if he hasn't already. The question is, do you really want to be the one who breaks his heart with the news? You are in a no-win situation here. If it were me, I think I would let my aunt know that I saw here and give her a chance to come clean with your uncle and try to repair her marriage or to break off this alleged affair.
2007-12-01 18:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by JD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a terrible situation to be in..I think you might want to confront your Aunt and let her know that you know..that will make her think a little as right now she is caught up in lust. Be careful though as you might upset her because you are going to cause some tension between her and her lover.
2007-12-01 18:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think what you will accomplish by telling her husband. A divorce, a broken home, fights and many many painful memories for both.
They are married a long time. If he doesn't know by now maybe he doesn't WANT to know anything.Leave things as the are and forget what you saw.
2007-12-01 18:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by Vergina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard not to tell a juicy secret like this one. It's screaming to come out. However, you should keep it to yourself. Why cause trouble?
Maybe you should tell your aunt what you believe you 'know', there may be another explanation ... but even if there isn't, it's not your business, she's a big girl now.
2007-12-01 18:18:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are close to your uncle and not worried about the consequences that you aunt will suffer then go ahead, otherwise I think you should stay out of it.
2007-12-01 18:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it and when or if your uncle finds out about it do not admit to knowing anything about it, or he may hold it against you for not telling him...
2007-12-02 00:32:21 · answer #7 · answered by deerlady2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They've been married 26 years? Hon, he already knows.
You stay out of it. This is between them.
2007-12-01 22:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by Puresnow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should confront your aunt about it instead of directly telling your uncle.
2007-12-01 18:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by Trex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because he could have been a homeless man she was getting a room for - an act of charity.
Joy to you!
2007-12-01 18:05:36 · answer #10 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋