can a man forget and forgive his wife and guy she was seeing and not hold a gruge over what has happened after all she was older. and married . . can her husband forgive him and forget or just divorce her. and not hold the man at fault she was in her.40.s and i was just a . 19. year old at that time . she was doing all the come on to me . can this happen with him on what happened
2007-12-01 17:40:55 · 8 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
forget things like that. no. seem.s like you boh are a fault whee you. as well her knew right from wrong you cant change the past but he can by divorcing her i wouldnt blame him one bit. my opion? both are loosers . ? fact...?
2007-12-01 18:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the person.
Every person is different.
Some people get over things easily. Other people never get over anything .. and hold a grudge forever.
It is possible to forgive & forget .. but a person has to want to do it.
Take responsibiltiy for the actions .. seek forgiveness .. that is all you can do because you can't go backwards and change what happened.
I hope you are not still involved in this situation .. or around these people. Things in situations such as these can get out of control very easily .. and very quickly.
2007-12-01 17:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 10:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think people really forget something like that. It doesn't really matter who came on to whom---there were some choices made. I think YOU definately have some loose screws and should consider some therapy.
2007-12-02 01:10:20 · answer #4 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make better choices in the future.
Hope he forgives you both.
Joy to you!
2007-12-01 17:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men deal with infidelity differently so he may be processing his feelings in his own way at this time. You should move on and let her deal with her husband.
2007-12-01 17:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always the possibility for forgiveness. It will never be forgotten.
2007-12-01 17:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by just me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can forgive them both and for anyone to move forward, they must do this.
2007-12-01 17:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋