after 5 month she left me cause of she was still loving her ex boy friend,,,,,and so she was too confuse cause im also too much loving.....she is living a far city and im too,,,i had go to her place so many times for her comeback in my life..but she didn't came once and refuse me atleast for fysicaly any relation,,,till now i havnt any relation with any body and staying alone here with dipration.....also havn't done any legal action against her.....she mailed me that now she is a c.a. by profession .... once again i m calling to comeback but she never mailed me again....she has my phone no...but i havn't her and she never called me?i don't know where she is living now......since 4 year im living alone and so sad......pls suggest me?
2007-12-01 19:24:36 · 13 answers · asked by dil deke d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your case seems simple & can be settled in few months only. All you have to do is file a petition for divorce on the ground of desertion for more then two years against her in the family court where you stay now & mention her last address or her parents address in this petition. She will be sent summons to appear & defend her case(which I'm sure will return back as undelivered) or be received by her or her parents on her behalf. In case these summons return back as undelivered (as I presume) you request the court to move ex-parte against her for this petition, for which the court may tell you to again send her new notice or summon for which you request for such notice or summon be sent for publication in the daily national newspaper for the convenience of the court to proceed ex-parte in this case. This is how a new notice gets published in the national newspaper & on the next date of hearing when she doesn't makes her appearance, the family court will proceed ex-parte against her, record your statement & other evidence , pronounce the order for divorce & issue decree of divorce against her. After this decree has been granted to you just wait for one month’s time (the appeal period) & then you can remarry another good lady. This whole process will complete in 6 to 8 months time period.
2007-12-01 20:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life, stop wallowing in a relationship that's not going to happen. File for annulment and start fresh. There's a lot of other women out there. And you're missing out on a life.
2007-12-01 19:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Equinox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong for u to be alone and sad. You are wasting your life for a person who doesn't even care a single bit for you. 4 years is a lot of time you have wasted on trying to bring her back. file for divorce and move on.
love is not a one way street. I am sure you will find someone who will love you in return.all the best.
2007-12-01 19:35:18 · answer #3 · answered by Swit Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is to file for a divorce and forget about her, forever. Move on with your life. She doesn't seem to want anything to do with you anymore. Sorry that might hurt but the sooner you get her out of your heart and mind, the better off you will be.
2007-12-01 19:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by missmichelleb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, get agreesive with other women. Ask people out man, or just talk. But end that relationship already, I know you care about her but just get it over, or block it out. Remember this lesson, never love someone else that love's someone else. Lol, did that make sense? And never! get married to them until that love is resolved. Women can be so so cold man, you just have to suck it up sometimes.
2007-12-01 19:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by shadycaliber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is very important and you wasted your 4 precious years on her of your life, if she does't care you then you must go forward in your life, and file divorce
2007-12-01 19:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if I were u I would understand that she is not made 4 me........dnt mind but I think u dear lacks personality severely.......first of all dnt pay any attention 2 her....keep urself busy in refreshing jobs.....delete every sign of hers.think u r never married 2 any1..I know this is pretty tough but act as a man ........dont let
2007-12-01 21:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by Soura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not worth waiting for find a new wife dont waste ur time
2007-12-01 20:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry friend i am really happy still you are alone reading your mail only i understood you are a good husband now a days the husband live the wife & go but your wife left you 7 went now also you like her so much you really want her back always belive see will come back & one more think you consult one astrologer jaya srinivasan he will change your life always in ratio satation 93.5 2to 3 his program will come you listen onces you consult him surely your problem will solve she we dono when we will die so in our life why we want to depress not only you in this world all of them as problem we should think how to slove and come out from that best of luck for your future
2007-12-03 18:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by sonia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi....let me ask you..this....'are you scared to divorce her...? and why you want to waste your time age / life for this stupid., cant you find another partner and move on?..and you know well she has gone and settled (?) and what stops you to file a divorce paper...sounds like you are stupid wasting your valuable time / life for this lady.....and I am sorry being abusive.
2007-12-04 00:16:04 · answer #10 · answered by 2bros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love means sacrifice and the most you love your wife you will try to get some happiness to her if she is happy with his ex boyfriend then let her leave with him and pray for god for her happiness
2007-12-01 19:31:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋