keep in mind he's got cash, status and educated.
2007-11-30 22:56:47 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Once you're not "cool", he's cash you out for a better status symbol.
You're dreaming if you think that's love.
2007-11-30 23:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want out of a marriage?
Neither cash, status or education is going to keep you warm at night or stand next to you in good times or bad.
Sounds as if you are considering a ladies man with the obvious credentials to back it up. My only concern for you would be this: Are you secure enough with yourself to know that even though he has an eye for the ladies (What man doesn't?) you outshine them all and even though he looks and maybe more it is you he loves and chooses to marry?
It that is enough for you and you can keep from going into a jealous fit of rage every time a girl returns his looks with a look or a phone call... Then I would say yes... Marry him and be happy...
I could have just said Don't drive an expensive care unless you can afford the insurance but I wanted you to understand what I truly meant.
2007-12-01 00:45:51 · answer #2 · answered by ezxqz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fast that he has cash, status and is educated is irrelevant....
But could I marry a guy (who is committed and in love with me) who still likes to look at other women? I guess so, cause I did. I have no problem with the fact that he appreciates a good looking woman. I am secure enough in myself to not let that bother me. And conversely, I appreaciate a hot guy... but just because I look, doesn't mean I would ever step outside my marriage. We are sexual beings that are visually stimulated. That doesn't just go away when we get married. And I think MOST married people (especially men, because they tend to be the more visual stimulated of the two sexes) who say they don't ever look are lying.
2007-12-01 01:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by Aimee R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what exactly do you mean an eye for the ladies. I don't care if you have cash status (wtf???) and educated if you're trying to get with the ladies then it's a no go. If it's just a case of a man appreciating the opposite sex by looking then that's ok, status and cash and educatin have nothing to do with that.
2007-11-30 23:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by Yummy♥Mummy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost 98% of pure guys still have eyes for the ladies, it is a normal instinct of a man. An eye for the ladies means an appreciation for the opposite sex, even happily married couples have an eye for both sexes.
Yes you can marry him, it means his a normal guy- if he got eyes on guys maybe you got to think twice.
2007-11-30 23:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by mardideles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,i will not,a guy proposed me with a great status ,education and he was from a great family.but still as he had a fetish for girls. i just rejected him.
because i want my man to love me only.
and may it happen in future that he will leave me getting another girl,because the actual nature of men is to show more love towards girls when the realation is new.
but if the boy cant love that much love to me for the first time its definate that he will break our relation after a few years or he will make me to do that.
2007-11-30 23:01:51 · answer #6 · answered by dipanwita B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no: he is not in love with you if he is thanking and looking at ladies and you well have a hard married if you do bc you well alway thank that if there is a other ladies and he needs you respecd you and make you feel like you are the cutetest ladie in the world war_mom04@hotmail.com
2007-12-01 00:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A eye for the ladies is normal .... What he does with The hands are whats important .... Touch them ( the ladies }... hes a gonner .!!!!..Then you take all he has... ... That eye will need glasses after that ... You go girl!!!! . If you love him ...go for it but not for the cash ... Money does not bye a bond ... of LOVE... !!!!
2007-11-30 23:25:17 · answer #8 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy just like you have described and I say yes if he loves you.
You just have to keep him satisfied and make him know that there may be a lot of beautiful women out there but you are the his "only one".
2007-11-30 23:30:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife did...and we are still married 20 years later. Think about it, any man who doesn't "have an eye for the ladies" is either not interested in ladies (not that there's anything wrong with that!) or is just a very good actor.
2007-11-30 23:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋