Marriage & Divorce - 30 November 2007

2007-11-30 09:41:43 · 13 answers · asked by Landon 3

I am lost and need to seek guidance for advice. I have discovered that my stepfather has been cheating on my mother. We thought everything was okay and that his continued absence was due to his hectic job, which requires him to travel quite often. I now have sufficient evidence that he's cheating on my mother with another women. Although,I have discovered this horrible notion, I am struggling to confront him or my mother about his deceptiveness. I have known him for half of my life, and I always viewed him as my father, but the dishonesty and deception that continues to linger in my house-hold is buliding an excessive amount of anger in me. I keep praying that he'll come to his senses and do the right thing, but that's not happening. My whole family is dependent on him and he has also been paying for my education, but I know that love has no price.
What do I do?

2007-11-30 09:37:53 · 13 answers · asked by Jacopo G 1

also changing their name to hers also?

2007-11-30 09:36:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-30 09:31:08 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

i recently split up with my childs father, we had been together for 3+ years and it hasn't been the best relationship especially after i had our baby, for near enough this whole year its been a constant battle to try and work on it and i had finally had enough when he humilated me in front of his family and argued with my mother, i have been on my own for about a week and have felt better about myself in such a long time but i see my ex everyday still for our childs sake and he is so sad about everything and now i feel guilty and sorry for him, we have split up before and i've took him back thinking he's changed but after a couple of days its back to angry tantrums etc, im torn at what to do? do i take him back on the faith he's calmed down and learned his mistakes or do i get on with my life and concentrate on me and my child?

2007-11-30 09:30:27 · 18 answers · asked by mizzmamma 5

2007-11-30 09:28:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in my late forties and married for 20 years. It seems like once a women meets my wife they will start to hit on me hard, even in front of her, I never flirt with other women but women in there 20s and 30s will do or say anything to get me out with them. They will flirt before they meet her. but after that they get way out of control.

2007-11-30 09:20:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ladies and Gentlemen,.

Let's be honest, most of our significant others will give us something... what do you hope to recieve?

Also... ladies, how would you feel about a set of dishware, nice silverware, or a coffee maker?

Please note your gender if it is not apparent by your avatar.

Thanks,

Wildflower

2007-11-30 09:16:00 · 10 answers · asked by Wildflower 6

My husband and I have been married a year and a half. To make a long story short my parents and i do not get along. A counselor i went to said that they were 'dysfunctional.' The summer i met my husband, my parents did not allow me to come home from college. I had to work a maintance job and pay 1500 to stay in the dorms.
When i got married, my parents at first agreed to pay for 3 out of the four years of tuition. Then they took it back, saying they would not help out anymore after the two years.
In short, my parents were not at allll perfect. They had their flaws. My husband is now saying that if i begin talking to them again (I have not for almost a year) he would divorce me.
When i said that i would take his money if he divorced me for that reason, he said he would kill me. I know this is A LOT... but I just want some opinions on the matter. It causes me a lot of stress, and I do not know what to think.

2007-11-30 09:09:51 · 11 answers · asked by Becca 2

2007-11-30 09:01:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2007-11-30 09:00:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

When me and my husband were dating (we had bin dating for just over a year) his sister was getting married the same day as my cousin in AZ. So I had to go with my family to her wedding. While I was gone my now husband had a party for his sister the night before the wedding and that night he got drunk and so did this girl he use to like and she was dancing all over him and he was dancing with her to and helped her because she was "so drunk" and he ended up kissing her and freaking on her most of the night. Now my problem is I have moved on and tried to forgive and forget about it. But this girl is best friends with my husband’s sisters and so they constantly are trying to do stuff with her and inviter to go places that we are already going. I don’t like this girl at all I see red every time I see her. And so to try to keep the peace I stay away and don’t go places if I know she is going to be their. But my husband gets annoyed because he wants to do stuff with his family.

2007-11-30 08:56:56 · 13 answers · asked by elise 1

My husband is in the army National guard and has been deployed to Iraq for 3 months now. His ex just requested to have his child support orders reviewed. He will be home sometime next spring and go back to working his normal job which pays a lot less. Will the courts go off his money he makes from the guard? This is not his full time job he only does the two weeks a year and one weekend a month thing, it just so happened that his unit was chosen to be deployed. He already pays a ton now.

2007-11-30 08:53:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

As opposed to being married first & then getting pregnant?

2007-11-30 08:35:35 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

And please state why or why not.

Also (here's another question)...would you cheat on your wife for a one night stand with any of the women I listed above or another hot woman....

I'm curious to see, because I saw a question like this towards married women so i wanna see what you married guys have to say!

2007-11-30 08:11:25 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-30 08:08:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-30 08:03:23 · 5 answers · asked by Tray 2

My soon to be ex husband is unemployed and while I am at work he is on my space searching for local women to chat with. is that cheating or am i tripping?

2007-11-30 07:52:27 · 35 answers · asked by Seriously 1

I just truly want to tell her how I feel about her coming into my relationship and my life.

Stupid, I know.

2007-11-30 07:50:02 · 32 answers · asked by orange c 4

I had a daughter when I married him, she was then 17. I and he had a child together, a daughter. In a year he divorced me and married my daughter, and they, too, had a child together, yet another daughter.
What should I do?

2007-11-30 07:38:05 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I made my husband a sandwich and I was kind of a little hungry but not enough to eat a whole sandwich so I took a bite of it and gave it to him and he swatted me on my bottom three times!! He said that was extremely rude and I guess it is now that I think about it but my mom did that with my dad sometimes!

2007-11-30 07:24:15 · 16 answers · asked by Little Angel 1

Should I be mad? (why would he keep them?)

Should I give them back to her? (were friends and hes angry with her)

Should I destroy them?

2007-11-30 07:22:15 · 28 answers · asked by Lisa G 2

my friend called today.. he told me he lost his wedding ring.. he doesnt know how to tell his wife? is he in trouble..???

2007-11-30 07:21:26 · 24 answers · asked by back2future 5

I may not have a perfect relationship but I know we have love. Thats the first step isnt it. Next we have never been unfaithful in our relationship. Either of us. We just argue a bit more than I would like. I dont want to hear "leave him" or " it never gets better". I have never been as giving in a relationship before this man and since hes been in my life I have seen a different light. I just dont know how to help him see to. He says he wants to make things better but we just dont know how to start or where to look. We went to pre-marital counselling but the guy only wanted to be negative and said seperate. I have had enough of that "give up and move on" bs for a lifetime. I have kids and I am tired of showing them that love is not worth hanging on to in a good situation. No one is perfect but trust me from reading these other posts things could be a lot worse. Are there any positive people out there with advice that might help????

2007-11-30 07:18:27 · 7 answers · asked by Angel Face 1

just found $20 missing from my silver cigarette case (snaps shut). my boyfriend of 10 yrs. handed me $80 (counted it before putting it in case) a couple days ago and i haven't left the house, or spent any money, or even opened the case, and found only $60 when i was at the store today. so i asked him if he took it, which is no big deal. he said no. i could see in his face he was being evasive (he's had issues with honesty). so i said that our 8 yr. old son must have taken it then. then he started trying to create doubt in my mind that maybe i just lost it, and sometimes that works, but as stated that is impossible in this case. i know our son didn't take it, but i'd get him from school so i could question him. we went round and round for awhile because i know he took it and is willing to let our son take the fall for his mistake. how am i going to ever respect him if he allows this to happen? is he even human?? i'm worried about our kids having a father who is honorable.

2007-11-30 07:15:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, we've been together for 2 years. When we first got together we talked about marriage ALL the time! now, never. He wants a baby and a house with me, but when I bring up marriage he acts like he doesnt hear me. I tell him I want marriage, house then baby but he seems to disagree. Whats going on in his head?

2007-11-30 07:14:30 · 10 answers · asked by <3 4

I feel down alittle

2007-11-30 07:09:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was with a woman for four years, we were in love, incredibly happy, things were great. Like an idiot, really I just got comfortable and all, I never married her. She said many different times that she wanted to be married and I am so upset with myself bcs. I I broke promises with her to do it varioius times. I never cheated, just didnt do it. After 4 years she broke up with me and told me she didnt trust me anymore and didnt want to waste her life waiting "for a guy who cant' commit." She moved out to the West coast (i live in Boston) and reconnected with some ex and got married 6 months later. She is now married for one year and she called me recently and told me she is not that happy, that she prob made a bad decision and that she still loves me. I told her to divorce,but she said she couldnt "risk it" bcs. she doesnt think I would commit to her. She said I could move to her city, but that there are no guarantees of anything....I love her too much, but I am so sad and confused

2007-11-30 07:07:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-30 07:06:58 · 28 answers · asked by gorgeous gm 4

After paying their fair half of the bills and expense of living the life they are living. (Which in my case leave 1/3 to 1/2 my paycheck as surplus money.)

In many cases this money is pooled together and becomes "our money".
Women typically go shopping more than men, so in reality women are spending the "our money".

If women want men to do their FAIR share of the chores, what is the husband getting for his income/money, since he isn't spending it?

Am I missing something here?
What is it that husbands are paying for?
Is it for sex with the wife?
So what are husbands paying for?

2007-11-30 07:04:00 · 15 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6