Marriage & Divorce - 30 November 2007

I was aked out to supper by my boyfriend who always asks me to do things then never follows thru. I just really forgot about it.
I went shopping yesterday and then treated myself to a very late lunch.
My boyfriend was mad because he said he asked me to go out to eat with him yesterday 2 or 3 days ago, and I had already eaten and didnt want to go out again. Well, he always asks me to do things with him and never follows thru with it, so I just forget about it and never put a 2nd thought into it because I am not sure when he is legit or blowing out his a$$ again. Am I wrong?
Am I wrong or selfish or is it him and his continued self centeredness. He thinks the world evolves around him and his lifestyle. I think he gets this from being married to women who would kiss his behind because he made the money and a lot of it.
I on the other hand work like a fool, raised a family alone and took care of my own home and family and dont really feel like I should be catering to him

2007-11-30 04:56:21 · 6 answers · asked by happydawg 6

my boyfreind and I have been together for 2 years. I have been devorced for 3 years. He is very good to my daughter and I. Yet my daughter hates him and won't have the idea that he wants to be with us. I have watched then interact and it is all good. He adores her . How do I make my daughter realize that she shouldn't feel this way? My daughter is 14

2007-11-30 04:55:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

we have been dating three months but i still look at other girls but by mistake

2007-11-30 04:49:44 · 70 answers · asked by Dan G 3

2007-11-30 04:42:23 · 10 answers · asked by melizavazquez101 1

I have been married for 10 years to a wonderful man. He has his flaws but over all he is a great man. 6 months ago I was contacted by my HS sweet heart. We were together for 7 years and I thought we were going to marry. Instead one day he was gone. Just like that. Needless to say I was devestated . I had more questions than answers. Although 20 years have come and gone and I went on with my life. I always had the ligering question "why". He is now a very wealthy man, in my eyes very cocky and quite arrogant. I can hear him when he talks about others and how he conducts his life. My dilema is I think of him alot. I wait for him to call. I feel like a headstrong teenager. I don't want to Jepurdice my marriage but I can't stop thinking of him. I obviously don't like him but the memories I have of him seem to be stronger than the reality that is before me. I need to know why. What can I do to help it.

2007-11-30 04:42:10 · 17 answers · asked by liz 2

Have you ever felt like you fell in love with someone you met online? And the person is a friend? It happened to me, but I'm married and I love my husband, but even though I haven't met this person in life- I'm starting to feel something.

2007-11-30 04:33:13 · 18 answers · asked by deb2rule 5

our 3 year old is now in tears again, because daddy didn't show.
Whilst it is against my better judgement, is it ok if I secretly knock his lights out? (not the ones on his car).

Yeah I know, it's not the right thing to do...setting an example and all that jazz but gosh wouldn't it be sweet?

2007-11-30 04:21:43 · 32 answers · asked by Smoochy Poochy 6

i'm a hindu, & she is a muslim, we love each other, so much.
we are getting married , any legal procedures/or any other hurdles involved in india?

2007-11-30 04:14:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been with my boyfriend for alittle over a year we live together. I just don't trust him and just feel that he's not in love with me anymore. The lack of trust started when we first started dating. I saw on his myspace he was messaging back and fourth with different girls even though we weren't offical. I was with him everyday and night and hooking up which hurt me. He deleted his myspace and all the numbers of girls out of his phone willingly i didnt even tell him to. Then i find this picture in his dresser of a woman . He say's that she was a friend from work. But he's not the type just to have a girl thats a "friend" Then we were cleaning out his closet and i found a box the "ex girlfriend" box there was all the stuff of his exgirlfriend from like 5 years ago they dated for four years and she cheated on him. And then he cheated on his girlfriend before me with the one from four years. Which has always made me jealous because he never talked to girls behind that girls back

2007-11-30 04:14:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Where has my husband's sex drive gone? He never wants it - he was ALWAYS wanting it. We've only been married for 2 years (he's not cheating!!!!!). We are trying for a baby but I want sex all the time just for fun (not just for baby-making). What can I do about this? I've offered him to go have his fun with others for a bit, but nothing works!!!!

2007-11-30 04:07:14 · 16 answers · asked by Leo Lady 1

for your wife or girlfriend
please tell how long you have been married or dating and tell which one you have wife or gf

2007-11-30 03:57:30 · 16 answers · asked by princess 1

My husband has hinted that I am not making enough. I work from home and take care of the house also. I am feeling a little sad and upset about this. What would you think?

2007-11-30 03:39:16 · 63 answers · asked by Rein 5

28 year old male personal trainer falling for his 42 yr old female client who is married

2007-11-30 03:38:47 · 16 answers · asked by Maria 5

2007-11-30 03:37:23 · 8 answers · asked by gloria h 1

I've been married before. It only lasted 7 months, and I ended up marrying a crazy person. I still to this day believe I got out right before it would have become really bad (he started hitting inanimate objects in rage over dumb things).

Honestly, I've been thinking maybe I'll get married one day. After going through all this... its too of a hassle getting divorced from a jerk.

I was already extremely independent way before him. I've been saying since I was 4 years old (now 23) that I don't want kids. Too many men get in relationships with me thinking I'll change my mind, I don't, and they get mad. My ex actually pretended to not want kids, and a month after getting married he suddenly wanted them.

I'm very goal-oriented, driven, and determined to take care of myself in life (I'm not depending on a man ever again).

My father has plenty of friends in their 40s who have never been married and never will.

2007-11-30 03:37:21 · 17 answers · asked by Ashley84 2

My child support worker called me and asked me who the person was that signed the ex's child support summons papers. It was his new live-in gf. I asked her if she could do that and the worker said she was not suppose to so now he has not been served. I told her who she was and that she lives there. Is this going to make it where he will not have to show up for court and i will have to wait even longer for my child support order???

2007-11-30 03:24:19 · 10 answers · asked by fantasy gal 5

He likes to pretend that everything is okay, like living in lala land. But I want to come up with solutions because pretending like nothing is wrong does not make the anger and fights go away. Although when we do try to resolve something, all it does is bring another fight. Each of us feels the other is being unfair. There is never an ounce of understanding even when we try. I am willing to bend but he's just stuck in his thinking and shrugs off the problem. So the happy times seem fake. How is it supposed to work when only one person wants to really fix the problems? Maybe he doesn't care to fix it b/c he's not the one receiving most of the insults? More than half the time I feel like we're strangers living under one roof.

2007-11-30 03:23:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-30 03:20:46 · 9 answers · asked by danielle b 1

My wife and I have had 8 shaky years together and this year was a horrible year. First in an arguement she jumps across the bed and breaks her knee, prior to that she attacked me a hurt my shoulder. Next she got pregnant - quit her very-high paying job - never got another one - and I was stuck paying every single bill. Now due to another (we've had 8) misscarriage - we have no child (that hurts), our house is about to be foreclosed and I'm 3months behind in all bills. My water and cable were cut off yesterday - my power tomorrow. I'm starting to hate my wife - really hate her. I don't want to so should I just leave and let it all go - start over. Or should I continue to be the idiot/good guy and stick it out until all gets better - if ever?

2007-11-30 03:16:26 · 45 answers · asked by Bakari J 2

when you're a married couple..What do you do when you have no family to look after your kids and you're surrounded by freak'n druggies. We're in a bad area, currently looking to move and the school my daughters in isn't the best so I don't want to ask about babysitting there. We're in an extremely small town and we're dying to get out. Last time I went out was this past July and prior to that 3 yrs ago to my father-in-laws funeral. I can't get the same babysitter (my neighbours kid) long long story ended in the mullet lady getting hurt!

Do I just suck it up and try to trust a stranger with my kids that I don't know or do what I currently do and have date nights inside the house when the kids are asleep?

Cheers!

2007-11-30 03:14:07 · 32 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6

2007-11-30 03:12:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I did something very wrong ,terrible,and bad without thinking.I just got married this year(september 15)to a good guy with a lot of potential up and comming career ect...many people(like my entire family) would say he is perfect.We were set up by one of my aunts at church we dated for 6 months got engaged and married by month 8.It all happened really fast and my brain is still kind off in shock.To get to the point of all this i have an ex.bf from high school who as my first bf..kiss as well as other things.We dated good girl prepie vs. blue coller bad boy and broke up 2 times went through all kinds of drama pregnancy/miscarriage related. I only ever told one other person(BFF) what really happened so my family has no clue.Anyhow we tried to be friends but his new gf hated me and 6 months later he came back while still with her for a fling.I resisted at first but i had feelings for him and was lonley in college with few friends so i gave in.It was only meant ...continue..

2007-11-30 03:10:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband will be missing our first wedding anniversary because he'll be in Iraq. How can I send a piece of our wedding cake and ensure that it will get there and still be good to eat?

2007-11-30 03:03:24 · 6 answers · asked by armywife21 1

Hey does anyone have any suggestions about how to get my husband to help out with chores?

DH and I are having issues about the cleanliness of the house. He thinks because I get off work 1 1/2 to 2 hrs earlier than he does that I should be the one who does the majority of the house work...majority meaning ALL of it. But in those 1.5-2 hrs that he's working, I'm picking the girls up from school and then getting dinner ready so that when he gets home we can all eat. I usually put this dishes up and load the dish washer while I'm waiting for dinner to get ready.

When he gets home he eats and then he sits on his butt watching TV for the rest of the day...and his excuse is that he works 8 hrs a day and I only work 6 hrs a day so he doesn't have to help me clean the living room, bedrooms, laundry, dishes, cooking, cleaning, bathing the children, brushing their teeth...you get the drift. There is a lot to do EVERY day and I'm the only one doing it. And it is making me angry.

2007-11-30 02:58:29 · 15 answers · asked by Sandra R 3

something where I told her that if she lost she would have to model some of the lingerie she got from her showers. Well I lost and she thought it was really really funny to make me wear some of the nightys and bras and panties. She insisted I left the bet open and had to pay up. Was this fair and why was this so funny for her?

2007-11-30 02:50:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I scuba dive. We have been married 19 years and have a good relationship. One of our dive instructors wants to take him on a dive trip to Florida. I have to work and take care of my Mom I cannot go. He wanted my blessing before he accepted this invitation. I gave it. He will be gone for 2 days and nites. The dive instructor is much older and married also they are going to hook up with some more men for this dive experience. Think this was a good idea for me to give my blessing? We usually go everywhere together.

My Dad recently passed away and we are tiring to get our carport converted into an apartment for her right now we are just getting bids. I am very stressed out but I think if one of us can let go. Go for it right?

2007-11-30 02:29:41 · 20 answers · asked by mdjgirl7 4

I am married to a great guy and we are usually good friends, we have a great home and we are very much in love and passionate about each other for 359 days a year.
But here is the weired part. When I am flying out on business, usually for 2-3 days, and rarely. Maybe twice a year. He doesn't call me. I cannot get him on the phone either. I feel like I am "out of sight out of mind". I talked with him about it and he says that he doesn't want to bother me because I am busy and he knows I don't have time to talk on the phone. But I reassure him over and over that it is ok and he can call anytime because I love it when he calls me, or at least answer the phone when I call.
I am now on a business trip again, and its been two days and I didn't hear from him and he doesn't answer his phone.
I was thinking about getting a divorce because I think it is not ok. I am the bread winner in the house so it is not a financial problem to leave him. What am I doing wrong?

2007-11-30 02:28:46 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

tell me

2007-11-30 02:21:25 · 28 answers · asked by callumpun 1

A newlywed couple had only been married for two weeks.
The husband, although very much in love, couldn't wait to go out on the town and party with his old buddies. So, he said to his new wife, "Honey, I'll be right back."
"Where are you going, coochy cooh ?" asked the wife.
"I'm going to the bar, pretty face. I' m going to have a beer."
The wife said, "You want a beer, my love ?"
She opened the door to the refrigerator and showed him 25 different kinds of beer brands from 12 different countries: Germany, Holland, Japan, India, etc.

The husband didn't know what to do, and the only thing that he could think of saying was,
"Yes, lolly pop ... but at the bar ... you know ... they have frozen glasses ..."
He didn't get to finish the sentence, because his wife interrupted him saying,
"You want a frozen glass, puppy face ?"
She took a huge beer mug out of the freezer, so frozen that she was getting frostbite just holding it.

2007-11-30 02:17:48 · 10 answers · asked by boris the spider 5

I want to break up with my other half but all my friends say you should go no a break first then see how you feel. I thought it was the right thing at first but now am thinking i know i want to break up with them though. What do you think?

2007-11-30 01:49:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous