Have you ever felt like you fell in love with someone you met online? And the person is a friend? It happened to me, but I'm married and I love my husband, but even though I haven't met this person in life- I'm starting to feel something.
2007-11-30 04:33:13 · 18 answers · asked by deb2rule 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do know he's engaged and getting married next year sometine. I also know he has a lot of girls talking to kim as well and his 360 page is interesting. I can tell he likes girls, except the gross ones who show their nipples pierced. But this question is similar to the one before about an ex of mine. a lot of your answers are similar to when I asked about my ex. Y'all thought I should stop writing and emailing him as well. And everyone is right. Haven't heard from my ex for 7 months now.
2007-11-30 04:59:38 · update #1
I cant say i have felt this yet but if it is going to make your marriage life unsettled then you are the only one who can make the decission to either stop it now or continue.If you really love your husband then you should stop before it gets out of control.Remember that in the end,its you who is making the decission!
2007-11-30 14:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by amandaskullcom@rogers.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because you are missing something out of your marriage. How can you say you love this person when it has only been chatting on line. You need to know that people can type things down so very easily to say the right words but in real life it isn't that way. The grass always seems greener on the other side but it could be dry and brittle if you were to choose this man. First of all this new guy if he knows you are married doesn't respect the fact that you are and doesn't care what outcome it has on the husband or on the kids if you have any. You need to stop talking to this other man and start working on your marriage before you two decide to meet up with one another. You are already having an affair on your husband and that is an emotional affair. Stop while your ahead.
2007-11-30 12:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, online chatting has a very strange way of tapping into our minds allowing an almost magical connection between people. Take my advice because I have been there, done that, paid the phone bill, paid for travel, and have nothing to show for it but regret. If you start feeling any kind of romantic connection, it is time to cut ties. Just do it.
2007-11-30 12:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look , alot of good marriages are broken up because of your talking about right now. you need to delete this guy from your list, block him and stop all means of communication with him right now. if you truly love your husband and family . doesnt matter how you look at it, you are cheating on him right now. and you are having feelings for this person on the other end of the computer. so stop it now.
2007-11-30 12:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by butter b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to look deeper into this situation is your marriage doing okay is he not giving you enough attention sounds like your looking to other people for attention your not getting at home try to talk to your hubby about things you talk to with your on line friend and eliminate that on line relationship if not things may get worse for you since you are married ...GOOD LUCK
2007-11-30 12:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by just bored 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please, you don't know him, and for all you know it could be a she, or he could be the grossest thing you have ever seen. Don't go outside your marriage for happiness, if there are problems,(which there must be or you wouldn't be talking to someone else), then work on the marriage. My husband passed away 2 years ago, and we had the usual married problems, but I would never look for someone else to make me happy. You need to let the cyber guy go, and rekindle the marriage. Just my opinion!!!
2007-11-30 12:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I can't say I have.
If you are coming to that point, then it should be time to look the other way and focus on your current relationship...add some spice to it or something.
To me, emotional feelings for someone other than your spouse can be just as damaging.
2007-11-30 12:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly C 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Alarm bells ringing!
You cannot know someone you met on line; people can be anyone they want to be while they are anonymous.
Be realistic....get off the computer and work at your marriage.
2007-11-30 12:43:02 · answer #8 · answered by marie m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband online.....yes it is magical. No...not since I met him. It is the mystery and romance, a little fantasy and risk all rolled in to one. I think you should stop it.
2007-11-30 12:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by Rein 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are spending to much time on line. Expressing your thoughts with someone else other than you husband. Why don't you talk to your husband like you talk to this person on line?
2007-11-30 12:59:06 · answer #10 · answered by Ria J 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋