Marriage & Divorce - 30 November 2007

2007-11-30 14:49:15 · 14 answers · asked by your homies 1

My wife has a friend that is willing to join us in bed for a threesome. She says this is what she wants to give me for a birthday present. Should I do it, or is it going to screw up our marriage forever?

2007-11-30 14:47:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Curious as to anyone who had a long term affair with someone who was married and actually had it work out.

2007-11-30 14:35:01 · 12 answers · asked by AT 1

I have two daughters. One from my abusive 1st husband who has moves 3 states away. My 2nd daughter is from my current marriage. from out of no where,,,,my ex's mother is now harrasing me to have visitation with "both" grandaughters. remember 1st husband very abusive,,,now has 4 other daughters from 4 other women. His mother, my ex mother inlaw....my 1st borns grandmother is now calling me harrasing me to see my daughter, both her and her husband are prescription drug abusers. Not a houlsom enviroment for my 7 year old daughter or my 1 year old daughter. I tell her I have moved on,,,,,,,please let me be and let me provide the proper life and upbringing for my two girls. Now she calls my husband at his workplace,,,threatening to take us to court for grandparents rights..I dont wany my daughters to have anything to do with their drugs,,,unemployemt,,,basiclly I compare them to "jerry springer" people,,,,can you advise me on how to handle this situation???

2007-11-30 14:32:10 · 10 answers · asked by ~~Penny~~ 5

Me and my fiance are having a rather interesting debate. It all began when we were reading about Hulk Hogan and his wife getting their divorce. I mentioned "what if" breast implants were assets, and "what if" the husband could sue for them back. Wouldnt that be funny? Well, my fiance says that legally they can do that. I of course know this, because there is no way that you can be forced to go under the knife to have the implants removed against your will. However, i argued that i can see it logical that the wife would have to pay back the money invested into the implants to the husband. My fiance is very adament about it being legal to have them removed. Let us know the truth! I mean, I already know, but drop a note so i can prove it to him! Thanks!

2007-11-30 14:29:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-30 14:23:29 · 22 answers · asked by Lisa G 1

what are signs he is cheating?

2007-11-30 14:17:17 · 18 answers · asked by ♥ 5

My wifes son is living with and is still in college. He is 33 yrs olds.He has gone to 10-12 different schools. Still has no degree and undecided. He downloads dirty movies to my computer and my wife defends him. He has been in college since 18 and he drives me nuts. The worst of all is he takes my clothes even my underwear. I have separated from my wife. Due to the fact I attmepted suicide. I am better now and am seeking treatment. I feel violated by my wife and her son. I know this relationship is co dependant. Yet she still looks at all her 3 kids as 10,11, & 12. She says her olderst son is like a Grandfather/Father to her other siblings. I am thinking of divorce. We are separated now. Yet, I cannot go back to this mess. Then to top it off he goes into my colonge and wears it.

2007-11-30 14:15:04 · 16 answers · asked by Patrick V 2

I'm in the U.S. dating a Pakistani Muslim. We're in our 30's. He's a "caffeteria muslim" but is a traditionalist when it comes to family. He's lived in America for 14 years and his family is in Pakistan. Anything I should know about as I get into this? I'm not converting...

2007-11-30 14:13:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is everyone so grossed out by this? My grandparents are cousins and their children are perfectly fine; my aunt has a post graduate degree!
It's common for Arabs to marry each other.

2007-11-30 14:11:00 · 20 answers · asked by Gaudyheights 3

I feel so bad about what i've done the last couple of months and now i regret it. I wish i could take it back now. what can i do to make all this guilty feeling to go away and try to do better?

2007-11-30 14:08:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

try to get with married people and knowing it that they are married hopefully had bad stuff happen to them

2007-11-30 14:06:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

where women let guys try their panties on? I'm seeing it in hollywood and women on here are asking about it all the time. Is it something women actually ask their guys to do or let them do?

2007-11-30 14:00:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

we divorced in 93' son was 13 till 98' he was 18, she would'nt except money then, son was institutionalized most of that time, i'm now 51 and child is 28 and shes broke and wants money!!!??

2007-11-30 14:00:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY EX AND I HAVE RECEIVED 50/50 CHILD CUSTODY. NOW MY QUESTION IS... WHO WOULD HAVE THE RIGHT TO CLAIM HER FOR THE TAXES? WE NEVER GOT MARRIED, AND I HAVE HER MOST OF THE TIME BECAUSE I TAKE HER TO SCHOOL....IF THAT HELPS OUT!....SO CAN I CLAIM HER CUZ HE WANTS TO CLAIM HER AND I DONT THINK IT'S FAIR.

2007-11-30 13:56:08 · 15 answers · asked by lil' lady 1

It's a matter of different culture.She always corrected me in bad action and long face which is I feel I don't know where to stand to please them.And the hurtful things is my husband is on his mother side and saying to me I am worst which is not true.I FEEL ALONE and can't stop crying.I can complain nor explain my side coz she can not understand english and i can not understand her saying only me and my husband could understand each other.And now,my husband say SORRY to me what he did.I was hurtful so much thinking that he can not protect me.Now,I feel I lose my interest of everything even he said SORRY.Pls. enlighten me coz I love my husband and I want our marriage work.I don't want my love&feeling will gone.So hard for me to live with his parents especially I am foreigner.thanks for advice

2007-11-30 13:53:56 · 8 answers · asked by macey 1

2007-11-30 13:50:34 · 3 answers · asked by scottie1973twohottie 1

my boyfriend ask me to have a secret married it could be valid?i am widow and i dont know how can i get married again while i am married but i am already widowed. my husband died last year. It is ok if i could married again? another problem is a secret married.it could be valid ?how can i valid the secret married?

2007-11-30 13:48:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just a little backround, Im a product of recent divorce, and have 50% custody of my son from my previous marriage. Ive been seeing this girl about a year and a half now, and bought a house together four months ago. Ive grown to learn quite a bit more about this girl in this time. She's taken a lot of various pills, had a major cutting problem, and also brought upon me a glorious virus known as HPV. However, my toddler loves her, I still love her, yet prior to this relationship she made a lot of bad judgements in my opinion and has never really loved my son as I hoped for. All of this has made me a bit un-trusting, not sure if its because Im insecure or simply becuase of the warning flags ive encountered. To the point, we dont have the greatest sex life, last week I was accused of wanting to leave her, she freaked out over me having a phone call at night, and just recently noticed her phone had about 30 texts on the bill in which I was unaware of. Thoughts?

2007-11-30 13:44:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-30 13:22:31 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

im somewhat dependent on him because i dont work very much because im usually home with our two girls, well it seems as though i have to walk on eggshells in our house, everything i do pisses him off and we dont get along but half the time, we've only been married foir a short 3 years...but i dont know if i was cut out to be married not to mention i was raised by a single parent so the thought of raising my girls on my own doesnt scare me...any suggestions??

2007-11-30 13:21:48 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in a marriage I definitely want to end. We have one son and he is 18 yrs. old. I know that a divorce can be a bit pricey and if you knew my wife she wants everything especially the house. One of the main raesons we're splitting is because of her (bitching and ) alcoholism. Right now I'm not in a financial position to pay a lawyer but I still don't want to be around her either. I have thought of getting my own little place until I get it all together. What course should I take and is separation a good idea? Thanks guys.

2007-11-30 13:11:34 · 4 answers · asked by Nash M 1

Also, for added fun,
What do they do that drives you nuts?!!!

This should be good...... :)

2007-11-30 13:04:58 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-11-30 12:52:10 · 17 answers · asked by rhtzzn 2

i know a good friend who have met a guy online & love . but this men lie to her . he said hes single & 33 yrs old but he have a wife & kids & 56 yrs from egypt ..

2007-11-30 12:50:12 · 19 answers · asked by mari-mar 3

it always seem as if we alway get hurt and they go on with there life! i think that is so unfair. now i no that we should just move on with ours but it is not that easy! so now with the help of u women. what can we do to turn things around? i think it i time for a change . the world put them up on the high. always saying (THAT IS HOW MAN ARE) will now its time for us women to step up. what do u women think we should do???????????????????????????????????

2007-11-30 12:50:02 · 9 answers · asked by ikeem 2

We got engaged recently, but living in a different city (6-hour drive). It has been one and half year since we started this long distance relationship and have to live apart for a while (for one and half year more). I found out that he slept with this woman who is working with him now. He said he still loves me and it was just sex and no feeling involved and long distance relationship was so hard for him. Should I forgive him??? Does he still love me???

2007-11-30 12:47:18 · 25 answers · asked by fatal attraction 1

To the guys.....

When she stare's at your mouth
[ Kiss her ]



When she pushes you or hit's you
[ Grab her and dont let go ]



When she start's cursing at you
[ Kiss her and tell her you love her ]



When she's quiet
[ Ask her whats wrong ]



When she ignore's you
[ Give her your attention ]



When she pull's away
[ Pull her back ]



When you see her at her worst
[ Tell her she's beautiful ]



When you see her crying
[Just hold her and dont say a word ]



When you see her walking
[ Sneak up and hug her waist from behind ]



When she's scared
[ Protect her ]



When she lay's her head on your shoulder
[ Tilt her head up and kiss her ]



When she steal's your favorite hat
[ Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night]



When she tease's you
[ Tease her back and make her laugh ]



When she doesnt answer for a long time
[ reassure her that everything is okay ]



When she look's at you with doubt
[ Back yourself up ]



When she say's that she like's you
[ she really does more than you could understand ]



When she grab's at your hands
[ Hold her's and play with her fingers ]



When she tell's you a secret
[ keep it safe and untold ]



When she looks at you in your eyes
[ dont look away until she does ]



When she misses you
[ she's hurting inside ]



When you break her heart
[ the pain never really goes away ]



When she says its over
[ she still wants you to be hers ]



When she repost this bulletin
[ she wants you to read it ]



- Stay on the phone with her even if shes not saying anything.



- When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go



- When she says she's ok dont believe it, talk with her



- because 10 yrs later she'll remember you



- Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her



- Call her before you sleep and after you wake up



- Treat her like she's all that matters to you.



- Tease her and let her tease you back.



- Stay up all night with her when she's sick.



- Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think its stupid.



- Give her the world.



- Let her wear your clothes.



- When she's bored and sad, hang out with her.



- Let her know she's important.



- Kiss her in the pouring rain.



- When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you say is;

"Who's *** am I kicking babe?"

2007-11-30 12:35:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What things do you feel the need to lie about? My x perverted husband lied all the time about his disgusting little sex habits! Thats why I left him! Free at last Free at last! Yall?

2007-11-30 12:31:09 · 28 answers · asked by sandra b 5

Today at work I had on a shirt with a scooped neck. My shoulders are very small, so sometimes my shirt ventures off my shoulder a little bit. Today I was walking along to go back to my desk when I almost ran into one of the guys I work with. I noticed that he kind of glanced down and back up again. When I got back to the desk, I noticed that my bra strap was showing. I don't know if it was showing at the time I ran into my co-worker or not, or if he was just glancing at what I had in my hand (and mouth which was a straw and drink). Would that bother you if you saw another co-worker's bra strap? Also I notice that my pantyline was very much showing, and I wear bikini style, because I think thongs are slutty. Is this kind of thing annoying to you too?

2007-11-30 12:30:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous