what are signs he is cheating?
2007-11-30 14:17:17 · 18 answers · asked by ♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it's just he's never home
and they dont fight fight.
but one time he stormed out, from making the stupidest fight ever!!
and my mom told me they havent had sex in a while..
although i did catch a pregnancy test in our groceries
2007-11-30 14:29:30 · update #1
Never home, crappy attitude when they are home, shows no love to their spouse
2007-11-30 14:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm surprised that some people are saying it's none of your business. It IS your business when it could mean the destruction of your family.
There isn't anything you can do about it except confront your dad. If you have any evidence at all that he is indeed cheating, that might be a good idea. You must then decide if telling your mother is something YOU want to do. I would have a hard time telling my mom something like that, but if I were the one being cheated on, I think I would prefer to hear it from my child than to never hear it at all. I mean, ideally it should be my husband telling me, but that's not likely to happen. Generally cheaters don't divulge the affair to their spouses unless they're found out, or if they've planned to leave the marriage.
Edit: If they haven't had sex in a while, and you saw a pregnancy test in with your groceries, perhaps your mom is having an affair, too. Perhaps they both are, and are staying together just for your sake. Who knows? Man, I would be soooo confused right now if this were me. I can imagine how you must be feeling.
2007-11-30 22:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by Shayna 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
A pregnany test in the groceries almost looks like they are cheating on each other like in the pinacolada song. Sooner or later someone will get caught and they will eventually have to explain something to you. Stay out of the way and try not to take sides. There is a life lesson for you here. When push comes to shove you will not be shocked. Oh and the no sex in a while part could be a medical thing and you are reading this all wrong.
2007-11-30 22:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by crackerjack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to not make this issue yours. You might think you know what's going on but in all probability, I am sure you don't know the half of it. At any rate...to involve yourself in whether or not he is cheating will only intensify matters...not help. Irregardless of what-ever, you MUST let them handle it.
If you must intervene, then I suggest you try and gain their attention and let them know(both at the same time) how painful it is for you to see them so unhappy and in turn makes you unhappy as well. Offer your help in any way possible. Let your part of the conversation be sincere and not accusatory and let that be the limit of your involvement.
2007-11-30 22:53:13 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine why your mom would think it was appropriate to talk to you about her sex life. She does that to use you as an emotional crutch or to get you on her side. Either way it's unfair. Of course it IS your business as their relationship has everything to do with you. You're smart and you know both people and live with both people involved. Trust your instincts. Sit them both down and let them know their behavior is hurting you. You may suggest family counseling. If either one steps over bounds again and talks to you like you're one of their adult friends, say,"I am your child, is it appropriate to talk to me about this??"Hopefully they'll get the point. Whatever happens, your parents need to know that they're being inappropriate and that their behavior is hurting you. Good luck.
2007-12-01 00:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you and why do you think that?
You might be seeing something that isn't there, I agree with the rest and stay out of it, if you love both your parents, you don't want to be in the middle of it
and I hope they leave you out of it as well
2007-11-30 22:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by vjustmehere 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you honestly must know, then ask him about it. He will tell you that even if he was it would be none of your business. He would be right. There is no sense in suspecting this without undeniable proof. If you bring it up, then you risk driving a wedge between your parents.
2007-11-30 22:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If he is cheating, your mom already knows. Stay out of grown folk business.
2007-11-30 22:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
let them deal with it your mom might never told you everything that caused it sorry but that goes both ways on cheating let them settle it .
2007-11-30 22:57:29 · answer #9 · answered by matthew v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.
If your mom is telling you about her sex life with your father, she is REALLY immature about boundaries and doing more harm than good.
STAY OUT OF IT.
2007-11-30 22:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your name isn't Nancy Drew, stay out of it.
The Rat
2007-11-30 22:25:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋