Curious as to anyone who had a long term affair with someone who was married and actually had it work out.
2007-11-30 14:35:01 · 12 answers · asked by AT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you mean have it work out with the one you had the affair with or had it work out with the one you cheat on? Affairs don't work out to long term because they're based on lies and deception. You have a secret, sneaky relationship with the person without ever having them intermingle with your parents, your friends or other family members. Part of having a sucessful relationship is sharing your partner with the ones you love. The only thing you've had is sex.
2007-11-30 17:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I got out! I was tried of being second! I hated to let go. It took a long time to heal.I did! in fact I became stronger! After a while, I decided that my life was very full...great friends and family...a good job...I own my house, have a nice car and some money in the bank.Most important, I learned to like myself again.And I met a very nice,sexy sweet 'single' guy who treats me like a queen! It's funny all of this came about because of one stupid married man...I guess it did work out, for me.
2007-11-30 22:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by Joan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dated someone recently for three years and we have been separated now for a year! We broke up because he started cheating on me with someone else! He swore he wasn't but I caught him texting someone else and dissing me in the same aspect! Till this day he swares by gosh nothing was going on with him and the other chick but just think, he was sooooooooooo honest with our relationship then why didn't he tell me that he was texting someone else? I don't believe nothing he say about there relationship because he kept me in the dark but preached to me about how we had to have this so called honesty in our relationship because we were living a lie! Then on top of that, we tried recently to work it out but the damage was soooooooo bad till I couldn't trust him!!!!!!! I wish I would've left him prior to me wasting all that time............ He makes a good friend but he done told so many lies to his wife and me till he really done siked himself out that there's some truth to some of the stuff he do! He's crazy but I'm sure he's happy now! He can date as many woman as he wants now!!!!!!!!!! I am not going to say I am totally over him, just happy that I don't get sucked up in his b/s anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Because nothing has changed he's still lying and making excuses..................... He's sad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-30 22:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by rita_hiemy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not had one but I have known several people that have and none of them ever worked out. I think people use other people thinking the grass is greener. but in the long run they find what they already have is the best thing. but that is just what I have seen.
2007-11-30 22:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by Roxanne G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it worked out with my good friend, they were married, had a son and divorced after 8 years. They knew each other tricks for cheating and it bothered them.
It is better to be honest!
2007-11-30 22:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by cloud7 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have never had an affair, but think of it like this....If you start a relationship with mistrust, then how can you ever really have trust?
2007-11-30 22:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by risahath 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeap. We have been married 15 years now. But it is rare and I don't suggest it. It was emotionally painful in the beginning.
2007-11-30 22:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Moe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
worked out in what way? mine lasted 6 years it worked out for both of us. this was many moons ago and we are still friends. it helped my marriage cause i had someone to talk to among other things. we will always be there to lend a shoulder or ear... that's how it worked for me.......
2007-11-30 22:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by madmax 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope.
2007-11-30 22:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by mouse81841 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had one but wished i hadent my wife now found out and she was crazy enoght to tape me and her and tell her now.ex. husband does that give you a answer
2007-11-30 22:47:56 · answer #10 · answered by matthew v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋