It's a matter of different culture.She always corrected me in bad action and long face which is I feel I don't know where to stand to please them.And the hurtful things is my husband is on his mother side and saying to me I am worst which is not true.I FEEL ALONE and can't stop crying.I can complain nor explain my side coz she can not understand english and i can not understand her saying only me and my husband could understand each other.And now,my husband say SORRY to me what he did.I was hurtful so much thinking that he can not protect me.Now,I feel I lose my interest of everything even he said SORRY.Pls. enlighten me coz I love my husband and I want our marriage work.I don't want my love&feeling will gone.So hard for me to live with his parents especially I am foreigner.thanks for advice
2007-11-30 13:53:56 · 8 answers · asked by macey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would be so mad at him. I would tell him that you dont appreciate that and that he needs to respect you.
2007-11-30 14:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I won't say what a man won't do to me, but I will say what he will do for the 1st time and after I get through putting my foot down in front of everybody, whether they speak English or not. I will be willing to bet you that she and he will think twice before disrespecting me ever again. Tell him that his apology doesn't set well with you yet. Talk about it and let him know that thit is his final time treating you like you are second rate. Tell him that you are his wife and you come 1st now and he need to practice this. He is suppose to protect you.
2007-11-30 22:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you and hubby need to get a place of your own. However if living with his parents is your only option you will have to learn to ignore mommy in law. It is hard for any man to go against the woman who raised him. Im sure your hubby loves you.
2007-11-30 22:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear, sorry to remind you but.....you got yourself into this situation. You married a man and went living with his parents whom don't speak a word of your language. As the saying goes: you've made your bed now you've got to lay in it.
Convince your husband to move out into your own home.
2007-11-30 21:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would never treat my lady/wife bad privately/pubicly, this man needs some manners!! Keep your knees crossed tightly until he knows you mean it! And explain it to him , so he will understand!!!
2007-11-30 22:01:38 · answer #5 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Calm down and relax.
When you regain control of your emotions you need to start making some rational decisions. But do not do anything until you have calmed down.
Good luck.
2007-11-30 21:59:26 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
My husband wouldn't do that. He has respect for me. Maybe if your husband had that he wouldn't do it either. You're with a man who sounds like he thinks of you more as property than as the love of his life.
2007-11-30 21:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
How would i feel ? My hand would extend , my hand would go SMACK AHOLE who you talking to !
2007-11-30 22:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋