it always seem as if we alway get hurt and they go on with there life! i think that is so unfair. now i no that we should just move on with ours but it is not that easy! so now with the help of u women. what can we do to turn things around? i think it i time for a change . the world put them up on the high. always saying (THAT IS HOW MAN ARE) will now its time for us women to step up. what do u women think we should do???????????????????????????????????
2007-11-30 12:50:02 · 9 answers · asked by ikeem 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
make them take care of the kids and bills. See how they like it.
2007-11-30 13:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They appear that way don't they. But I really do not believe they are. A large majority of my boyfriends (all but one, which was more like a brother...reason for the breakup) have come back to me. That does not sound like "going on with their lives" at all. I think it has more to do with the person, than what is between their legs. I have always been good a picking up the pieces and shoving them down in my pocket until they get lost in the wash (sometimes that takes a while).
Moving on, and appearing to move on are two very different things.
2007-11-30 20:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am wayyy too old for that speech you made. The only and best thing you can do is move on with your life. The point of being a woman ... is acting like one. Holding aggressions on the inside and trying to '' get back'' at someone, lets them know that they still have a hold on you. I refuse to give them power over me. Karma take care of all of the revenge I need, while I heal myself, learn from the mistake and find another brother that will make me forget about ole what's his name?
2007-11-30 21:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men are better at hiding their feelings than women. men dont like to show signs of weakness and will play it off. where women will cry their hearts out to anyone that will listen. each of the sexes deals with break out in their own ways. but men do feel as much pain as women do over breakups they just show it different.
its hard for women to have sex just for sex and not get attached. where as most men can love them and leave them. this happened with my cousin one time. found a girl that just wanted to have sex and noting more. I told him dont do this as she will want more in the relationship and one day it happened and he was married. so he broke it off and learned his lession.
2007-11-30 21:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jecht 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as for you my suggestion is to take a valium and a nice long nap. Move on with your life and stop holding bitterness inside of you.
Holding a grudge hurts no one but you.
2007-11-30 20:56:00 · answer #5 · answered by Been here before 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Believe me...some women are the same way....from experience
2007-11-30 21:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You take your life one day at a time... even one moment at a time if you need to. Then you simply begin making better decisions for yourself and you life.
Good luck.
2007-11-30 20:59:03 · answer #7 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you ever seen Samantha?? the character from SEX AND THE CITY?? thats how you do it!!! Never in love, never clingy, no strings attached!!! if you can do that, youll be called a biiiiaatch but you wont be hurting......... EVER!!
2007-11-30 21:02:03 · answer #8 · answered by suehellen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go out with their freinds and be the best girl freind they ever had.. so them what they are missing..
2007-11-30 21:15:44 · answer #9 · answered by vis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋