Ive been with my boyfriend for alittle over a year we live together. I just don't trust him and just feel that he's not in love with me anymore. The lack of trust started when we first started dating. I saw on his myspace he was messaging back and fourth with different girls even though we weren't offical. I was with him everyday and night and hooking up which hurt me. He deleted his myspace and all the numbers of girls out of his phone willingly i didnt even tell him to. Then i find this picture in his dresser of a woman . He say's that she was a friend from work. But he's not the type just to have a girl thats a "friend" Then we were cleaning out his closet and i found a box the "ex girlfriend" box there was all the stuff of his exgirlfriend from like 5 years ago they dated for four years and she cheated on him. And then he cheated on his girlfriend before me with the one from four years. Which has always made me jealous because he never talked to girls behind that girls back
2007-11-30 04:14:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
back nd that girl even cheated on him and he went back to her to hurt his old girlfriend. How do i know im not next. Then when he was working nightshift i went on his computer and saw emails he sent he was chatting with some random girl from a chatroom saying shes soo pretty. Then his past birthday his exgirlfriend called him and that friend from the picture also called. And i spoke with them both. Which i think is odd that their calling after all these years. Im with him every day and night we live with eachother and ive been checking his phone and email and theres nothing. This has made me so insecure and jealous. And for the last 2 months his been really unintrested in sex. I have a feeling hes cheating on me or has cheated on me . But it would be impossible because im with him all the time. What do you think i should do? How can i get over my jealousy and insecurity? Please help me.
2007-11-30 04:14:28 · update #1
Don't be so sure about anything. I am married and have been with him for three years. My husband cheated on me and I always thought it was impossible because we live together and work together. So i couldn't figure it out. But unfortunatly I had no clue, it started out with him chatting to friends on line I thought he was talking to one of our friends(cause thats what he told me) but i found out later he was talking to that girl. I understand what you are going through and I feel for you. Sit him down and talk to him if he gets upset and won't listen to reason then you know there is something going on. Becareful for the truth though it could be painful.
2007-11-30 04:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by zyah77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You don't trust him, and you are not going to "learn" to trust him. It sounds like you have been snooping through his stuff since day one- which means he can't trust you, either. This is not a good relationship. Time to go.
2007-11-30 04:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by sarah jane 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow im not the only one who doesnt trust her boyfriend for the same reason exsept mine is addicted to porn and looking at other girls but anyway ill tell you the same thing every one tells me and what i should do LEAVE HIM! theres no reason to stick around if you dont trust him cuz then you never get to be happy.
2007-11-30 04:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs T. 2009 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need some new boyfriends to date...There is no trust left in this relationship..
Good luck
2007-11-30 04:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by Dog Rescuer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd think twice before staying with him. You'll always be wondering what he's doing behind your back and it will ruin the relationship.
2007-11-30 04:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him, don't ignore the sings ,once a cheater always a cheater. There are plenty of guys to go around don't get stuck there it will leave you hurting in the end.
2007-11-30 04:21:28 · answer #6 · answered by liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RED FLAG!! get out before he hurts you more.
2007-11-30 05:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by netz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose him, little girl.
2007-11-30 04:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋