28 year old male personal trainer falling for his 42 yr old female client who is married
2007-11-30 03:38:47 · 16 answers · asked by Maria 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would tell your client that you are no longer able to be her trainer. That you have an inappropriate attraction to her and it just makes your life difficult.
2007-11-30 03:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sort of the opposite, although once in a long while I'll find myself both sexually and emotionally attracted to the same person. :) It seems I can't go anywhere without an onslaught of sexy women walking past me. I try to pretend not to be turned on by them but it's difficult! The other day there were two women out rollerblading in their underwear! It's weird to say it but times like that I almost feel like a man, or even a complete lesbian even though I'm actually bisexual. Don't worry about labels, just wait for the person who is the coincidence of both these elements (sexual and emotional). Just think, all it takes is one person and who knows when he or she could come into your life and turn everything upside down (in a good way) !
2016-04-06 05:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to drop her as a client. First, it would be extremely unprofessional of you to start something up with her. Second, she's married. You just can't have relationships with married people. It's not healthy. You might have something fun and exciting and taboo in the beginning, but it will get bad. Cut all ties with her and move on.
2007-11-30 03:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey.
first, do not feel ashamed/bad. as long as you are living, you'll always have crushes.
second, you guys have something in common, you workout/train and as your client so does she. this is part of the reason you feel attracted (in addition to the stretching and flexing she does in front of you ;)
third, as long as you repeat to yourself 'she is married' when you get those naughty thoughts, it's help you to prevent doing/saying something that will lead to trouble.
last, this is going to be difficult to decide on... you COULD tell her how you feel, she'll appreciated the compliment and most important, once you've gotten it off your chest and admit your feelings, it'll help you deal w/that crush a lot easier (it helped me out once). however, she could be in a really great marriage and she thought nothing would make her want to go astray. and this might make her want to attracted to you and try out out. so think hard about this last bit of advice, as for the previous three, definitely follow them.
2007-11-30 03:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by sqpantsgirl103 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never a good idea to get involved with a married person. Because in the end you'll be the one getting hurt. Even if she left her husband. Would you really trust her, because if she'd do that to her husband she'd do it to you.
2007-11-30 04:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by Tania 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your getting too "personal". If she is married, I wouldn't do anything unless she makes her first move which is filing for divorce. For now just admire her from a far.
2007-11-30 03:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a personal trainer too.
A PROFESSIONAL trainer doesn't get emotionally involved with clients.
Its very bad for your clientele list, and the gym/club you work for. And you should know that.
2007-11-30 03:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should tell her, and help her find a new trainer. This can only end one way...BAD
2007-11-30 07:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by Michael S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trouble she's married and you could loose a lot in you go forward this this.
2007-11-30 03:53:54 · answer #9 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill out man. i doubt she needs you freaking falling in love with her and ruining her marriage. i am sure she just wanted a piece on the side.
2007-11-30 03:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋