I just truly want to tell her how I feel about her coming into my relationship and my life.
Stupid, I know.
2007-11-30 07:50:02 · 32 answers · asked by orange c 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You want to hurt her??? REALLY Hurt her? Don't call her....act like everything is peachy keen and in 9 months, when all this has blown over torch her car!
LMAO!!!!
It KILLS me these people here acting like SHE is so innocent and you should only be mad at your man. Yes, SHE DID hurt you! YES, She DID NOT CARE. Yes, she IS GUILTY TOO!
If she were so fuking innocent, then why did she go out of her way to help HIM KEEP THIS UNDER WRAPS??? Whatever!
SCREW torching her car........TORCH HER FUKING HOUSE!
2007-11-30 08:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Your not stupid sometimes men don't fully represent their situation. Does she even know you exist. If she doesn't then yes make your presence known. If she knows about you then she's not going to get anything but a thrill out of your anger.
But if you have to call or email be smooth with it make her think she's one of many. This will belittle her. Tell her the guilt sex and gifts are always the bomb after he's out with one of his toys. Say something like so F*CK YOU very much tramp. Never let on to her that it bothers you as much as it does.
2007-11-30 08:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by THIC007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it won't make u feel better it will instead hurt u more, because the more u know the worse u will feel. don't dignify what has happened here, as u won't get the truth or any acknowledgment of guilt from her, she knew when she did it what she was doing. instead confront your husband, and if u are planning to repair the marriage, focus on that instead. do u really expect her to be sorry? or tell u she won't see him anymore? why would u trust anything she says. ignore the woman as the more u know the worse u will feel.
2007-11-30 09:42:45 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. If you do, you are telling her you allowed for her to come between you and your husband. You will only give her more confidence that she has done the damage. Don't contact her unless you are backing out of your marriage. If you want to stay in, just focus on your husband. This is your way of saying "this issue is between me and MY husband, it has nothing to do with you". It makes her feel like an outsider, and that will kill her.
2007-11-30 08:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What good would it do?
If she knows she's interfering with your relationship, she just plain doesn't care what you think or may have to say about it.
And, if he's cheating on you, what in the world can you do but throw him out & start all over?
I can identify with you that you would love to get this off your chest, but I wouldn't waste my time if I were you.
Time to move on.
Good luck.
2007-11-30 07:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by Barbi T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, kill the b**** with kindness. When my bf cheated with his ex-fiance for several months she was the one to tell me about it. She expected me to kick his a** to the curb thinking he would come running straight to her. But he didn't! We worked it out and are more in love now than ever. She can't stand it! I never said one bad word to her, talked behind her back, or anything like that. I even smile and wave if I happen to pass her in town now. It drives her nuts!
2007-11-30 08:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are talking about the other woman as your mans other... i would leave it alone. She does not care how it makes you feel other wise she would of never done it. and it will give her that much more satisfaction when you tell her how horrible your life is now that she has came in it... Leave it alone. Move on.
2007-11-30 07:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by me_myself 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hmm it's a tough call. Maybe you should. Someone needs to do her a favor and wake her up (unless she is a selfish bi*tch) by telling that sleeping with someone else's husband, she hurts a lot of people. She is hurting you!!!
But I would suggest you to think about it over night. Write an email but don't send it. Save it instead to your computer and sleep over. If the next morning you still want to send it, then do it.
2007-11-30 07:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by terliuke 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
no. she had NO commitment to you. she didn't avow herself to you. she's just a stupid woman who thinks a man who would cheat on his wife/girlfriend with HER wouldn't turn around and cheat on her with some other little thing that makes herself too available.
she's an idiot, but she didn't do anything to you....the man did.
and no, you're not stupid to want to lash out. it wouldn't be a good idea, though. if he winds up with her, she'll get hers anyway.
2007-11-30 07:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by blue-in-groove 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter and then burn it. You will not get any satisfaction from confronting & letting her know how much she has hurt your relationship. Also write one to your spouse, giving it too him is your option.
Learn & grow from this horrible experience.
EYEWI~PEACE
2007-11-30 08:10:21 · answer #10 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The other woman is not the guilty party, your husband is. He violated your wedding vowels, and cheated on you. There could be several "other women" besides.
Don't blame the women, blame him.
2007-11-30 07:57:26 · answer #11 · answered by I.M. Wright 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋