I had a daughter when I married him, she was then 17. I and he had a child together, a daughter. In a year he divorced me and married my daughter, and they, too, had a child together, yet another daughter.
What should I do?
2007-11-30 07:38:05 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she is now 20, and he is 69.
2007-11-30 07:39:32 · update #1
Depending on the state you are in, the marriage may not be legal. Many states forbid step parents from marrying their step children. If that is the case, their marriage may be void. You would have to look up the laws in your state.
2007-11-30 07:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by CAITLIN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to go Jerry Springer show!! That is a 49year Difference !!! What is the world was your daughter thinking?? Now this Man (your ex) is now the father of your child, the father of your daughter's child (making her your Grandaughter!!) Wow !! That's a Freaky Situation !! Not much you can do I don't think at this point. How is your relationship with your daughter?? This Man sounds like a Looney Tune !!!! Godd Luck !!!
2007-11-30 07:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by casper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what can you do!?? What a mess, but you already know that. I believe I'd give my daughter a phone number to get ahold of me cause she is definately going to need you and the child is your daughters child. Move out of the area away from this perv, and give your youngest daughter a chance to have a decent life without the mess.
2007-11-30 07:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by litl m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I don't even know what to say. I blame him totally. She was only 18 and he is in his 60's. Certainly he took advantage of her and has somehow brainwashed her.
Your daughter was young and stupid. He pulled the wool over your eyes and you were a grown woman, imagine what he did to her.
Be there for her because eventually she will figure it out or he will dump her too.
I'm sorry for your pain.
2007-11-30 07:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is beyond you. Give your daughter your contact info and take your child and move away from them as far as possible and start things fresh. It's hopeless for your daughter, but you have another child you have to look out for. Mark my words, your daughter WILL contact you one day, when she sees him for what he really is. For now, there is nothing you can do for her, save yourself.
2007-11-30 07:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can you do but pray....
I encourage you to get on your knees and receive God. He is the only one that can open the morally blind eyes of your family. There is an emotional deficiency in you and your daughter's relationship that has been manipulated by your ex (her husband). God will show you how to fill those empty places, forgive and heal from this situation.
I will lift you in prayer for a sound mind in the midst of this storm....
2007-11-30 07:44:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
w-o-w
you sure picked one, didn't you?
well, what CAN you do? your daughter's kid is your grandkid. and......your daughter with him is the aunt of the new baby. jesus. i'd probably not be too involved in their lives, but what CAN you do? there's nothing TO do. . . .except maybe call springer and find out if they have a "worst daughter ever" episode, b/c you raised one hell of a piece of work there!
2007-11-30 07:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by blue-in-groove 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, didn't I see this on Jerry Springer? Was the you?
If this is real... I'm sorry to make light of the situation. This is just so very messed up.
2007-11-30 07:47:00 · answer #8 · answered by Scorpio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Jerry Springer cant even help you out that is so gross I couldnt ever sllep with a man that my mother slept with nasty whats wrong her I hope you dont raise this one that way
2007-11-30 08:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by momo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not what you should do, but rather what you should have done. And that is raise a child with enough decency not to get involved with mommy's partner(s).
2007-11-30 07:58:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋