women: what are signs that your hubby cheats on you with a coworker??

Question

i need the little signs women usually try to ignore.

Answer 1

Everyone is different and shows things differently. He might be acting different towards you, and it may be that he is not even cheating, it could be something else.

Answer 2

Works late.
Starts wearing cologne to the office.
Buys new work clothes.
Has unaccounted for time.
Doesn't want you to come to the office.
Doesn't want you to come to the Christmas party.
Travels on business with that co-worker.
Travels more than used to for business trips.
Takes Viagra with him on business trip.
Goes on hunting & fishing trips.
Plays golf or tennis.
Either has more or less interest in sex with you.
Emails her.
Her phone number is in his cell phone.
Boundaries are blurred, not just business, into her personal life, too.
Getting phone calls that hang up when you answer.

Get the Divorce Buster book and begin collecting all the info and evidence you can on her where she lives, her parents, boss, her minister, church, friends. Because if after confronting her she will not call him in front of you and tell him to never contact her again by email, text, phone or any other method, then you apply social pressure by telling her husband, boyfriend, parents, minister, everybody what a whore she it.

Meantime (hard as it is) you must be the prettier, pleasant, more charming kind person than she is. Don't argue with him or he will go to her. Never agree however, with the cheating.A lot of affairs end - so if you can wait it out, it will probably disappear.

If you know her and see her, you can tell her what a great husband and father he is. How he pampers you and loves you - it'll drive her crazy - she'll get mad at him. Then maybe she won't look so good to him when she starts nagging him to leave you.

Joy to you.

Answer 3

Look at any tiny thing which may be out of the norm.

See if he dresses any differently .. like special grooming .. more cologne .. more particular about his hair .. clothing, etc.

Does he stay at the office more?

Or does he get more phone calls from the office .. thus, her?

Check his email .. or put a key logger on the computer.

Have the cell phone bill itemized for calls .. if you pay the bill .. or call them and ask for specific phone numbers.

Mention her name .. watch his reaction.

Does she call you? Some women who are having an affair with other women's husband - will try to befriend the wife ... they think they have them fooled .. and lots of times they do have them fooled.

His relations with you might change.

Does he seemed more preoccupied .. like he is thinking of something.

Look at items bought on credit cards.

Is he spending more money?

Does he have private .. or quiet .. phone conversations?

Is he going other places alone, more often?

There is a difference in this next statement.

There are people who are naturally jealous & suspicious.
However - there is a difference in a gut feeling.

I know someone who had been married for over 30 years. The lady was not jealous .. and she had never had any feeling about her husband having any affairs. The husband changed jobs. Suddenly .. one day .. the lady got the funniest gut feeling inside of her - that her husband was doing something that he should not. Everyday, this feeling consumed her. She had no reason for the feeling to be there. Then suddenly - a lady co-worker contacted her online .. and acted like she wanted to be her friend .. then it turned into confessions of how wonderful she found her husband to be .. and it continued on. The lady told the wife of things the husband told her of their private conversations.
So - the wife learned that her gut feeling was telling her something true ... her husband was associating with the lady at the office. Point here .. is to listen to your gut. Not natural jealousy .. but to what your guy may tell you.

Don't let your husband know that you are suspicious. Don't accuse him.

Catch him. That is .. if you really want to know. Be prepared .. in case you do find out the truth. It hurts.

Answer 4

Iti is very thoughtful of you to about the spouse and the children but people today only think about themselves and I think you shouldn't concern yourself with his extramarital affairs. Im not a big fan of cheating spouses but that the games they play, so let it be. You don't know what else is going on behind close doors. Maybe, the wife is or has cheated in the past--there are alot of problems in a relationshipship that lead to this sort of behavior. BTW: Im a man that cared and my wife used my heart like a floormat. It would be nice to know what you decide to do so feel free to email me.

Answer 5

If your having a gut feeling, thats a sign! If it took you to ask the question, then honey your hubby is doing something with his coworker.

Does he talk about her? See some guys try to play it off and talk so bad about a coworker.. but then they keep on and keep on and keep on.. to the point were they are just spending every second speaking of the coworker!
Then some guys just dont say bad things bout her, and they just talk about them.

follow your heart, and try to get proof before you jump to conclusions. especially if there are kids involved. Good luck

Answer 6

If he stays late or has to go in at odd hours. Or is making excuses about where he is doing the day. Or take up a new hobby just out of the blue. Like golf, tennis. Trust me on this. I have a wife who is doing this same things with me.

Answer 7

change of attitude, keeping different hours, preoccupied, if he has a cell phone start looking at the bill it should have a list of calls on it if it doesn't you can go where you got them and ask for a copy of the calls. start showing up where he's suppose to be surprise him. just tell him you wanted to say hi and that you missed him.

Answer 8

If he tries to keep you away from her at office xmas party's, or he spends more time at work then usual, he keeps trying to take sneak peeks at her when he thinks your not looking, he hides his phone calls from you at home, he says her name by accident at home, or not really interested in your sex life anymore, or has decreased in your sex life lately, and gets up extra early to go to work.

Answer 9

Ahhh yes, those co-workers. He seems to be spending more time at the office, needs to go in earlier, isn't available for lunch anymore because he has a built in lunch date at the office...these are a few I know of.

Answer 10

See his reaction whenever you mention it.See if he trys to change the subject,or shows any signs of guilt.