We got married about three years ago. I am lucky for my husband is as fond of me as he was at the time of marriage. A week ago he bought one of those books on how to have a happy marriage. He wants to keep our sex life exciting and suggested that we have sex at different corners in our house starting with the balcony, sofa, underneath the dinning table, up on the terrace, in the garage etc. Is is normal to have relations at these weird places?
2007-11-30 22:52:43 · 20 answers · asked by the_young_bride 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its normal if you like it, if you don't care for it, then let him know and make other suggestions of your own. :)
2007-11-30 22:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by Runa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you use the word wierd and normal may indicate you don't feel comfortable with it...My thought is that If it does not feel right...don't do it. If these places feel weird and uncomfortable trying to force yourself to try and do what you do just to please your wonderful husband may impede your enjoyment factor. Your enjoyment is paramount...guys will get off no matter what. If on the other hand you crave adventure get comfy on the sofa with your man...close the blinds, light a candle and put on some soft music to get in the mood...a nice massage wouldn't hurt either, make him work for it!!!
2007-12-01 00:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by DWInSTL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its normal.
Its one of the stages of married sex.
This would be "house sex" where you have sex in places all over the house.
In ten years or so you will be reduced to "bedroom sex" Then you will probably have children around and will be confined to the bedroom.
After 25 years you will be reduced to "hall sex". That is where you walk by each other in the hall and snarl " F-You" at each other........................................
Okay, its a joke alright?
But seriously, "house sex" is fun . Whatever you want to do together is cool. There is no "normal " between married concenting adults. Go for it.
2007-12-01 00:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it a try....what's the worst case scenario? you catch the curtains on fire? you break some furniture? the neighbors catch a glimpse of the action? you have to stop mid schtooping for a bout of uncontrollable laughter when you realize that your head is laying in a plate of old spaghetti? All funny/sexy little stories to reminisce over one day and laugh together.
Sex should be fun, I learned that not so long ago....it's still a bonding experience even if it isn't all super seriousness with deeply soul penetrating conversation......not that I'm knocking that route either.....balance is good.
2007-12-01 03:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by NurseJenipants 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, this is normal. Spice is what keeps it exciting. You don't want to have sex at the same time, in your bedroom in missionary position for the exact same amount of time for the rest of your life do you? Get wild, have fun. That's what it's all about.
2007-11-30 23:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married 12 yrs and we have made love everywhere in the house.
At the airport where we used to work...conveyor belt, airplane forklift
on the hood of our old car...under the full moon
in the local park on a picnic table!
talk about fun!
try it! It is wonderful!
2007-12-01 02:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so good you are asking this q and confirming whether it could be normal or not . he must be a good but eccentrically excited about doing sex in different corners so his mood and environment act as elevators and increases his sexual activity, than usual and normal boring single place. be happy and enjoy along with him.but be sure you don't get exhibited and feeling embarrassed
2007-11-30 23:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by son of adoctor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Remember, if this marriage is done right, neither one of you will sleep with anyone else for the rest of your life. If you do the same thing over and over and over, it could get mundane... try new things, places, positions, times, etc.... It'll keep your sex life fresh, interesting, and erotic....
2007-12-01 01:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by Aimee R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was married, we had sex while people were waiting on us to get dressed, while in a swimming pool at 11am, in a car, and in the living room on the floor while kids were in bed. I understand Columbus took a chance too.
2007-11-30 23:00:32 · answer #9 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look for a book called ESO - Extended Sexual Orgasm. That is the book you should read. And having spontaneous sex is not weird. Have it anyplace, except the grocery store.
2007-12-01 02:55:25 · answer #10 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not even sure it is normal to have a husband practice preventative maintenance so conscientiously, so just thank your lucky stars, just don't get yourselves arrested lol.
2007-11-30 23:05:13 · answer #11 · answered by and_y_knot 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋