What do you do when everything you've worked for is going wrong?
I am currently in a school a junior in college and manage to maintain my gpa up to a 3.23 (although I could have done better but I've been dealing with depression which affected my performance tremendoulsy). However this semester things haven't been going as well as i've hoped. I am not doing good in any of my classes (except one in which I think I may get a B+). There is one class I know I am definitely failing. Nothing I do works, and I have never had to work so hard to get Failing grade in return. It is really depressing me, my ambition and motivation just went down the drain. I want to quit because I don't see the point in me going to school if that's all I can give. Usually I would say that I would never quit but at this point i have no hope. It's already the end of the semester and the time to drop the class has already passed. I don't know what to do. I am crying hysterically right now because I feel like an idiot with no brain.
2007-11-26 08:25:12 · 5 answers · asked by . 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do not give up. When the semester is over you need to take a break. Can you take a lighter class load next semester? You are stressed and you need to have your depression treated. It will be much better if you do that. Do not feel like an idiot. We all have rough patches and we learn from them. The important thing is how you get through them. If you quit now you really will watch things go wrong. All is not lost, just a set back. See if there is anything that you can do to bring them up. If you cannot cut your loses and start over next semester. If you have to repeat it just do that and chalk it up to a learning experience. You will experience those all through out your life. There is nothing you cannot get through. Think how great it will be when you are finished and you have accomplished your goal. Hang in there girl and get the help you need for your depression. Never give up!
2007-11-26 08:44:44 · answer #1 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I have been in this exact frame of mind for slightly different reasons. It all feels pointless when you feel like this. But, trust me, this is the time to sit down and figure out what you want your life to be. From the pain, you will find very deep and meaningful answers coming out. That is the reward. Once you see the light, you will never look back. Things will turn around and you will go where you want, even if there are minor hurdles on the way.
2007-11-26 16:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one calm down go have a cup of hot cocoa or tea and quit stressing .You can only do so much ,and the way u feel now well welcome to adulthood .We feel like that alot.All u can do is do your best and keep your head up and dont miss any classes and things will fall into place. Smile someone loves you :)
2007-11-26 16:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by sgrmama2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
College is hard, but it will get better. Besides all that, you're so close!! Don't give up, you'll regret it later. Stick it out, give it your all and finish up. Your best is all they can ask of you so don't worry so much!!
Good luck.
2007-11-26 16:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gets some meds, eat right, and exercise. Talk with friends or counselors. You'll do better. Also, pray!
2007-11-26 16:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋