short version I recently broke up with my bf. but the other day I irresponsibly drank too much and needed him to take me home. He agreed to do that well he didnt want to come in so i got mad and kept hitting him in the car. he finally obliged and we ended up having sex. well I was regretful the next day and felt horrible about the whole situation. I offered my apology but was still drunk at the time
I dont want him-and he is trying to move on. I feel horrible about the situation. because he drove over 40 miles to pick me up and i broke up with him. and i never hit him. I feel like I need to apoligize soberly. but I dont want to drag the whole communication on. I sent him a brief text also but I really feel tormented by the whole experience.
2007-11-26 08:11:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A brief text doesn't cut it. You need to tell him what you said in the second paragraph - on the phone, or leave him a voice mail (make sure no one else has access to the inbox!), and apologize that way. Kinda far to go 40 miles, but at least on the phone.
2007-11-26 08:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have sent the text just leave it at that. Theres not much you can do except maybe write an apology email or letter. Just know not to drink to much again
2007-11-26 08:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by llexiann30 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You want to apologize to a guy that had sex with you while you were drunk?? How do you see that this is entirely your fault? You have anger issues and a drinking problem...may want to get those under control....
2007-11-26 08:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you are soooo sorry, and that you feel horrible about what you did. Tell him that you'll stay out of his life from now on, and wish him the best.
Then do that.
2007-11-26 08:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
write him an apology and drop it off in his mail box if you dont want to drag it out and vocally apologize.
or if you want, then call him and apologize
2007-11-26 08:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Next time, stay away from the alcohol and try to preserve your liver. It's the only one you have.
2007-11-26 08:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats hot.
2007-11-26 08:14:28 · answer #7 · answered by timssterling 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Say your apologies and then forgive yourself and let it go.
2007-11-26 08:16:16 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Please DONT GIVE BEING DRUNK AS AN EXCUSE
i hate people giving being drunk as an excuse even if its true
2007-11-26 08:16:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋