i am muslim with 2 kids living in middel east (not terrorist)any way my husband nearly a year ago had an affair with filippino woman older than him by 10 years.we are getting divorce i filled it.he lately made her come to live with his mom,she left her kids and even turned to muslim for his sake ,they are married now.at first he was not spending any money for the kids,but lately he has and he told me a very strange thing that she came to (our country)to get a re-entry visa to america,then she will send for him as she will find him a job in america,HE EVEN ONCE TOLD ME THAT HE DOES NOT HAVE THE LOVING HEART .he now tells me he was never in love with her and he sees her as a step for the greencard??never once did he tell me he is still in love with me he wants me to wait for him as he is in debt and need to go and work in america (he got his MBA from usa)what do u think?what are the chances of his working?his salary?do u think he will ever come back.
2007-11-26 22:13:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he didn't come back, you shouldn't care. Move on with your life and find a better man that will be faithful and happy with you and your kids.
2007-11-26 22:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question isn't whether he will ever come back its whether you would be foolish enought to take him back.
He will only ever come back if it all goes wrong for him - you are being used as his safety net. I am sorry but he doesn't love you and the sooner you distance yourself from him the better. He has not been a good Dad and hasn't stuck by his family either - he does not give you an environment suitable to raise children.
2007-11-27 06:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by Paul M 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ur husband 'left' u for another woman and is talking of moving to america with her and going to work. all this supposedly to make life better for u. wake up honey, the man is living a dream- he has a wife and kids on hold and a girlfriend with money for the meantime. i think the saddest part of ur question is that u are thinking only of him and his chances at success. what about u? what about ur babies? u are being used and cannot even see it!
2007-11-27 06:29:39 · answer #3 · answered by kiki68 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to urself would u re marry this jerk if he came back to u after using some lady for greencard even though that lady broke up ur marriage ur jerk ex husband & that lady deserve each other.
2007-11-27 06:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by extrememotionz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, he is trouble!!! He made his bed with her, now he has to sleep in it!!!!
Let him go, and live your own life, and keep your money to yourself, many years ago, I knew a guy, who married this girl for business purposes only, and it was a wreck, she could not speak english, and it was business for him and only him, they tried to have children but last time I talked to him, they did not,
She even went to Canada because she thought she could get a green card there, and she listened to the wrong person, and she got sent back to Mexico, and she called him for help and the jerk he was, he said, (and they were married), he said no, you got yourself into this, now you have to get yourself out of this!!!!!
Just let him go, you do not want to be involved in all of is crap!!!!!!!!
2007-11-27 06:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he has moved on, the middle east is dirt poor and Islam holds the whole place back. he is sick of the whole middle east and has left you and everything that you stand for, the pressures on him to be a good Arab father . the west is nice , he doesn't want to be an Arab in the middle east any more
2007-11-27 06:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by bdsmslavegirly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is not your concern hes married to someone else move on get your own husband and leave this woman man along if it works it work he wanted her not you so be happy move on love your self even if he didn't move on
2007-11-27 06:25:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He isnt worth the heartache. You should concentrate on your children and not your dead marriage. He sounds like a JERK! Tell him to "Yallah"!
2007-11-27 06:47:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not coming back. What will you do?
2007-11-27 06:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋