i caught my marine husband cheatin and i want to get him in big trouble on base..and i want to know wat rank should i go to in his company or battalion??? Please let me know the good stuff, he's tryin to get out of paying me alimony!!!!!
2007-11-26 16:58:08 · 11 answers · asked by DA-MRS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I not sure it explicitly says anywhere in the USMC code that an marine must remain faithful. This is a civillian matter and handled as such.
2007-11-26 17:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by tanzer360 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Whether or not he pays alimony will be based on the laws of your state of residence, the length of you marriage, and the difference in your relative incomes. In this day of no-fault divorce, whether or not he cheated will have no impact.
However, as has been pointed out, if you decide to make trouble for him in the Corps, you will severely limit your potential alimony payout. If he get drummed out of the Corps (which is possible in a case like this), his income will be much lower than it is now. Not only that, but you will both lose any military benefits, such as health insurance, retirement, etc.
Your best bet is probably to divorce him and ask for alimony if you wish. In most states, alimony is usually only granted for 1/2 of the length of the marriage, so if you have been married 20 years, you would get alimony for 10 years. The days of a man paying alimony for the rest of his life are pretty well gone.
You can screw up his career and make him pay for the infidelity you will also be screwing yourself financially.
2007-11-27 01:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by rlb1961 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe one of those radio collars they put on bears in the wilderness to see where they roam?
OK, that was a Joke... but if you are determined to get him into trouble with the Marines, which could end his career, then call his immediate supervisor and push it up the chain of command from there.
2007-11-27 01:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by eric_the_red_101 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oooh honey my blood boils for u just thinkin about this situation. my man is military too. i'm pretty sure commanding officer is who you call. sorry that you are going through this. i know u are angry but is there any chance you could work through this with him? after all he is your husband. was this a one time thing? or is this an ongoing affair that he wants to pursue? if he wants to be with this woman then of course you must divorce him and i hope you get everything you are entitled to. good luck
2007-11-27 01:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your best revenge would be a good lawyer. Make sure you ask and get some money in the papers. Once final, submit them to the local JAG office. He has no choice but to pay..........
2007-11-27 01:08:01 · answer #5 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call his commanding officer. I think cheating is not allowed in all of the armed forces.
2007-11-27 03:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact his commanding officer and the chaplain. Read the book Divorce Busters for how to handle cheaters, cheating, and the other woman.
Joy to you.
2007-11-27 01:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call his unit and ask to speak to the O.I.C. (officer in charge). Notify him of your situation and he'll get you started. Don't think he or she will try to sweep it under the rug, if it gets out they knew what was going on and tried to mislead you they know they could find themselves in trouble. Good luck.
2007-11-27 01:09:12 · answer #8 · answered by mrpuffandstuff 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find out who his commanding officer is.
2007-11-27 01:00:03 · answer #9 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't play dirty - it decreases your chance for the money!
2007-11-27 01:22:16 · answer #10 · answered by beffie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋