Yes this guy who has a long history of winning me over then avoiding me, (5 yrs worth). 5 yrs ago i said he had a small penis, but apologized. he seemed to understand. we have been talkign every day and even exchanged "ilove you" a few times. He wound up getting drunk, wacking on cam, and then avoiding me for a week. he came back on but sounde cold and rude. so i sent him a song of me singing to show him i did something embarassing too to maek him feel better. i still have not heard ANYTHIGN
2007-11-26 22:06:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think you need to take more control of this relationship and tell him what you expect of him
2007-11-26 22:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by RemRem :) 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would avoid him if you too are 12 or 15 whatever But grown men don't do that kinda stuff not if they are mature Hopefully u don't have keds if you do run even faster. I had a man just talk to me like that once 30 yrs he said call him i said no you call me Guess what i never answered the calls. Don't mess with this guy your asking for trouble.
2007-11-27 06:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He avoided you for a week, because he was so embarrassed, and what is this with guys wacking on cam???
Wierd.....whatever floats their boats, I guess!!!! Not a good thing to see, when you are having your coffee with cream!!!!!
Grosse!!!!!!!!!
Just let him go, any guy wacking off cam will make me totally lose interest and that person I would not want to have as a future husband and a future father to my children!!!!!!
Can you imagine if your future children saw that???
2007-11-27 06:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you really trying to figure out why this doesn't work?
You belittle him and his penis, and you belittle him to the point he feels he should play with himself drunk on camera for you instead of being with you. The guy is obviously emotionally scarred by your calling him out physically.
Either you accept him for what he is - or isn't - or just turn him loose. This is supposed to be a lot farther along in five years. In any case, you'd best keep insecure thoughts to yourself, as your insecurities probably cost you a shot at loving this man who is still attracted to you.
2007-11-27 06:39:54 · answer #4 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a jerk is not a real man and a jerk is not ready for a real relationship, forget about this guy, he does not love you, if he did, he would be there for you always! there are guys out there who are not jerks, go find one! =) good luck! =) and make sure you find one who does not play around online...
2007-11-27 06:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time... for you to move on to greener pastures. This one is old, brown and hibernating. Leave him and find someone better.
2007-11-27 07:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by Brewspy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the check spelling works great it seems that you like him more than he likes you fives years should be enough give up move on
2007-11-27 06:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
To be honest, he's a jerk. But he isn't as stupid as you are for sticking with him. Give him the boot!!!
2007-11-27 06:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by Paul M 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
either he is feeling really embarressedor he is just a jerk.Why waste your time on him.
2007-11-27 06:16:59 · answer #9 · answered by lollypop 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
And you posted this in Marriage & Divorce whyyyyyy???????
2007-11-27 09:05:29 · answer #10 · answered by Elt 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋