Ex-wife now thinks she's pregnant and an old girlfriend who he was with after the ex-wife just dropped a baby last week, and there is no doubt that the baby is his; the problem is I'm new and all of this at once is hitting me like a ton of bricks. We love each other very much, and he says he will be devastated if I leave him, he said he should have kept everything to himself. I'm just wondering if I should stick it out, be supportive ...HELP??????
2007-11-26 16:30:18 · 32 answers · asked by Jus2Sexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ooooooooh lah-zee me, that is a lot of drama. That would be too much drama for bob, but you are you. Think about it long and hard and do what is best for you.
2007-11-26 16:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats really scary, this man has obviously been in and out of bed with alot of women, even the ex-wife proves a point..you may love him but will you relationship be happily ever after or just another dumped gf? People can definately change, and I'm not saying things can't work, but a your heart is a big thing to sacrifice, don't let it in the wrong hands
2007-11-26 16:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by JAM 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your life will be hell if you stay with him unless your the kind of woman who let him deal with all his exes (his messes) and children and just go get your nail and /or hair done.
Don't forget there will be all kinds of custody, visitation, medical, school, vacations, holiday, etc. problems to deal with for two different exes - not to mention: graduations, school plays, music recitals, dating, proms, and their weddings where he will be there with the exes to support the children as well he should. You will be on the back burner with this guy - look at the drama he's given you already. His actions speak louder than words. He should just go back to exwife.
Recommend you find someone who is available to give you the attention you deserve.
Single women, never marry a divorced man with children or this is what happens.
Joy to you..
2007-11-26 16:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has loved many women LMAO You are young and dumb. Here are some facts before you make another other decisions about love:
1. There is no Santa
2. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
3. Marriage sucks
4. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
5. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me
if you want honest answers from a man that doesn't
lie anymore.
2007-11-27 00:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to be a part of all of this. You went into a new relationship for the fun of being in a new relationship that is entirely yours. Why do you want to share the beauty of a new relationship with so many people and so much drama. Get out of this, and have him clean his own mess. He's a grown man, and he can cry this one out alone for a little while.
2007-11-26 16:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by achung23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stick it out. Give him a chance. A lot of gentleman have children and are now divorced or had children with a girlfriend. If you love each other 'very much' definitely stand by him. I'm sure he'll appreciate your help as the kids grow up.
2007-11-26 16:41:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well let's see he already has 2 kids by 2 different women... eventually you two will want kids so there is more kids less money. Do you really want all that drama in your life???? Run don't walk to the nearest exit. Find someone with a lot less baggage.
2007-11-26 16:43:48 · answer #7 · answered by Married Lady 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
so is the ex-wife whos pregnant got his kid??? if so wouldnt he have had to been cheation on the old girlfriend with his ex-wife in order to get her pregnant and the girlfriend?
dosnt sound like the kinda guy i would want to be in a relationship with after all this drama
i think id be outa there.
2007-11-26 16:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you stick it out in 6 months you're going to be part of the baby mama drama. You should have left skid marks getting away from that guy.
2007-11-26 16:34:21 · answer #9 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is way too many baggage and way too many mistakes of his part. These women will never leave you alone and if he is really the father there is nothing you can do from stopping them to see each other or talk to each other or argue with one another. So my suggestion is for you to leave and have no regret you didn't do anything wrong.
2007-11-26 16:36:04 · answer #10 · answered by caliguy_30 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh sure.... stick it out-- but you'll be on the losing end.......the dude is a cheater and needs someone to cling to at the moment, and that (at the moment) is YOU> specially if you have a job (someone to help pay child support) I agree with others here:
Run, ... Run like Forrest Gump and DON'T LOOK BACK!
(sad thing is the majority of women like you don't have the backbone to walk away from a mess like this, and they end up in it despite the good advice given from others looking in from the outside......Sad, so sad)
2007-11-26 17:00:50 · answer #11 · answered by LIzzz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋