MEN ONLY !! What do you want from a woman?

Question

Please give me a clue. What is the number one thing that women do to turn you off, bore you, piss you off, wish like hell you never met her, ect. you know all the stuff you men should let us women know so we're not constantly playing the guessing game.

Answer 1

Hmmm....I see your very frustrated, and I do not know what is behind it. From my perspective, as a formerly abused divorced guy who treats women like gold, I can give a few pointers;
1. No friendly fire incidents; we are ON your side, and are not (usually) the cause of what has you upset. Ripping us to shreds while we are trying so hard to be supportive of you is abusive and makes us feel as though we are payin for what you went through.
2. A bad mood does not mean that a woman can behave horrifically any more than it allows a guy to. Yes, we all have our moments, but women do tend to take it too far.
3. Don't expect us to be psychic. Some things need to be communicated, not just sensed. It is unreasonable.
4. We are not women, and have different ways of feeling, thinking, and looking at things, yet we are expected to somehow be ourselves (and intimate), yet cannot be even slightly different from you.
5. When things go wrong (and they will), please don't go apeshit. It only makes a bad situation worse.
6 Show us your desire(s) and let us really know you. This includes letting lose in the bedroom, being aggressive in pursuing your pleasures (that makes us feel actually wanted and less like a begger/servant). Let us see you fully and totally, not holding back.
7. Give us some indication of happiness from time to time. Just a warm smile once in a while can really make our day (no alterior motive please).
8. Lighten up on the gossip, drama, etc...esp. the celeb. stuff. Not everything needs to be shared. You can have your interests that we don't care for and vice versa. This space helps keep things fresh, and lets us appreciate you more.
9. While you should be appreciated in your own ways, we should be too. We are as unique as women are, and yet are rarely treated that way.
10. Just lighten up on us. Ask yourself if what you're upset over is something you'll even remember in a month or a year, then see if there's a better way to deal with it. Maybe something positive (I'd love it if you'd...... instead of why must you....).

This is from my experience, and may not be applicable for you.

Answer 2

1. Honesty
2. Faithfulness
3. Loving
4. Supportive
5. Caring
6. Devotion
7. Commitment "ability to commit to marriage"
8. Great sex and lots of it.
9. Generousity
10.Independent "Meaning not needy"
11. Employed
12. Happy
13. Open-minded
14.Belief in God
15. Nice family
16. Pretty or Hot
17. Athletic or fit
18. Understanding
19. Handles Compromise
20. Non-Materialistic
21. Not a Shopaholic
22. Shares similar interests
23. Has good outlook on life
24. Educated
25. Classy but not snobby
26. Respectful
27. Trusting
28. NO jealousy
29. NO head games
30. Leave snottiness and rudeness at home.
31. be considerate of others
32.Compassionate
33. NO teasing
34. Good communication
35. Able to give up friends if they cause conflict in the relationship be it a guy or a girl or even family.
36. Able to put relationship first.

These are just a few average guy

Answer 3

Number one turn off: Dishonesty. Even "in the little things" -- gotta be real to roll with bob.

Number one boring thing: If I am bored with a girl, I am probably bored with myself, so I need to get with the program.

Number one piss off thing: Infidelity.

Wish like hell I had never met her: This girl back in college who we actually got the police called on us in the middle of the night in the dorm because, in her hysteria, she threw something, I ducked, and she shattered the mirror. Nice job with that one, bob.

Stuff you want to know about men: Food and sex. It's pretty basic.

Best of luck.

Answer 4

What do I really want from a woman? Pure love, respect, honest, companionship, peace of mind, growth and progress, support, helper, sex, understandable polite, energetic and reasonable woman with career oriented. God fearing woman.
Things that women do to turn me off is when she is dis respective with altitudes associated with mood swings. She does piss me off when she ignore me. stone walling as I can call it. Crying unnecessary got me bored and left out the house.

Answer 5

I tell you in two words only an only

"Understainging and compatibility"

Requirements for above two vary man to man. Cant define every one here. Try to observe and understand. Also on the other end you will also not feel comfortbale with some boy you dont like or he does not understand you only care of his needs from you

Answer 6

only two things i want from a woman, everything else is workable.
what r those two things you ask:
1) honesty
2) truthfulness
and yes, they r different.
evidentally they r the hardest things a woman can give because i haven't met a woman yet that could accomplish 1...let alone both.

Answer 7

One woman man always

Answer 8

Disrespect turns me off instantly. Respect is my number 1 requirement.

Answer 9

It is not only the looks but the way she respect me as her partner.

I hate and so discouraging to see entertaining strangers to me.

It is no longer a competition when both of you are married together.

Answer 10

Turn offs:

Needy
Drama Mama
Always stressed out
Clingy
Depressed