Marriage & Divorce - 21 November 2007

The answer to above question is 'the same urge dogs have while chasing cars they have no intention of driving'.

But, my question is hw many of yu like being sought after by (wo)men, as the most cutest and hottest?

How many like passers-by, of opposite $ex, throwing admiring glances at yu?

2007-11-21 23:48:12 · 8 answers · asked by 13 5

we just got married on Nov. 5th of this year. We have never had trust issues in the past. Here and there he enjoys playing hold em at the casino and when he goes, he stays for HOURS! well, he gets off work last night and calls me to tell me he and the guys will be at the casino playing poker. This was around 10pm. It is now 4:53 AM and he is not home and his phone is OFF!!!!!!!!!! Here starts the doubts with me. Anytime he has gone to the casino before, I could ALWAYS reach him. Now I am scared and upset because even if he is at the casino, its thanksgiving and we will be with my family today & he is going to be all tired.

This really hurts right now. Now I can't sleep :(

2007-11-21 22:55:28 · 24 answers · asked by blah 3

I call him 4 times in a day to avoid him suspecting that am not at work. But he still feels I cheat on him and now it is hurting me coz i have never seen another man's nakedness ever since i knew him 3 years ago. I feel like double crossing him coz it pains to branded what u r not. Please help.

2007-11-21 22:48:51 · 35 answers · asked by michellelar 1

We've been married for 12yrs & still childless..I work In Dubai in order to help my family& he agreed on it..After 3 & a half yrs,I learned that he's having an affair.I immediately give up my job coz I want to save our marriage.When I confront him,he told me that I can't blame him as i took him granted as I prioritize helping my family rather than building our own family.I was stunned as I can't believe that he has dis grudge for over 12 yrs & and he didn't tell me about it.He even said that it was his 1st tym to be treated lyk a king as his mistress give her 100% attention jas 4 him.& now he said that he doesn't love me anymore.But God knows how much I love my husband,for I give up everything jas for him & i've been faithful to him since we got married.Even they live together at our own house,I still 4give him & even now that they're still 2gether,I didn't say a word coz I want to show him that I will endure everything jas to have him back.he stays weekends 2 his girl & weekdays w/ me

2007-11-21 22:34:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married in India, The respondent didnt appear or appointed any lawyer, and the decree was passed, can she now contest in any of the Indian court, can I go a head and get married again .

2007-11-21 22:32:11 · 2 answers · asked by vinod c 1

This is not something that is going on in my life. But I was married to a man similar to this 13 years ago and know where she's coming from. But a friend of mine, her husband is so jealous of her and she would never cheat on her husband. He does things like check the milage on her car, and whenever she gets off from work he knows it takes her exactly 18 min to get home. She cant be over 20 min. If a car rides by their house more than once then he assumes they are riding by to see if he is home and looking for her and she will not even know who they are. She will be somewhere in public and he will acuse her of starring at another guy and she has no idea what he is talking about. Why would someone put there self through that? Sitting and wondering all day what there wife or husband is doing all the time. To me that is not a healthy relationship and it does not seem like love. More like possession. Your opinions please

2007-11-21 22:30:37 · 21 answers · asked by rene1695 5

I am a very emotional girl.....i find myself getting moody/jealous or worried about the smallest things.....
examples are....my boyfriend not replying when i txt him....or him acting a little distant - i can turn that into him going off me and i can worry myself sick that its soon gunna be over...and i am losing him

I am always obsessing over what i cant have, and this makes me moody...i came back from uni this yr and dont have alot of mates in the area...id like more and i get jealous of my bf as he has a massive group of mates and they are constantly wanting to see him.....
im feeling in competition with them alot of the time,although its me making me feel like that not him...i feel my life revolves around him alot and i dont like that but i dont have alot of mates so its hard to change that.

Anyone got any advice for me, i need to snap out of it as im causing issues with my bf, and i dont want that as hes really great....i think hes the one which is why i wana sort this out!

2007-11-21 22:23:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long story cut short, my husband's parents are coming over for thanksgiving. I do not mind these people normally. However I feel that my mother in law mentioning that she always had their dinner ready EARLY (around 2 pm) was like asking me to rearrange my thanksgiving dinner plans, and I'm rather offended. I do not like eating dinner at 2 pm and I will not eat dinner at 2 pm as I am used to eating thanksgiving dinner around 5, 5:30 at the latest. Also she did not have any plans to come over and "hang out" with her youngest (of 2) sons. She literally asked us to call her when dinner was about finished!! I think it's so she can come over, stuff her face quickly, then leave me with dishes for five people (DH will be asleep on the sofa inevitably.) Nevermind that I have lots of cocktail finger food available and would enjoy having them over for football and munchies.

I'm exasperated at this point, and talking to my husband does absolutely nothing but put him on the defensive. HELP!!!

2007-11-21 22:19:13 · 3 answers · asked by bostongirl_1981 2

Ok to make a long story short, my man of 10 1/2 yrs cheated on me with a known homewrecker(she purposely goes after only taken men), anyways we decided to stay together and work it out, and he has told this girl, but she wont quit calling and texting him and me. She leaves some pretty scandalous messages, and they are mostly lies.(I know cuz she will say he is right there next to her or whatever, but he is really with me) and I tell him to tell her, and he says he has, yet I never have heard him do it. And he will say he doesnt have to prove anything to me. (HELLO YES YOU DO YOU BURNED ME IDIOT) LOL but 4 reals, how can I get her to stop?

2007-11-21 22:10:51 · 22 answers · asked by desire69666 1

I accidentally found my son's suicide letter when i was cleaning his room and he is planning to end his life this christmas....

i dont know how it would end up like this where my son his having counselling now but its like i finally realised my son is a completely a different person from the person i know since his birth after i read his letter..... my son's name is Alex and he is always a happy and optimistic boy as our family knows it and everyday back home he would tell all about his happy things about school and all about his friends except i found out he made up it all up after revealing it in his letter in his letter he thinks of this world as cruel and cold but we never knew he would even think about that... maybe i did not put enough care for my son but i just dont know why Boys tend to keep all their feelings inside them....

now I am worried my younger son which is only 13 this year im afraid he would turn into his brother later...Please Help us???

2007-11-21 21:29:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi,
I am in really sad situation. I met this man 1 year ago, he was married but his marriage was going nowhere. He was trying to make this woman happy for 20 years but they both felt miserable together. He left his wife and after a while we start living together (10 moths till now). We really love each other we have a great time, we fit together, it were 9 moths of full happiness. Recently he start hesitating if he did the right thing, he is missing his home, his child, the family life. So he says he loves me very much but at the same time he might want to go back and try with his wife again (the divorce hasn't finished yet) although he says he doesn't love her. I don't know what to do, what to say. It's a nightmare... We are crying all the time, he is really confused, me too. He says his wife has changed and may be they will work it out, at the same time he has a great relationship with me.

Anyway, one advice form me - do not fall in love with married person...

2007-11-21 20:05:27 · 14 answers · asked by rallka 1

i ve been married 5 years and we are together 10 years and we have 2 small children Last nigh when he was sleeping i saw in his mobile fhotos of making love in hotel,ourcar,my mother in law house and in our home with a woman which is happen to know her and talk not mutc iam so scared that my family fall apart idont want my mother and my father to know this it wil kill them and the husbant love the childern very much To me he says he loves me and never want to divorce he is saying that he is going to die if a leave him and does not see the children i dont know what to do

2007-11-21 19:35:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

like have $3x with their partner or seeing them cheating on you if so what was it and what did you do about it.

2007-11-21 19:26:43 · 7 answers · asked by p-nut butter princess 4

2007-11-21 19:18:42 · 5 answers · asked by jayanta c 1

...am I stupid for thinking he ever will???

2007-11-21 19:17:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yes, I'm attracted to this guy, but I love my husband dearly. Is it considered cheating if I go out to a bar with this guy after work (we get out at midnight) for an hour? I know nothing will happen, but I wonder if others will see it the same way.

2007-11-21 18:57:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are a very young couple: she is 22 and I am 26 and I am becoming very frustrated, and I have had blue balls serveral times. She also wont take a shower with me and being affectionate is of no concern to her. What should I do?

2007-11-21 18:24:42 · 16 answers · asked by Mi vida 1

How can a person say they love their spouse and then have sex with someone else...knowing it would break their spouse's trust and heart if he/she ever found out? Is it really that difficult to honor marriage vows and be faithful? I don't think it is so hard.

I don't think I'll ever understand how one person can do that to another person.

2007-11-21 17:46:25 · 32 answers · asked by ncgirl 3

I came home today after a hard day at work and my husband said he had a surprse for us. He bought a leaf blower!!! I couldn't believe he spent our money on this. What should I do???

2007-11-21 17:40:10 · 27 answers · asked by Thinkaboutit 4

i have been married i thout she was the one but i was wrong we divorced. now i just dont know what to do i have been with my new (i hope she is the one) grilfrend for two years.i want to marry her but i dont know if i can take a nother let down.please help.thank you

2007-11-21 17:36:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-21 17:34:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been married for almost three months.
it was great at the beggining, we were both totally in love and everything was wonderful.
the thing is that i moved hundreds of miles away from my family and im sad alot because of this.
he works all the time and we barely spend any time together.
when hes home hes eigther too tired or hes on the computer or he wants to watch a movie.i miss just spending time alone with him and talking and being funny.
we dont get alot of quality time anymore.
im afraid hes not as much in love as he used to be.
or am i just exajerating?
he does love me so much but sometimes i just want him to hold me and kiss me when im sad but he rarely does that.
sometimes i think he might be taking me for granted.
he used to cry at the thought of us being apart for weeks and now it seems like he doesnt pay as much attention to me. houldworry? or am i just being too sensitive?
guys, is this normal of you all? what do you think?

2007-11-21 17:34:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

the wife or the husband? and, if the husband does help out what does he do?My husband thinks that the only thing a man should do in a house is use the remote. so i was wondering if other husbands were the same way. or , if i should kick his *** and make him do something.

2007-11-21 17:31:04 · 10 answers · asked by amt 4

My husband hates my friends. He always told me to hang out with his best friend's wife caz she was so different from my choice of friends. I only met his best friend and wife once. My husband and I have noticed that ever since they first met me they never ever come around us. We have invited them to come meet our first baby and for birthdays but they never do. Out of the blue his friend calls him but I've noticed that they don't even ask for the baby . Just the other day his friend's wife called our home, I answered the phone she only asked to speak to my husband she didn't say hello to me just is your husband home. I didn't know who it was so I gave the phone to him. I heard them talk a lot I also heard him giving her his cell phone and email address. She claimed that her husband has been trying to get a hold of him. To me it all smells fishy. Later I told my sister in law who happens to be my best friend. She told me that my husband used to live with his best friend and wife for

2007-11-21 17:30:04 · 3 answers · asked by Baby 2

2007-11-21 17:25:08 · 5 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4

Who will i marrie when i get older?A boy a girl?When ? What time of year?What day?Will i even get married

2007-11-21 17:22:50 · 4 answers · asked by Chanel T 1

My divorce was final last sept my ex has taken my son away I havent seen him since may this year I am going into court for this custody battle again all I want is my son back my ex is making up false allegations about me lies and i am no danger to my son I have had to do even supervised visits I have had 4 visits all were awesome reports my question is my attorney has requested at least 5 times via a legal letter to have ,me see my son on my normal weekend visits and my ex wife atty denies me. also my ex had done some things behind my back to call my therapist and talk to the behind my back. I have a good atty now we go into court all i want is my son back on my weekend visits like normal. All my life it was my parents and I who took care of my son the most. My ex is jealous because my son loves us the most.

2007-11-21 17:14:58 · 4 answers · asked by mr_nvsbl 1

I am thinking about myrtle or sheldon

if you can think of any other names this will be great!!!!!!!!!!

ALSO I am thinking if it will be to cold will he die????????????? win I was younger I had won of those fighting fish an I kept feedin him EVERYDAY like NORMAL and then i went back won day and he was totaly dead :(

after af ew minutes of looking at him I thought OH MY GOSH THE WATER IS TOO COLD!! Cause I lived in a place that wasnt really considered to be a "HOUSE" it was more of something elce. So he died an i felt always soooooooooooo sad. So does the coldness take any offect to them?????

Cause Im thinking I need some new company. I have a son who is 7 months odl and I just kicked my new boyfriend out of the pad cause hew as no good for me. So I am thinking of welcoming a new turtle to the family. Then it will make three of us :)

A new happy family. Also what do they eat??????

2007-11-21 17:04:12 · 10 answers · asked by ★ Vaginal Discount ★ 4

2007-11-21 17:01:52 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband's ex-wife tries to get everything we have build up. She goes to the court whenever she wants. I plan to start my own business, however, if I do make money and buy a flat later, will she be able to claim all my earnings and asserts, only because I have married to her ex-husband?

2007-11-21 17:00:02 · 4 answers · asked by aoilondon 1